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Topic: Sagittarius Girl
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thegoat
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posted December 08, 2004 02:19 AM
 
I have never been able to stay with a girl long enough for her birthday to come around. It seems that this will change Friday. This girl is a Sagittarius. I've only been seeing her for 3 weeks now, but i suppose i'm still expected to do something "special." This is also the last week of the semester, and i have a lot of papers to write and work that needs to be done. That's my excuse for asking all of you to do the thinking for me. As of now i was planning on taking her to dinner and well that was it. Any ideas?IP: Logged |
zoso
Newflake Posts: 15
From: Reno, Nv
Registered: Nov 2009
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posted December 08, 2004 02:32 AM
I'm a Sag girl and this is what I want for my B-day:Beer, Wine or liquor (my 21st b-day) Out to dinner for SUSHI 
Magazine subscription (the gift that keeps on giving)
New tarot deck
Gift certificates are always good
My mommy's getting me an Ipod
certificates to salons or day spa's
lift passes to ski/board
fancy teas
a new pet (check before just in case)
A romantic night out:
for me that'll be getting free drinks at the casinos while I play Blackjack and Texas Hold'em, dinner, dancing and then going home to pound my brains out till sunrise Wow, I sound like a dirty **** , but I'm turnin 21 so a crazy night is inevitable!!!!! AAAAA HA HA HA Good luck, just think "Fun--not safe" Saggie girls like to party and make the best of a holiday or celebration. Probably your best bet is to not try for "quiet" IP: Logged |
zoso
Newflake Posts: 15
From: Reno, Nv
Registered: Nov 2009
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posted December 08, 2004 02:41 AM
Sorry, last minute suggestion-- I'm assuming you are a Cappy . . . that said, don't mention: your busy schedule, your final papers, your inexperience with girlfriend's birthdays, etc. Anything remotely depressing or tiring will not fly well even if she seems to take it. Put all responsibilities aside (hey, you can do it for a night) and let her be wild. Be wild with her, or just sit back and enjoy the ride, but don't "rain on her parade" or try to calm her when she goes on a b-day rampage. Okay? You'll have fun, trust me. MAybe try to get together with friends or at least in a social atmosphere. If you're shootin for the romantic dinner for two, plan for something after that will have her around people and fun, not like a wuiet dinner and movie. Too boring. Spice it up! IP: Logged |
26taurus
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posted December 08, 2004 02:49 AM
Great ideas zoso!thegoat, Dinner is nice. Why not get her some flowers too? Or a cool plant? They last longer than flowers......Give her a little something at least, besides dinner. (you know what I mean  ) What is she into? Maybe a CD? I always love getting new music. How 'bout a book? LOL! Wait a minute, she's a Sag, listen to zoso, before you listen to me.  Think fun, fun fun!! I agree that you cant go wrong with a gift certificate either. Maybe one for a massage. Oh, how I could use a massage right now........Make sure you do something. Dinner is always nice, but you can make it more special with a little gift. Let us know what you do! Dont dissapoint us!!!  IP: Logged |
thegoat
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posted December 08, 2004 02:55 AM
I'm impressed. I am a cappy, and you can tell from what i wrote above!! Wow. That's pretty cool. Anyway the Nevadaite and 26taurus are pointing me in the same direction. Something exciting. I should be able to come up with something good by friday. Thanks for the insight.
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Archer
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posted December 08, 2004 06:43 AM
u never told me about this sagi girl... u suck!anyway, be ur self and be honest about ur feelings for her. thats the best b'day gift u can give her. i have noticed one thing. most of we sagis feel our b'days are not exciting. maybe because we get so much from daddy jupiter all year that we want even more on our b'days! lol! Neerav IP: Logged |
sthenri
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posted December 08, 2004 07:35 AM
Yes galleries, nightclubs, music clubs, being a Cappy you want intimate and quiet, but you can compromise with a smaller club, live music at a bar, and then another busier place. Provide very good wine and food at all times. She is ruled by Jupiter after all,
good food, good wine, cuddles, Natasha
Taurus/Venus Aries
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thegoat
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posted December 08, 2004 01:11 PM
You punk archer, I did tell you. You just forgot as usual. And i thought you weren't going to be online for a while. i had the funniest thing to tell you but i didn't expect for you to be checking your emails... anyway back to the matter at hand.i love good food and alcohol too if the place isn't checking id. (i'm still 19, will be 20 in a few weeks.) In addition to this, i unfortunately picked a religious muslim girl to get with. (btw i'm not muslim) So she doesn't drink alcohol or eat food that's not halal. I was thinking of finding some vegetarian place (cuz that's okay) and also lazer tag. Maybe ice skating. And yes i would feel so out of place in a club. What did you mean by a gallery? A museum? MoMa manhattan just reopened, heck i would love to check it out, but is that what you had in mind for her? IP: Logged |
sthenri
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posted December 08, 2004 01:30 PM
Galleries and museums are good, if there are lots of people, but don't stay too long and dont get too involved in the artwork, save that for a later time. If there is live music even better, Sags love music, classical, jazz, all kinds.Vegetarian would be cool, she could always have a fizzy drink, something bubbly and non alcoholic. Have fun,
Natasha
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BlueTopaz124
Knowflake Posts: 207
From: Portland, OR, USA
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 08, 2004 02:40 PM
Being a Birthday Saggie myself, all of the above suggestions are very good ones. Saggies (well, doesn't everyone?) like and notice anything of quality. It doesn't have to cost an arm and a leg and scream 'designer', but if you take the time to give a gift that is tailored to that person's interests/likes and is of good taste, you are one step ahead. IP: Logged |
Aphrodite
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posted December 08, 2004 04:08 PM
Hiya thegoat,The Saggies I know really like being splurged on with good things. Try foreign food at a fancy restaurant. IP: Logged |
zoso
Newflake Posts: 15
From: Reno, Nv
Registered: Nov 2009
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posted December 08, 2004 04:36 PM
Ooo I like the plant idea! Think: orchid or venus fly trap (romantic, no? Venus . . . trap . . .)
Or she might have cats, being an animal-loving Sag, so maybe a catnip plant? Definately not roses, too traditional and they die quickly. Something that she'll think of you everytime she waters it Probably not a cactus. Although it would be funny. IP: Logged |
Autumn wind
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posted December 08, 2004 11:01 PM
I also have an Idea! you could take her to the zoo to see all the animals! Saggie's love that then out for dinner! IP: Logged |
thegoat
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posted December 08, 2004 11:07 PM
I have some cacti at home. They are cool. I had venus fly trap seeds too, and i planted them, but i guess the NY climate and soil are not very good for them because nothing ever developed. Cacti are quite durable, i've knocked the plants over a few times and they are still good, which is something i can't say for some other plants...Thanks to everyone for their wonderful suggestions. I really appreciate them, and you've given me some good insight on my saggi girl. Unfortunately, she said she won't be able to do anything on her birthday because her family has planned something already. I will get to see her briefly though, and i'll get her something nice, don't know what yet, will think greatly on thursday and get it friday morning! Thanks again to everyone for their input. IP: Logged |
pidaua
Knowflake Posts: 67
From: Back in AZ with Bear the Leo
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 08, 2004 11:33 PM
Almost all of us Sagittarians love the traditional gift of flowers, but not just any flower. First off, you don't want to scare her- you have only been together 3 weeks. Too much is TOO scary and means instant commitment to us Saggies.... My ex- Leo (we had only been dating about 3 months) sent me a beautiful card and a gorgeous flower arrangement. Since it was close to Christmas it had my favorite white roses, red carnations, babies breath and this gorgeous gold and red velvet bow along with a pine cone arrangement- all set in this - to-die-for vase. It told me that he thought of me, that I was special, but that he wasn't going to push his intentions on me. Not like this one older cappy man that really wanted my attention. He scared me with his expensive gifts when I returned from a business trip. We were just friends but he wanted more- freaked me out. Sushi is always great- as it a place with great food and wine (find out what she really likes). Don't go for the pet aspect- that is too intimate and you haven't known her long enough. Not to mention she may not have time for that pet. Good luck and keep us posted.
Also...it is easy to guess you are a cappy...you have named yourself "the goat" just like if I called myself "the centaur".
~Pidaua IP: Logged |
thegoat
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posted December 09, 2004 12:37 AM
I plum forgot that my name was "the goat." Actually, i didn't make this name up, one of my friends who wanted me to participate in this forum did created the account for me and as you can see i use it. You can see his comment above (archer). It's only been 3 weeks, and i'm not too sure of what she's interested in. I do know what type of music she likes so i think i'll try to find a cd that she'll enjoy. Flowers are a possibility too. We won't be able to do much since she has to get home, but the good thing about being a cappy is that MY birthday is in 2 weeks. I'll make sure that i don't have to go home lol. That day should be fun. IP: Logged |
Archer
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posted December 09, 2004 05:49 AM
hehe...the goat! hehe. i wanted it to sound stupid. but damn! u don't seem to be affected! IP: Logged |
thegoat
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posted December 11, 2004 12:02 PM
No shirt, no shoes, no problem, that’s for next time. Yep. It would probably go down well.I have guts, or something – you be the judge. I didn’t shave, I didn’t shower, I didn’t even brush my teeth, so you can forget about combing hair (which I don’t do much of anyway,) and I went to see my girlfriend on her on her birthday! Now before you start thinking that I’m a sick ******* , I have a legitimate excuse. The night before my best friend’s sister was going to India. Unfortunately, my friend had to go to work, so I helped with the packing and carrying of suitcases and all that stuff. I was planning on going home but I ended up sleeping over at his house. I thought I would go home in the morning, but that didn’t work out as planned. I was up and ready by 9:30 but my friend wasn’t, and we were going to leave together, so we ended up leaving close to 10. He was going to his college and I accompanied him to it. It was only around 11 so I thought I had plenty of time to get home, get ready, and get a gift. My friend’s college is near Bryant Park, and there happened to be a fair or something going on. I decided to check it out to see if there was anything nice. By this time it was 11:30 and I got a call from my girlfriend saying she’s hungry and that she wants me to bring food. I couldn’t say no but I also couldn’t go to her without brushing my teeth! I bought a toothbrush and toothpaste from a store and returned to the park because now I had to buy something and I had to do it fast! I looked through the whole thing, and most of the stuff was either crap or expensive crap. There was one place that had okay things though, a Native American stall I think. They had pendants with real flowers inside them. This was something I hadn’t seen before. It was unique and it looked quite nice. The price wasn’t too bad either after some negotiating. I let the rain comb my hair and found a bathroom to brush my teeth in and then set off. I got to her around 12:30 with food. She seemed quite pleased with the pendant and said that nobody had ever gotten her anything like that before. She put it on and looked rather hot! I feel it was a successful birthday. Minimal effort was required except for that one hour in the rain. Thanks to everyone for their help. I’ll probably need it next time too! IP: Logged | |
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