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Topic: Men are confusing
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Atlantic Myst unregistered
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posted January 14, 2005 01:24 AM
You break into there email account for the 5th time they get mad and have had it. They have begged u in the past to stop. I have of course because I promised this time.They tell you they only want you to be there friend for now to see if they can trust you and make sure the jealousy doesnt show again. Then they tell you to just be there friend.
I talk to them on the phone for 2 hours. Then they blow me a kiss and tell me let's try again.
Ar!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and they wonder why I always feel emotionally threatened. He truly is a beautiful man. And I know I have to change alot of things also. I wonder if other capricorns with aquarius moon and risings are like this. *i am going to rip my hair out one day ------------------ Cusp: Gemini/Cancer, Cancer rising, moon in taurus, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra, vesta in Aquarius. Yeah I know so many details...sorry
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Secret Garden unregistered
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posted January 14, 2005 01:54 AM
No offense but I can relate to him...I can't stand ppl hacking or checking my email account..and its been done before and Ive completely stopped talking to those ppl forever...hehe its an utter invasion of privacy like gettin in someones head...His Aqua moon requires both freedom to do what he wants, as well as prolly freedom to have lots of women friends. He may be flirtatious...but Aqua moons tend to be somewhat like that and you have to let them be. Of course his cappy-ness should overcome that and he probably is loyal and committed... but a thing like that would make anyone think twice about their relationship ... IP: Logged |
Atlantic Myst unregistered
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posted January 14, 2005 02:00 AM
Yes I know. I don't know how people deal with me sometimes! I wouldn't say he's really a flirt. thank goodness for the capricorn in him. But I think he's afraid of it happening again. Even though I promised i wouldnt. Because I wont. i don't break promises. Im kind of glad hes older though. he hibernates alot. He doesnt give me reason to even be jealous for christs sake he doesnt even go out. All my past relationships have made me very insecure. I don't want to get hurt anymore. It's hard when people have told you they love you and behind your back they are with other girls and taking to women online. I am a very emotional person and sometimes I let me emotions get to me a little to much. I just want to be secure and not have to worry about having my heart stomped on again.
But i am the one who has to change here. And I will.
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Secret Garden unregistered
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posted January 14, 2005 02:32 AM
Whats important is that you realize that there needs to be a change...and thats the biggest leap you can make toward progress. Since he has blown you a kiss, I would say, you have all the rights to feel special, because hey Capricorn men are not easy to move, girl! They are very rock hard and its difficult to get them to fess up their emotions and say and do romantic things *Hugs for you* and best of luck with the relationship! IP: Logged |
Atlantic Myst unregistered
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posted January 14, 2005 10:52 PM
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Aquarian Girl unregistered
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posted January 15, 2005 06:18 AM
Eeeek. I'm an Aquarius, and I can't think of a quicker way for someone to a) infuriate me and b) drive me away than for them to infringe on my privacy like that. It shows that you don't trust him, which means you're questioning his character... and infringing on his freedom... Not to wag my finger at you, that's not my intent, but Aquarians have very lofty ideals and codes of behaviour honoring those ideals and you're stomping on all of them. Tread carefully! You don't want to drive him away IP: Logged |
Atlantic Myst unregistered
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posted January 18, 2005 03:21 AM
Thanks for the advice aquarian girl IP: Logged |