posted December 07, 2004 10:41 PM            

I would like to talk about the Virgo-Aquarius Love Affair. Not like there's Someone in Particular that is a Virgo. But I just love them. Two of the greatest Loves I have had so far were Virgos. There is something about them that seduces me mind, body and soul. Their unassuming sensuality, their commanding humilty, their beautiful faces....(eyes). I find they tend to have such lovely hands too. They are so pure yet so kinky! (the ones I have known..) So holy and profane at the same time. Etheral and Worldly. Half here half unattainable. Their incredible little gray cells! Their calm when you are distressed and their general state of unease the rest of the time. The way they are at their best at the foot of your bed. No matter what is happening, how angry they are- they hear you cough and suddenly they melt.."are you okay?" ("do you want me to heal you?") The Healers. Linda has a pretty unoptimistic view of this relationship (Virgo & Aquarius). But then again what she says is also so beautiful- that these two will only stay together if it's true love...other can make it through years and years of comfortable but not quite IT relationships. But not these two- both idealists, no? It is manifested differently- when the Virgo gets fussy and the Aquarian, dogmatic....but in their soul they are both really searching for that ideal state.

posted December 08, 2004 09:10 PM            

But, the downside of this is that while he's never thrown by any of my kookiness, it's also difficult to get him caught up in my enthusiasms, which is something I enjoy. He listens and smiles and when I do something really off the wall he can't help but get a huge grin on his face and tell me he loves me, but he's so quiet about it... sometimes I could use a little fiery passion. His is so quiet and refined. But I'm learning to appreciate this. (Although it does feel kind of unfulfilling at times.)

posted December 08, 2004 09:47 PM              

It's good to have one partner that is steadier than the other.

posted December 09, 2004 08:35 PM            

yeah...I'm glad to see you're all feeling the love to..heheh..I'm so giddy tonight

I know what you mean future_uncertain, sometimes you want them to be wild with you and not just love how wild you are...*sigh*..but yes we have to learn to love that about them too..and I do.

sthenri, I'm glad you don't have a fascist view of compatibility (earth-water, air-fire only)!

posted December 10, 2004 02:41 AM              

Whiterabbit- beautiful words.

Sthenri-Aries, Aqua & Taurus for Virgos? How interesting. Really? Hmm, Hmm, Hmm. something to think about.

posted December 10, 2004 12:28 PM              

lets see..

moon square moon
his venus trine my sun, moon & venus
his pluto and uranus conj. my sun/moon/venus

however unpredictable, our connection was great. i can blame our ending on uranus and our squared moons.

posted December 10, 2004 01:29 PM            

Also, very nice to read about the unconformists compatability views. I adore Arians (I have not known many aquarians-only women so I can't comment) but I think I get on best with fire and air signs. Taureans, again, I only know women, but they seem to like me even if they annoy me half the time ( the other half they're like rays of sunshine on cloudy days)!

posted December 10, 2004 11:56 PM            

Buggin out- don't worry, that aquarian friends with benefits thing is safe- hehehe..unless you get too attached. Just take it for what it is- a universal spreadin' the love kinda deal.

posted December 11, 2004 12:27 AM              

My most significant and longest lasting relationships have both been with Virgos. Sex tends to get off to a slow start, but they are determined and avid learners, and MUST know what makes YOU tick before they really open up.

But I love the conversations I can have with them. You can say anything and they won't be shocked or appalled or taken aback, or even chastice you for saying it. They just offer their own intelligent opinion. Even if they just formed it on the spot, it's still well thought out and intelligent. I have an Aquarian moon. Perhaps that's why I appreciate that about them so much.

As for the sex part, they are the perfectionists, aferall. I don't really mind the cerebral approach in that area eithor. They have a nice blend of cerebral and sensual going on.

I think what I appreciate most about them is their integrity. I trust them. And that's important to me. Maybe they're not all truly trustworthy, but they know how to give the impression that they are.

How do you get some lovin out of a Virgo? Don't seem needy and too lusty. That puts too much pressure on them. Don't talk about it too much, or even at all. Just let it happen in it's own time. Don't make fun of sex, or seem to take it lightly.

Don't put a bunch of expectations on them, and they just may feel safe enough, and if you're interesting and seem to have integrity, you just may be seduced.

posted December 11, 2004 06:44 AM              

But they make great talkers about sex, caring, open and like you said, lioneye, never shocked.