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posted November 22, 2004 04:27 PM            

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Please I need help maybe some Pisces out there can help me out or just anyone. Is it not enough that I am emotional just being a Pisces, but when PMS comes around I lose my mind. The good thing is PMS does not get me every month just every 2 or three months.

My guy is a Aqua I already send him into a frenzy sometimes by my emotional antics well I donot think they are that bad but bc he is that detatched Aquarius they seem bad to him. This past weekend I was the worst we argued the whole weekend and he was really pist, he is usually well mild mannered. I just could not help myself I requested somethings from him and when I did not think that he moved fast enough at getting them to me I snapped a lil. That was friday night. He told me to please keep it settle explained to me that he had not yet had the opportunity to do respond to my request right away and may be we should talk later when I calm down. I say skip you we don't have to talk anymore period. So I text him on Saturday and he text me back and asked me why am I fussin he has not done anything, So when it ends I say I am PMSin talk to you when feeling better. He text me Sunday and asked me am I feeling better I say yes things seem like they are going to be okay he even wanted to see me. Again be fore we could get into each others face I requested something and he did not deliver fast enough and we had it out again. This time he snapped off. I sometimes run low on patience and can be real emotional, I just think that if I do not control it some I might lose him and I have gotten him close to me it took a minute but I know that he cares for me deeply. Just don't know what to do???????

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posted November 22, 2004 04:30 PM              

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I've got it ... it's a family secret passed down through the ages - so you cannot share with anyone else. Does this person in need like Pizza?

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posted November 22, 2004 04:33 PM            

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Yes love it....

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posted November 22, 2004 04:51 PM              

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If you don't live with each other, may be you two could stop talking for a few days? Just until you feel settled. Letting him know you are not feeling well and that it's hormones and not him.

I used to do that with my ex-boyfriend and it worked. He kept track of possible PMS days and kept his cool if I forgot . . .

Good Luck

It sounds like he cares. Just be sure you do something before you lose someone that wonderful from your life.

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posted November 22, 2004 04:54 PM              

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OK then - go to a gourmet restaurant and arrive with this to-go order. Make sure it is White Pizza - have them add fresh garlic bits, artichokes, and spinach can get really tasty here.

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posted November 22, 2004 05:06 PM            

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Aphrodite: No we do not live with each other and that is what I suggested to him that maybe we take a few days to get it together. I say we cus I fogot to mention that when we were going to c each other I was going to go up to his job, but bc of my attitude I changed my mind. So he says Well okay we will reconnect later. So I say well can't I see you tonight when you get off he says no cause I have to be in court in the morning(he's a cop) and I am really tired. I got mad and threw in his face how I sacrifice my sleep sometimes to hang out with him pass midnight knowing Ihave to be up at 5something to get ready for work. Why did I do that just sent him into a storm. That was just me not getting what I want. SO after he told me how he felt about that (check me might I add) I just said ok you are tired and I am still somewhat pmsin maybe after a few days thing will be better. Bye and that was it. Ths was all last night.

AJ: How will that make me feel better if you will????

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posted November 22, 2004 05:10 PM              

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Hmm, did you check your Mercury signs? As I was reading, it sounded like one of you has Mercury in an Earth sign . . .

See how they are compatible . . .

I have Mercury in Aries and my ex-bf had Mercury in Aquarius . . . so this area worked out okay.

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posted November 22, 2004 05:12 PM              

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OH!! You the one with the problem. OK.

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posted November 22, 2004 05:17 PM            

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Aphrodite both are Merc in in AQUA. What does that mean????

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posted November 22, 2004 05:18 PM            

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AJ is that Bad. Help a sisa out!!!!! LOL...

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posted November 22, 2004 05:21 PM              

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Eh . . . is either one square Uranus in Scorpio???

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posted November 22, 2004 05:32 PM            

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Not real clear on all this yet. So I don't know how can I find out??? Or if I send some info to you can you tell...

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posted November 22, 2004 05:59 PM              

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Communication does suck when one's mercury is square the other's Uranus.

As for PMS, it makes you want to communicate more, that's the trouble. So you can't cut it off, dont' even try.

Being an emotional PMS women myself, Just communicate to someone else, like minded. That is the solution to most problems of an emotional nature. Remember you will hate him totally for no reason, give him slack. Get lots of sleep and drink water, no coffee. Tell yourself, you look great and feel good as much as you can.

Be sure to warn him when PSM is coming, don't be afraid of that. Aquas like this kind of thing, that is knowing in advance to prepare.

My friend who is an Aqua says he loves PMS because since he knows when it is now, for his Scorpio girlfriend, he can prepare. He also says that's her "needy" time. Maybe he likes the control? Try telling him when it's coming.

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posted November 22, 2004 06:05 PM            

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Now that I understand. Thankyou Natasha...
And aphrodite and Aj thankyou ladies..

Natasha that is exactly how I feel want to communicate with him so much these last few days and realized how needy I am feeling too I will have to tell him when we get another chance to talk. Right now things are too hot, I will let them cool off.,

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