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Virgo-AriesArtist
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posted January 15, 2005 01:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Virgo-AriesArtist     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What the heck?! There is this Taurean, whom I'm sure you've all heard me mention, who I sent the letter/poem to, and he ignored me and was a total jerk.

But....Guess what?

He told my close friend Natalie, when he come home from college over winter break, completely randomly that he had a dream that he realized he was being an a**h*le to me and he appoligized to me for how he acted, and that I forgave him. He also said that he felt bad for how he was to me and he thinks that he's changed his attitude since highschool...

Now, all this was said to my very close friend, so assumption being he wanted her to tell me and knew she would, right? Do I contact him, or let him be? Cause I did rid myself recently of his demonic presence that had been hanging on, and realized I can love someone more than they love themself, and it's ok if they can't/wont reciprocate...

What are your thoughts on this drama?

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-K
"Most people love with restraint
As if they were someday to hate
We hated gently, carefully
As if we were someday to love"-Venus Trines at Midnight

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Atlantic Myst
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posted January 15, 2005 05:38 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Just let him be. At least he was man enough to apologize. If you do want to be on good terms with him send over a message with your friend saying you accept the apology and that there are on hard feelings.

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posted January 15, 2005 07:25 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My experience with Taurean men is that they are slllooooowwwwww. I'm sure that would frustrate the quick Aries in you.

I wouldn't approach him, but I would have my friend subtly tell him that he should apologise directly to you. And if he doesn't, you could always broach the subject with him on the basis - hey what's with this telling my friend and not me stuff?

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Virgo-AriesArtist
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posted January 16, 2005 01:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Virgo-AriesArtist     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes, I think I'll let him be too, Atlantic Myst. I think it was cool to apologise, I just think it would be more of a man to do it directly to me.

Thanks for the idea, purple_scorp. It mighta worked if we were still in highschool, though, but see, the friend who told me still lives in my hometown, I've moved 40 minutes away and don't venture back that way much, and the guy in question is in college several hours away, and isn't home that much, so she probably won't see him much...unfortunately. But, she did point out that it's not like I won't see him again, cause I still come back every now and then to see my pals on that side of town, and I'm feeling the need to go to a few b-ball games over there now since I am getting less hours at work, and miss the spirit of the crowd and pepband (that I was in for 4 years).

So, yes, double yes, the Taurean Sloowwwness does bug me a bit. See, he also has a Gemini rising (29 degrees), Pisces moon, Aries mercury, Gemini venus, and Capricorn mars. My tenative thought is that if I see him again, I'll pretend I never heard about his remorse in treating me badly, just be my usual self, chatty with everyone and energetic, and if he feels the need to approach me with the apology, well, so be it, but I don't think at this point I'd be comofortable grovelling and perstering him about it, cause I did enough of that before, and where did it get me? I mean, I tried both strategy and blunt honesty, and neither worked, so perhaps ignoring him and going on with life as usual will work best. Either way, I have my dignity.
Appreciate your response

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-K
"Most people love with restraint
As if they were someday to hate
We hated gently, carefully
As if we were someday to love"-Venus Trines at Midnight

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