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steelrose
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posted February 06, 2005 03:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for steelrose     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello there!

Iīm considering to bring back to my life a guy who was very important for me when I was a teenager. Our story has always been a kind of romantic tragedy, very platonic but like a bumpy road...

My dear GemStar suggested that I could post our info for you, so that the experts and more knowledgeable in this forum could give an opinion. I have been looking at “Relationship Signs” but maybe you could give me a more integrated feel to a potential relationship with him...

The major aspects that we form are:

ME 09/19/1977 Aspect HIM 04/10/1977 Orb/Value
Moon Trine Venus 2.38 107
Moon Square Mars 0.20 -216
Moon Conjunction Neptune 0.21 140
Mercury Trine Mercury 0.60 140
Mercury Sextile Uranus 1.47 48
Mars Sextile Mercury 1.16 82
Mars Square Venus 2.41 -98
Mars Trine Uranus 0.29 69
Mars Square Pluto 1.35 -79
Uranus Opposition Mercury 0.22 -83
Uranus Square Saturn 0.31 -97
Uranus Conjunction Uranus 1.09 89
Neptune Trine Venus 0.11 72
Neptune Trine Saturn 3.36 33
Neptune Conjunction Neptune 2.27 67
Neptune Sextile Pluto 0.55 39
Pluto Opposition Venus 0.19 -66
Pluto Conjunction Pluto 0.47 74

As I know my time of birth, Iīm quite sure My Moon trines his Sun with a 3š orb
Thanks!!!!

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gert
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posted February 07, 2005 11:51 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You seem like a perfectionist,he seems like a charmer.Both of you feel extremely comfortable with each other,and judging from what I've seen the two of you get along famously well.The one beef I have with second chances,or taking someone back is that if it didn't work out the first time it wont work out the second as when all that mist and fog of hope and new expectations vanish what you have left are the same problems that you encountered before.Astrology can tell you how good a realtionship can get if you work at it but will never let you know how to keep it together when the cracks show.That my dear is up to you!

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ghanima81
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posted February 07, 2005 12:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ghanima81     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ditto, gert.

Had the same thing going once, tried and failed and tried and failed... we fought for it, but in the end... the same problems came up each time. Love does not have to be about being together per se... just having love for each other and being a friend is sometimes all you can give.

Good luck either way, Steelrose. It will work out as it should...

Ghani

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steelrose
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posted February 07, 2005 12:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for steelrose     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
WOW, Gert, do you really see the perfectionist in me and the charmer he is in just one post? That is really good... Can you see that in the aspects or in the birth dates?

Well, Iīm talking about getting him back... I realise now this could actually be a bit misleading... Because we actually havenīt been together in the past and I donīt actually have a clue of how a relationship would work out...

I was very in love with him at high school, for many years... And then, when I decided to let go, he appeared to find out what he really felt for me... It has been a unintentional cat-and-mouse game, because when I wanted him he wasnīt up to it and the other way round, for several reasons... I went abroad for 4 years and Iīm just back... He has never stopped asking about me and even if I was with someone... Iīm thinking of contacting him...

But all those years were very painful for me. I fully accept it wasnīt our fault. The pain he inflicted me wasnīt intentional. I may have hurt him as well. I just wanted to be sure we have a chance before risking my already battered ego... Thatīs all...

Apparently, Magi Astrologi finds the match very promising. But I wanted your opinion under Conventional Astrology as well.

Thanks very much!!! I thought nobody would reply, seeing the topic go down with no answer...

Iīm glad you think we feel confortable with other and get on wonderfully well... Actually, the feel of us being close together, is a very strong platonic and romantic fairytale... Any idea of how to deal with the powerful negative aspects?

Nice to meet you, Gert!!! And thanks again!!!

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steelrose
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posted February 09, 2005 10:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for steelrose     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks Ghani!!!

Anyone else, please? There must be someone out there able to help...

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alma-noble
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posted February 17, 2005 10:03 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi steelrose

I am in very similar situation with you right now!I am not an astrologer.. but I try to give you my oppinion on this!

About your question I think is very important the aspects of the nodes of the moon,ascendent with the personal planets of eachother. Even about the bad aspects, I've heard is good to have some, instead to be a only positive aspects.And any relationship can be worked out if both want to.

I think the most important thing is to trust your instinct. Second you can look for yourself in some astrology sites which gives more details on sinastry aspects; I can recomand you a few http://www.cafeastrology.com/index.html http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastry.html#The%20aspects http://www.throughnightsfire.com/Compatibility.html

Other suggestion is to try to get an horary question answered about this concern of yours,I find this very relevant, or even you can try yourself in this.

I wish you all the best and to reach to the relationship you dream of.

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steelrose
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posted February 17, 2005 11:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for steelrose     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Alma-noble!!! Thanks for bringing my thread back to life!!!

I already knew the first site you provided but the other two are new for me... Thanks!!!

Unfortunately I donīt know his time of birth so I have no idea of the position of his Ascendant... Iīd have to work without that...

Letīs see...

quote:
You will find significant compatibility with persons having a predominance in the same element as yourself.

Element-wise, we are well balanced... He is a Fire Sun with an Earth Moon and Iīm an Earth Sun with a Fire Moon. He has 4 planets in Fire, 3 planets in Earth, 2 in Water and 2 planets in Air (including Chiron) and I have 4 planets + the Acendant in fire, 3 in Earth, 3 in Water and 1 planet + MC in Air.

quote:
A Moon in conjunction with the Sun of the partner is a very good sign in that the Moon person has a wonderful emotional connection with the ego of partner. A favorable Sun/Moon aspect, that is a conjunction, sextile, or trine, can largely smooth out a relationship. Indeed, the relationship between the Sun in the male's chart and the Moon in the female's chart may be even more important than the Sun to Sun relationship.

quote:
Sun-Moon: Aspects such as the conjunction, sextile, and trine between the Sun and Moon indicate harmony between two people. A Male Sun conjunct a Female Moon is a major factor that can indicate a long term, possibly a marriage, relationship.

My Moon trines his Sun and his Moon could be trining my Sun (itīs pretty close and as Iīm not sure of his time of birth, it well could be...).


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Nonetheless, a good fit between Mars and Venus adds a wonderful dimension to your relationship. The most auspicious fit here between the partners would be for Mars and Venus to be in the same sign or in the same element. The attachment is much stronger if the planets form a conjunction or trine aspect.

My Mars squares his Venus... Any idea of how to deal with this?

quote:
Venus square Mars
This combination produces a very strong sexual attraction; however, there is often a lack of real emotional compatibility and mutual consideration. The relationship can be entered into by one or both parties merely for sexual gratification, without real concern for the other party as a person. In a romantic or marital relationship, sexual jealousy and possessiveness can be a problem. This is a difficult aspect for close personal relationships, but it is often present in them because of the high degree of sexual compatibility it generates at the outset of the relationship.

I love the link to “Synastry planets in partnerīs houses” in http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastry-houses.html . Itīs the first time I find iformation about that! THANKS!!!

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alma-noble
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posted February 17, 2005 12:25 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I found some article but I don't remember from where...
Mars is the God of War
Mars, in relationship astrology, is the planet of sexual expression and desire. It shows us our animal instincts. While Venus rules romantic attraction, Mars indicates a more animal need for sex and assertion. It is important to note that Mars in synastry does not point to the need to be together forever. But, if other indicators of love and relationship are already present in synastry, strong Mars connections will help (or hinder) the relationship, mostly in the bedroom.
When powerful interaspects of Mars occur, sex may not be as ecstatic and rich as those indicated by Venus, but it may be quite satisfying on a basic body level. When Mars figures strongly in Synastry, but the aspects involved are quite difficult, the couple may find a lot to argue about.
Even though Mars aspects may not bring together people in the first place, they have a lot of value. The conflict that they bring to a relationship can be difficult at times, but invigorating as well. If the individuals are growth-oriented, the basic truths that Mars interaspects bring will contribute to overall satisfaction. When Saturn is not involved, this couple will argue, and the growth that they pull from the conflict will likely spur them to have great sex together.

Venus-Mars interaspects: these are classic aspects, although they can be rather troublesome. Any aspect between these planets in synastry points to sexual and romantic attraction. However, the square, opposition, and quincunx can cause friction at the same time. There is considerable attraction, but over time, this sexual energy can become disruptive when left unchecked. Remember that the more difficult aspects have great value in that they stimulate people. Arguments often augment the sexual act in some way. The square tends to be the most troublesome one -- sexual attraction exists and is powerful, but sex is often delayed as the couple tends to engage in arguments that take time to work out before they do what they really want to do. Here, sex is probably the root of the arguments, even if this is not immediately apparent. These couples may try to resolve this conflict by attempting to consciously let down their defenses, turn off their egos, and just have sex. This way, they may find that they have much less to argue about. The reason for this is that the square gives tremendous physical attraction and tension that is very often disguised and mischanneled.

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steelrose
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posted February 17, 2005 12:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for steelrose     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It appears that Iīm facing a potential explosive relationship...

The aspects are majorly positive... Good communication, romanticism and so on... But the Mars is in conflictive positions all over the place...

My Moon square His Mars
My Mercury close to oppose His Mars
My Neptune square His Mars
My Pluto quinqunx His Mars
My Mars square His Venus
My Mars square His Pluto

At least My Mars and His Mars are close to a trine (5š orb)...

That promises good sex... Maybe a bit raw... But still good sex... Maybe we will need to make a conscious effort to be tender and sensitive in the bedroom...

Thanks very much for the info...

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chrissymgreen
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posted February 17, 2005 02:32 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hey there steelrose,

i just wanted to ask (i know you posted your actual birth info along with his, but i havent had a chance to go to astro.com and check it out) if you've looked at the condition of either mars (yours and his)? mars aspects may be explosive sometimes, but they also heat things up, making things more exciting and fun. mars rules aries - the first cardinal sign! what house does mars rule in your chart and in his chart?

c

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steelrose
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posted February 18, 2005 08:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for steelrose     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Chrissy!!!

Thanks for your interest! Letīs see... As I donīt know his time of birth I donīt have a clue about his houses... But I can tell you mine...

My Mars is in my 7th house (but itīs milder because itīs in detriment and conjunct with my Jupiter, which is my chart ruler and very powerful and well placed).

His Mars is in the cusp of my 4th house (between 3rd and 4th, right in the line) if you use equal houses... With Placidus, itīs in the 3rd...

Aries (the house that Mars rules) is in the cusp of my 5th house for equal houses and in the 4th for Placidus.

He is an Aries so Mars is the ruler of his Sun.

Thanks again!

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astro junkie
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posted February 18, 2005 02:28 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Welcome alma-noble !

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