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Topic: virgo problem...
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virgo
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posted February 09, 2005 06:34 PM
 
I'm not sure what to do with this so I like to know what everyone thinks about this till I make a decision.
I met this virgo in November. Hes a director, I auditioned for one his stuff, and we ended up talking on msn alot. After first couple weeks he asked me out....I wasnt expecting so i said maybe. Than he asked me out bunch of times again and I managed to get around it till I finnaly said yes just as friends tho and he said ya I'm all for meeting new people. so I thought it was cool but it got weird between us for a month. he didnt talk to me than went away for a week for christmas. When he came back everything was back to normal again and now we ended up being reallly good friends. We talk every single day for atleast an hour. And we talk bout everything, and we tell eachother everything.
Hes had some ex gf problems and he was gonna get back together with one of them couple weeks ago...but it didnt work and now he dosnt want to. I cant tell if he still likes me or not. I think he does and i just dont want to admit or something. I'm not sure. He lives like an hour away from me so its hard to get together and do things...we went out for lunch once..and that was the only time we spend anytime outside together. we usually talk on the phone or on the net.
we were gonna do something this week but wer both really busy so just couple days ago he said "do u wanna do something on monday"..and since i didnt have class or anything i said sure....and just yesterday i was looking at the calender and found out that monday is valentines day...so what dose that mean? does he think something is going to happen? or just because its valentines day its a "date"...
but hes already asked me out before in beginning and i said no so why would he think that?
unless he thought we didnt know eachother well back than when he asked me..and since we talk every single day and we know eachother better that he think im up for it now.
The thing is im not attracted to him...I love his personality..we have alot in common but not too much where its a problem. its just im not attracted to his looks. I wish I was...it be sooooo much easier if I was. but I'm not! and I've tried this before..go for someone that im not attracted to physically but only to the personality and it did not work at all!
I mean its cool I'll have something to do on valentines day....it wont be what I want..and it wont be romantic or anything but hes a good friend and we dont spend that much time together so its cool.
I just dont want him to think something is gonna happen on monday....
i dont know if i should ask if the thing wer going to do is just as friends..but i dont want it to get weird.
hes a good friend and i dont want this to get weird between and also i dont want to loose him either.
i've never been good at making friends..so i dont want to screw this up.
should i say something or what?*sigh*..I cant post our charts here...i dont know if it would help if u saw it..but heres our b-days Me
Sept 9, 1986
Iran Tehran
time unknown Him
Sept 7, 1984
Vancouver, Canada
time unknown... any help/advice or whatever would be great.... IP: Logged |
virgo
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posted February 10, 2005 01:09 AM
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The Mutable Night Force
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From: England
Registered: Oct 2009
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posted February 10, 2005 02:58 AM
Ah... being a virgo myself, I know we are strange creatures and can behave in very wierd ways sometimes..... I have to go now... but will post something again later which will be a bit more helpful...IP: Logged |
Exilir
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posted February 10, 2005 06:33 AM
Iam also dating a virgo for about 2 years now and we planned to get marry this year , but our relation is going on up and down, sometimes she secretive and suddenly decide to leave me but after come back asking sorry .I always forgive and make a bound because i love her and want to settle peace and understanding between us.
Iam Aquarius with Scorpion Rising and she is virgo with cancer rising .Please can anyone help me to see clear?
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maroon_flower
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posted February 10, 2005 06:56 AM
Hi Exilir !! Bonjour and welcome to lindaland!  Wow, an aqua with scorpio rising..so cool ! Hope things are happy with u and ur virgo lady. I reckon virgos are very sensitive..esp to criticism.. and very particular about certain things.. but, they are really lovely people.. Scorpio sun IP: Logged |
CNO732
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posted February 10, 2005 08:46 AM
Ur both Virgos and are proabbly THINKING way too much about the sort of relationship youmight or may not have ... Don't over analyze, which Virgo's tend to do ... go with the flow and if he means well then he will tell you ... Virgos usually do that stop-and-go thing to protect their emotions.It is what it is .. don't expect anything more than a nice day out with a friend .. but make sure he knows this ... U don't want to string him along and he is probably unsure about your motives because if you truly are into someone you would try and push it to next level, which you clearly have reservations about and he probably feels it ... So you both need to come clean about your feelings and stop being so damn nice to each other, which Virgos will do to spare any heartaches cause they are so damn sensative IP: Logged |
virgo
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posted February 11, 2005 01:54 AM
k thanks guys...IP: Logged |
astro junkie
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posted February 12, 2005 11:52 AM
Is this Virgo/Cancer a beautiful goddess in your eyes?
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... it's better to light a candle than curse the darkness IP: Logged |
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