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Topic: Ladies advice needed please
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BlueRoamer Knowflake Posts: 95 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 23, 2005 06:27 AM
So I've been dating yet another Leo. Things have been going well for about three months, but when I start talkign about commitment he is not interested. He says I can do my own thing, just don't tell him. This is not a good response for me. We have passion and intimacy, but he seems either too guarded or is just looking for something better. Our composite chart has venus pretty much opposite everything....I don't realliy know what to do at this point, I feel like maybe I should move on. What do you ladies feel?Me: Sun Sagittarius 29°43'08 12 direct Moon Scorpio 08°16'01 10 direct Mercury Capricorn 05°57'10 12 direct Venus Aquarius 06°56'08 01 direct Mars Libra 02°36'42 09 direct Jupiter Scorpio 04°28'16 10 direct Saturn Libra 20°49'41 09 direct Uranus Sagittarius 02°07'37 11 direct Neptune Sagittarius 24°45'46 12 direct Pluto Libra 26°29'09 09 direct True Node Cancer 22°40'29 07 retrograde House positions (Placidus) Ascendant Capricorn 11°09'01 2nd House Aquarius 21°42'51 3rd House Aries 02°19'50 Imum Coeli Taurus 04°08'45 5th House Taurus 28°33'13 6th House Gemini 19°35'14 Descendant Cancer 11°09'01 8th House Leo 21°42'51 9th House Libra 02°19'50 Medium Coeli Scorpio 04°08'45 11th House Scorpio 28°33'13 12th House Sagittarius 19°35'14 Major aspects Sun Conjunction Mercury 6°14 Sun Square Mars 2°54 Sun Sextile Jupiter 4°45 Sun Conjunction Neptune 4°57 Sun Sextile Pluto 3°14 Moon Sextile Mercury 2°19 Moon Square Venus 1°20 Moon Conjunction Jupiter 3°48 Moon Sextile Ascendant 2°53 Mercury Square Mars 3°20 Mercury Sextile Jupiter 1°29 Mercury Conjunction Ascendant 5°12 Venus Trine Mars 4°19 Venus Square Jupiter 2°28 Venus Sextile Uranus 4°49 Mars Sextile Uranus 0°29 Saturn Sextile Neptune 3°56 Saturn Conjunction Pluto 5°39 Neptune Sextile Pluto 1°43 Him: Planetary positions planet sign degree house motion Sun Leo 12°13'10 02 direct Moon Taurus 24°59'46 11 direct Mercury Cancer 23°16'10 01 direct Venus Gemini 28°23'13 12 direct Mars Libra 14°25'25 04 direct Jupiter Virgo 12°19'28 03 direct Saturn Virgo 24°24'14 03 direct Uranus Scorpio 21°30'37 05 stationary (D) Neptune Sagittarius 20°06'02 06 retrograde Pluto Libra 19°20'26 04 direct True Node Leo 20°14'40 02 retrograde House positions (Placidus) Ascendant Cancer 20°02'19 2nd House Leo 10°38'48 3rd House Virgo 04°27'34 Imum Coeli Libra 04°07'21 5th House Scorpio 10°04'48 6th House Sagittarius 17°22'13 Descendant Capricorn 20°02'19 8th House Aquarius 10°38'48 9th House Pisces 04°27'34 Medium Coeli Aries 04°07'21 11th House Taurus 10°04'48 12th House Gemini 17°22'13 Major aspects Sun Sextile Mars 2°12 Sun Trine Neptune 7°53 Sun Sextile Pluto 7°07 Moon Sextile Mercury 1°44 Moon Trine Saturn 0°36 Moon Opposition Uranus 3°29 Moon Sextile Ascendant 4°57 Mercury Sextile Saturn 1°08 Mercury Trine Uranus 1°46 Mercury Square Pluto 3°56 Mercury Conjunction Ascendant 3°14 Venus Square Saturn 3°59 Mars Sextile Neptune 5°41 Mars Conjunction Pluto 4°55 Mars Square Ascendant 5°37 Saturn Sextile Uranus 2°54 Saturn Square Neptune 4°18 Saturn Sextile Ascendant 4°22 Uranus Trine Ascendant 1°28 Neptune Sextile Pluto 0°46 Neptune Quincunx Ascendant 0°04 Pluto Square Ascendant 0°42 Composite: PLANETARY POSITIONS planet sign degree house Sun Libra 20°58'09 07 Moon Leo 16°37'54 04 Mercury Libra 14°36'40 06/7 Mercury is technically near the end of house 6 and is interpreted in house 7. Venus Aries 17°39'41 01 Mars Libra 08°31'04 06 Jupiter Libra 08°23'52 06 Saturn Libra 07°36'58 06 Uranus Scorpio 26°49'07 08 Neptune Sagittarius 22°25'54 09 Pluto Libra 22°54'47 07 True Node Leo 06°27'34 04
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SparklingSag Knowflake Posts: 191 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted January 23, 2005 11:07 AM
hey, I'm a Sag Sun/ Cap Asc too! how do you find having the fire/earth thing?IP: Logged |
pixelpixie Newflake Posts: 8 From: ON Canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 23, 2005 12:32 PM
I just typed out a big long thing and lost it *grrrr* Your asc and Moons are opposing, even though Suns trine... This could def. be a source of friction in the way you communicate. As you know between the sexes, it can be magnetising, but of your same gender could pull you apart and make you more competative. Your Mars (libra)are both in the same sign, so that might either help in that regard, or leave you with a perpetual non confrontation, being a mutual thing.... Bottom line is though, you have discussed potentials in the future of your relationship, and he has indicated you can see others.... which most likely means he is loving you the way he wants to be loved..... but ultimately, My Dear Scorpio Moon, it isn't the way you'd like to express it. See how it goes, but if you want intimacy and faithfulness, even if he is going against his basic nature, this is something he wants.. to not be tied down. Try to discuss it again, make sure he isn't just projecting what he thinks you want to hear..... or indeed keeping his options open I dunno, good luck.IP: Logged |
pixelpixie Newflake Posts: 8 From: ON Canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 23, 2005 12:36 PM
well hey, you already said that opposing signs thing... sorry, don't mean to beat a dead thought pattern.....ONce again... didn't you say something about 'big'.........? IP: Logged |
Moonshine9 unregistered
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posted January 23, 2005 01:07 PM
Leos seem to be pretty popular these days. My two sisters were hung up on some Leo men. My older sister finally broke ties with him but my younger sister is still holding on to her little thread of hope. Please don't be like her. Move on! If he's honest enough to tell you straight up that he's not looking for a commitment then find someone who does. Scorpio moons are very deep and need someone who will provide emotional stability. Don't wait around hoping he will turn around because if you do that like my sisters have, wasting years on someone who just wants to play you, then you have nobody else to blame but yourself. I don't mean to be so brutally honest it's just that I had a relationship with a Leo man who I thought was the one and it just turned into such an awful mess. He was mentally and sexually abusive to me and like the idiot I was, I stayed with him for a number of years taking his abuse. Finally I realized I needed someone who respected me and supported me and most importantly loved me. You know it's strange that I dropped in on this chat because just this morning I had a dream about him that we were in each others arms and kissing each other. It was the oddest thing, but I think I had that dream for a reason. In a sense I believe I was forgiving him for everything. I'm telling you all this because I want you to be happy. I hear so many heartache stories and it gets me so perturbed you know? Look at your Leo man's Venus in Gemini. Venus in Gemini's like to play the field and are extremely restless. All my positive vibrations go out to you sweetie!"Things do not change, we change." Henry David Thoreau Peace and Love IP: Logged |
BlueRoamer Knowflake Posts: 95 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 23, 2005 04:45 PM
Pixie: Its true I definitely need someone emotionally supportive, without that my emotions kinda go up and down all the time however the relationship is going. Theres definitely a non confrontation thing going on , in that its really hard for us to talk about anything of seriousness. The problem here is the incredible sexual chemistry, its like a drug, but I know that we really aren't that compatible. Btw its big, really big...your heart that is...awwwwMoonshine: I could definitely see our relationship turning into something like that, this guy is a bit rough around the edges and hypercritical at times, and I could definitely see him using me for sex. Thanks ladies!
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astro junkie unregistered
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posted January 24, 2005 12:06 PM
If you not into the va va voom like he is ... I doubt he's ready to change if that's the way he responded to you ...IP: Logged |
BlueRoamer Knowflake Posts: 95 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 24, 2005 04:24 PM
What exactly do you mean by va va voom? I think the chances of him changing are pretty lowIP: Logged |