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Topic: oh god i need some wisdom
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whiterabbit
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posted December 09, 2004 09:21 PM
  
I just checked astro.com to see if some madness is supposed to be happening right now..uranus surprise style of pluto style (your whole world being suddenly turned upside down)
The Virgo who is the love of my life who has been out of the country for a long long time actually came back a month ago and I dind't even know. I just found out accidentally. I haven't seen him or had any contact because I have his email blocked..(it was too painful to be in contact with him)
I ended the relationship because we were both very young and stupid when we were together but I never got over him. Now he's back and he could so easily be back in my life unless I choose to stay away..he will respect that. "back in my life" by the way doesn't mean together again, just means contact. I unblocked his email but the thing is he may have already tried writing and not gotten a response..he has been here for a month after all.Is it dangerous to see him again? Only bringing on all the pain and longing? But I would give everything to see him, hold him. But the relationship I think will always be doomed..what do I do? I know this is sort of out of the blue and non-astrology related but I am just so lost. He's a virgo sun, scorpio moon, leo rising, leo mars and venus, mercury in virgo..
I'm an aquarius sun, leo moon, libra rising, aquarius venus, mars in scorpio, mercury in aquarius..
oh my goodness..I am still having a tiny nervous breakdown/hyperventilating..
please please help..
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Sheaa Olein
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posted December 09, 2004 10:02 PM
 Breathe whiterabbit I really feel for you. I have been through similar with a Virgo soul connection. Remember nothing is beyond you're control. Avoid impulsive actions in this matter and step back - and breathe. See the situation for what it is. Recall the reasons why you chose to distance yourself. Gather your thoughts in a calm and rational manner. Write them down when you feel this way. Lean on someone close if you can. If you can't, build yourself strong and flexible within so you can cope. It's OK, the world won't end here. Not by a long shot. Make your decision on how you feel and clear it with him if you must. It may be best to tie up the loose ends once and for all, depending on what you choose to do. Remember your worth and self respect. Keep yourself strong. Nothing is beyond you, support is there whenever you ask for it. You're being brave; maybe you need to think upon your actions before you panic. I recommend talking it through with someone you trust beforehand and / or writing your thoughts down. Learn from the experience because it'll be one of the best things that can happen to you. The others will have to aid you with astrological advice here. OK, do you think you can broach this with Virgo in somewhat structured way? My thoughts are with you   IP: Logged |
whiterabbit
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Registered: Sep 2009
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posted December 09, 2004 11:05 PM
Sheaa...thank you so much, what you wrote was so calming, perfect and very wise. I have calmed down a little. I went for a very long walk in the cold then came home, took a bath, meditated a little and I'm going to bed soon and I'll try and analyze the situation- write some thing down- reason out what I should do next. Thank you again. IP: Logged |
astro junkie
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posted December 10, 2004 07:23 AM
I say, give a meeting a try. You never know how things have changed or what you've both learned unless you do. It could be a really cool thing, hopefully not bad. Go by your gut, and if it doesn't seem right, you seem to know what to do.IP: Logged |
AquarianChandra
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posted December 10, 2004 10:56 AM
Hi whiterabbit, I am going thru pretty much the same thing with a Taurus guy with Leo ascendant and gemini moon (this info is not 100% accurate). I'm a cappy/aqua cusp with leo ascendant and moon in pisces. Sheaa's suggestions are so on point. When i realized what was going on i started seeking help immediately and although there's a huge question mark on this "relationship", i have to look out for myself first. Anyway, i don't have any suggestions other than to cosign on that Sheaa already said. I wish i could help further but it's all up there already. Good luck and let things happen but put yourself first. Be calm. Love yourself. Don't
do anything harsh or impulsive. When you feel calm and secure you give out good vibes. Much love IP: Logged |
The Mutable Night Force
Knowflake Posts: 122
From: England
Registered: Oct 2009
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posted December 10, 2004 01:50 PM
He seems to have some of his chart very similar to mine, why don't you email HIM? I think he'd probably appreciate it.I think that is a typical wierd aquarius thing to do to block him 'because it was too painful to be in contact with him'!! That's funny, if not tragic. He probably thinks you don't like him now. Well, I don't know really, sorry if I'm wrong. IP: Logged |
whiterabbit
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Registered: Sep 2009
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posted December 10, 2004 11:49 PM
thank you all so much. I am a lot calmer now and I haven't done anything stupid yet. I'm just concentrating on work, things I need to do and I'm waiting it out a little. Eventually I will probably get in touch with him, but I think I need to think things through. Mutable Night Force- yes I often do silly aquarian things like that which end up being so useless and destructive, but you know..at least I learn my lessons (eventually..)thank you all once again sweet dreams! (those of you off to bed) IP: Logged |
Sheaa Olein
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posted December 11, 2004 10:11 AM
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Some of my astro makeup modified thanks to a change of birth time:
Sun ~ Sagittarius
Moon ~ Cancer
Ascendant ~ Pisces
Mercury ~ Sagittarius
Venus ~ Scorpio IP: Logged |
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