posted November 22, 2004 04:11 PM              

..i have my venus and mercury in gemini, but i am soo inarticulate.

i just have big troubles expressing my feelings in the best way possible...leaving me frustrated cos i'm thinking 'thats not exactly what i meant'

after years of not talking, now I love to talk and communicate, but I wanna do it beautifully or not at all; i wanna exspress myself to the utmost in as few words as possible....

you know?

posted November 22, 2004 04:29 PM              

Sun Cancer 13°15'47 08 direct
Moon Capricorn 05°51'34 02 direct
Mercury Gemini 23°44'10 07 direct
Venus Gemini 12°00'15 07 direct
Mars Libra 15°02'29 11 direct
Jupiter Scorpio 00°31'45 11 direct
Saturn Libra 15°44'36 11 direct
Uranus Sagittarius 01°04'00 12/1 retrograde
Uranus is technically near the end of house 12 and is interpreted in house 1.
Neptune Sagittarius 25°10'52 01 retrograde
Pluto Libra 24°06'58 11 stationary (D)
True Node Cancer 13°20'49 08

posted November 22, 2004 05:56 PM            

With neptune influencing your speech/thoughts, its often hard for you to understand what you're trying to say, as well as others. This aspect is known for miscommunications.

Try writing down your thoughts first if you have something really important to say. Your pluto trine can counter your neptune opposition, you simply have to organize your thoughts in advance. Pluto will add a piercing and focused quality if you allow it to.

posted November 22, 2004 06:26 PM              

Moonbaby,

posted November 23, 2004 03:02 PM              

oh, good venus aspects hey? yea I do have good friendships. i have always been lucky when it comes to meeting people, cos I seem to attract amazing people who are interesting and have things going on; they choose me cos I'm easy with anyone...must be that pesky mars in libra...aaarrrgghh

sthenri...why am i heard more LATER in life?

posted November 23, 2004 07:55 PM              

I too am only heard more Later in life, hmmm, I also would like to know why that is.

When I read your first post on this thread, It was like a mirror reflecting exactly what I go through. I find I want to appear intellegent, and articulate, but if I put my mind to it I have the ability, but I have a dominant lazy placement in my chart so I really have to be in the mood. Or if I communicate in a lazy way I become quite resentful, and end up feeling like a complete dag.

posted November 24, 2004 07:44 AM              

I know a lot of Gemini's and they may have the gift of gab, but when it comes to talking about "feelings", they shy away... Seems that they can't put words in where feelings are concerned. They would rather talk about anything else under the sun.

posted November 24, 2004 03:11 PM              

so, they are really not that flighty afterall

posted November 24, 2004 06:18 PM              

I have literally put the phone down, gone off for a few minutes to do a couple of things and come back and she was still talking up a storm. Never knowing I was gone. It's bad - not to mention annoying. She never fails at running out the tape of an answering machine - ALWAYS. Just babbling on........and on and on and on and on and on...........and on and on.....

My friends hated calling the house when I was a teenager because they knew if she answered they wouldnt be able to get off the phone. We'd go to the grocery store - or anywhere for that matter, when I was younger and she would always see at least one person she knew and would talk that person's ear off (and we didnt live in a small town). I've got to take a closer look at her chart now. But I've figured out the main culprit......

Sun conjunct Mercury. A one degree orb, in the seventh house.

Then there's me. I have Mercury in Taurus in the third house. In a mutual reception with Venus in Gemini in the fifth. You'd think I'd be a talker wouldnt you? Nope, I'm not. Maybe it's because my Merc's in Taurus. But it's in the third house so that shouldnt matter. I believe it's because I have CHIRON conjunct Mercury. Chiron shows your wound. In the third and conjunct Mercury tells alot.

All my life I've been asked "Why are you so quiet?" Of course with people I know well and am comfortable with, I'm not that "shy" or quiet. But even in general, I dont have alot to say for the most part. I think it's a Taurus thing.

posted November 24, 2004 06:37 PM              

26T-I have the same aspect with Mercury and maybe you project that talkative quality on to others. Except that I do talk a lot for work, even if I wish I didn't. By the end of the night I'm hoarse.

As for babbling, try Gemini Ascendant conjunct Uranus, that woman talked for hours non stop to anyone. And my ex with Gemini Moon conjunct Ascendant can really talk. I have walked out of the room on him many times.

He still calls to tell me I used to do that!

posted November 24, 2004 06:52 PM              

I know an older lady like that, very Piscean and smart as a whip. Her husband died a long time ago. Another reason reminding me why marriage scares me - Married for 12 years, but a widow for 40.

But, no disrespect because even she would laugh at herself over this, with total delight, as a matter of fact.

She was into Science of Mind too, way back when no one heard of it.

She used to walk with her mother down the New York street to eat at THE original Stouffer's before they even went "frozen". THAT type of lady.

posted November 24, 2004 07:01 PM              

Youve gone into some weird time warp and met the future version of my mother .....

....God help me.

I can only imagine how she'll be when she's an old lady. *gasps*

But yeah, you know.....my mom can laugh at herself about it too. The wierd part she has read Science of Mind too. (I gave her one of those books.) She's actually a pretty neat lady - way ahead of her time.

......just LOVES to talk. .......there's worse things to be though....right?

"blah, blah, blah.....blahblah..."

posted November 25, 2004 03:51 AM              

OMG "Broadway"?? She has always dreamt of becoming an actress or a singer. Even now, still, she talks about taking singing lessons. There was always music blaring in our house growing up. And my mother singing at the top of her lungs. Mostly Carly Simon, Joni Mitchell, Shawn Colvin.....James Taylor, Paul Simon.....who else??....cant remember. She LOVES to sing. She's on the Leo cusp. If you know what I mean. No one would ever label her "shy".

.....looking a little closer here, she's got Uranus and Pluto in Leo......Uranus conjunct that Mercury and Sun.

posted November 25, 2004 04:53 AM              

OH MY GOUD ...that is too funny.

posted November 25, 2004 05:59 AM              

you guys crack me up!!

I have a natal retrograde Merc conj sun in Gemini...ouch!

I really notice it on places like this though--what I THINK I'm saying (if I say anything--a lot of times I don't think I have anything interesting to add) and what it comes across as--two totally different pairs of shoes here!

At home I talk and talk...our poor au pair...she's always trying to get a word in edgewise...she's a virgo, so likes to talk, too. Of course, I talk faster, so I win

lol