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talktome unregistered	posted January 28, 2005 08:04 PM .. Just wondered if some people are born straight or born gay.. I mean is it obvious in the chart? or not? xx IP: Logged
26taurus unregistered	posted January 28, 2005 08:13 PM Homosexuality aspects: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/002267.html Gay !!!!!!! http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/001048.html IP: Logged
26taurus unregistered	posted January 28, 2005 08:15 PM The second link is particularly interesting. IP: Logged
talktome unregistered	posted January 28, 2005 08:15 PM thank you 26 taurus xxxxxx IP: Logged
26taurus unregistered	posted January 28, 2005 08:19 PM welcome. xoxoxoxo IP: Logged
26taurus unregistered	posted January 28, 2005 08:20 PM Oh and really yes, Welcome!!! IP: Logged
talktome unregistered	posted January 28, 2005 08:23 PM Thank you !!!! :-) Adore spending time with you x x x IP: Logged
lovely* unregistered	posted January 28, 2005 08:27 PM most of the gay men and women i know are aquarians, taurus and cancer. just my observation tho. IP: Logged
26taurus unregistered	posted January 28, 2005 08:28 PM thank you talktome. So do I. LOL FYI, I'm a super straight Taurean. In my observation it's been the Scorpions. another FYI, to search the site go to google and type <keywords> linda-goodman.com (thank you Archer) IP: Logged
Archer unregistered	posted January 28, 2005 11:16 PM oh wait ur going wrong. this is the way to search. <keywords> site:www.linda-goodman.com or just download the 500kb google toolbar. type is th search word and click on 'current site' from the drop down menu. IP: Logged
iAmThat unregistered	posted January 29, 2005 01:45 AM In a man's horoscope, I would imagine aspect(trine) of Venus with Uranus is of import. Uranus being a newly discovered planet would indicate novelty of ideas. We would think its a free will. But if a lesson needs to be learnt the universe will make us do the actions even if we do not will it. It is hard to go against the path which universe has carved. It is possible, but takes tremendous tremendous will power which is beyond us mortals. We can practice to get that will power, but takes one to do lots of excercise, physical as well as spiritual. IP: Logged
gert unregistered	posted January 29, 2005 06:44 AM I allso had the same question long ago.I think I am atleast bisexual as I've had sexual feelings for both sexes.During my teenage years I was a lot confused about myself as I couldn't seem to get a girlfriend,either my approach was too serious or else I seemed too "intense".Anywho during this period of confusion and rejection I met the best friend I've had my entire life.It was so strange how easily we seemed to click,and how he seemed to understand where I came from.He,on the other hand had many girlfriends but had rouble committing!We were there for each other for that time being and got so close that our friendship kinda crossed over to a relationship.The shift came with such ease that it seemed natural and for a good many years we were involved. I have no aspects between uranus and the sun in my chart,nor any other aspects that would deem someone as homosexual.Gay people have charts that are exactly the same as straight people but the only difference may be that they are attracted to people of the same sex.My friend is a Leo and I am a Sagittarius and we are still good buddies but he is in a relationship with someone else right now and so am I.My point is sexuality is as complex as an unsolved maths theory that cannot be tied down only to "certain aspects".If you have to classify me,what would you say I am since I have none of the aspects that would make someone gay? IP: Logged
talktome unregistered	posted January 29, 2005 07:08 AM Thank you 'Gert' you have helped me understand a little more. I guess the human will is very complex and a persons feelings cannot be 'generally' pinned down as 'theory'. Thank you for sharing xxx It means a lot to me :-) xxxxxxx IP: Logged
The Mutable Night Force Knowflake Posts: 122 From: England Registered: Oct 2009	posted January 29, 2005 09:25 AM Well, I do belive that with gay men, they are BORN gay but with gay women, its usually their previous relationships/experiences which TURN them gay. However, I don't think this has much to do with astrology, although, astrology could determine how well people choose to keep this secret or how camp someone is. Geminis are usually quite extravagant gays, but straight gemini men are usually very straight, though they do like adoration from anyone really. Gay Scorpios?? Well, I suppose it makes sense, probably more likely bisexual- they're greedy, damnit! Now before this turns into a gay debate..... IP: Logged
talktome unregistered	posted January 29, 2005 09:53 AM lol Mutable night force.. yes I don't suppose we want a gay debate xx I think u are correct in your opinion my friend!! I think women can turn and fall inlove with another female due to past experiences.. also gay men I think also are perhaps born gay.. all great food for thought!! Thanks for your reply xxxxxxxxxxx IP: Logged
astro junkie unregistered	posted January 29, 2005 10:35 AM I've always been bi-loving all my life. That does NOT mean I had to be sexually ACTIVE to know that. It's something you feel even when growing up. Don't know what exactly would show up in my Chart on that. I think we all have the ability to be bi-loving to various degrees, and I think we have the freedom to choose how far and/or in what manner we wish to express that love. It can be done with the inclusion or exclusion of sex. Those who are NOT able to express love in a bi way, but who deep down know that's who they are, are probably some of the most confused and twisted people ever. I can name some well-known people who I KNOW are bi, or even gay, but who are paying the price for keeping it hidden. Their view on life and interaction with others in general becomes very twisted. IP: Logged
talktome unregistered	posted January 29, 2005 10:39 AM Yes Astro Junkie I totally agree. I think people should love themselves and be true to themselves. No matter what other people think. .. who are the famous bi/closet gays then? you know u want to share this with us ;-) any girls out there fancy a date? lol IP: Logged
ariestiger unregistered	posted January 29, 2005 11:28 AM I personally couldn't get involved with a woman, because I don't have the capacity to love women, I don't even feel terribly comfortable hugging them. I had a fairly awful relationship with my mother and went to an all-girls' school, in which I felt like a fish out of water - because I was missing MALE company. My mother always had this notion that I should be a kind of ready-made "best friend" for her, but this seemed to entail a degree of competitiveness in which she was always the victor - whether it was in terms of accomplishments or psychological control. She used to say that it was nice going around with her best friends at school hand in hand, or arm in arm, I have never EVER felt comfortable with that. I've always had this strong desire to impress my father, so I think male attention assumes a large degree of importance for me. (and yes, before you ask, my Saturn is in the 10th) My parents did absolutely everything possible to keep me away from men/boys, partly because they had both been abused in their childhood, partly because my mother hated men and partly because I think my father was ever so slightly jealous of guys I fancied, in his eyes they never seemed to measure up. He actually physically stood between me and a guy who was trying to chat me up in a shop once (I was 22 at the time!!!) I didn't have a relationship until I was 24 and there were mutterings in my family that I might be gay. I wasn't, it was just that the first "time"/ relationship was very important to me and I had a big need for security at that time, and didn't want to get even more emotionally damaged than I already was. Ironically, it was my cousin that turned out to be gay! I had actually always wondered about her. She lives in a foreign country and I went over there as a teenager to visit - at that time her favourite teacher at school was a woman with VERY SHORT red hair (ahem!). My mother phoned me up one day and said she'd just been talking to my aunt, she said that there was something about my cousin... ...Why did I have that weird feeling that I knew what was coming?... Anyway, my mother said, she's a LESBIAN, can you believe it, it's disgusting, etc.,etc.... "Well," I said, "I wouldn't get too worked up about it if I were you. For a start, she's not your daughter, and I doubt she's going to come over from Germany and jump on you." I do find the gay scene a bit weird. I visited my (male) gay friend from fashion college once and we went to a karaoke night at a gay pub. I couldn't believe it, it was JUST like the gay bar out of Police Academy, all the guys were in this identikit "uniform" of shaven heads, leather waistcoats and caps, and NONE of them were looking at me. There was not even any sort of POTENTIAL interest there!!! My husband reckons this is why I had difficulties accepting the gay men at college, and why I didn't have much time for women in general - because as far as mating material goes, they are off the radar, and I turn off if I don't sense at least a potential interest. I like to think I'm possibly having an effect on men. Could there be an astrological explanation for this incredibly strong heterosexual gravitation, and difficulties with my own sex? Now you can all go ahead and call me a redneck! No, seriously, I think this subject ties in very well with the "Attitudes to Sex and Relationships" thread I started earlier. My chart is quite "heavy" and "responsible", and I do take relationships very seriously. I couldn't just jump into bed with someone, it would have to be genuine, absolute L-O-V-E. LOL AriesTiger IP: Logged
talktome unregistered	posted January 29, 2005 11:37 AM Good for you Aries Tiger!! But it does take all kinds in this fine world ;-) Some people are totally 100% straight.. and that is totally cool. IP: Logged
astro junkie unregistered	posted January 29, 2005 02:17 PM aries tiger - quote: "Well," I said, "I wouldn't get too worked up about it if I were you. For a start, she's not your daughter, and I doubt she's going to come over from Germany and jump on you." I think that's BRILLIANT! HAAAAAA HAAAAAAA!! As for your psychological "bend", most Aries women do not like feeling vulnerable in front of men. Think of it THAT way. IP: Logged

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