posted February 20, 2005 02:54 AM              

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well, I haven't had a boyfriend. Ever. I don't really care that much, but since all of my aspects point towards me being a flirt. The odd thing is, I have always had guys who just treat me terribly. No apologies, just completely rude. All the time. I don't get it, and I don't think I *want* to get it. But I'm curious. is there possibly a reason in my chart for the lack of male interest [in me]?

Sun Pisces 13°18'44 10 direct
Moon Virgo 13°27'20 04 direct
Mercury Aquarius 16°27'35 09 direct
Venus Aries 26°53'57 11 direct
Mars Capricorn 06°54'43 07 direct
Jupiter Aries 28°58'47 11 direct
Saturn Capricorn 01°21'38 07 direct
Uranus Capricorn 00°36'07 07 direct
Neptune Capricorn 09°46'52 07 direct
Pluto Scorpio 12°29'18 05 retrograde
True Node Pisces 23°02'59 10 retrograde

House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Gemini 25°02'42
2nd House Cancer 15°26'09
3rd House Leo 06°04'37
Imum Coeli Virgo 00°44'01
5th House Libra 03°28'22
6th House Scorpio 14°59'51
Descendant Sagittarius 25°02'42
8th House Capricorn 15°26'09
9th House Aquarius 06°04'37
Medium Coeli Pisces 00°44'01
11th House Aries 03°28'22
12th House Taurus 14°59'51

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posted February 20, 2005 03:08 AM            

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You have an exact Sun opposition Moon;
I got this info from http://groups.msn.com/Interpretations1/sunsquareopposmoon1.msnw
Maybe more reading will help.. other than that though.... relax.. someone will 'get' you.. I have met as many great men as I have crap ones... no worries!!!

Sun opposition Moon (Robert Pelletier):

The sun opposition the Moon shows that there are difficulties between you and the people you deal with. You have a natural conflict betwen your emotions and your ego, and you unconsciously communicate this psychological hang-up to your associates, family, friends, and even your romantic partners. You often act in a hesitant spurt of enthusiasm, which is followed by anguish that your action may have been ill-advised. When you try to assert your own individuality, you are often torn by loyalty to those closest to you. You would prefer to have their full support so you could avoid the painful explanations and guilt that seem to accompany anything you want to do.

Relationships mean a great deal to you, and you long for someone with whom you can totally identify. Although you enjoy casusal contacts, they never sufficiently satisfy your need to beliong. You want a person who will fulfill your every need: love, friendship, sustaining you in your goals, sharing in your setbacks, fortifying you in your weakness, inspiring you in exploiting your creative talents, and sharing the full benefits of your combined efforts. A tall order, to be sure, and you will have to make concessions to obtain that kind of partner. You will have to be more giving than receiving, more compromising than obstinate, and more humble than arrogant. This too may be a tall order, but you can do it, or at least give it a good try. Any progress will prove beneficial.

Your greatest handicap is your unwillingness to let go of the past. Don't be afraid that people will consider you indifferent and unfeeling - you could never be unemotional. Make a realistic appraisal of what you want from your life, and file a plan with yourself to achieve it. Don't wait for people to open doors for you. Some things you must do for yourself, even if it means you have to indulge in yourself.

You will experience some problems with partnerships until you know where you stand and can state your position honestly. You might feel sorry for yourself or become bitter when matters don't progress exactly the way you want them to, but that's life. The hard knocks are what make the success that follows so precious. Try to maintain a moderate physical pace, for you can't get away with burning the candle at both ends.

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posted February 20, 2005 03:23 AM            

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I bet I'd like you. Our Sun's are trined, for one thing (I'm at 13'54' Scorpio, conjunct your Pluto and sextile your moon).

Plus, my southnode is conjunct your northnode, and vice-versa, which probably means something.

Anyway, sorry to interrupt...

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Steve

hang in there

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posted February 20, 2005 03:26 AM            

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See?
There you go....
It's all a matter of perspective.

Why don't you write down a list of attributes you would appreciate in a partner????
It coud help manifest them.. even if simply to give yourself clarity on what it is works for you.. and also to notice the difference between important and non important.. ( I'm sure it's still fun to squeeze some non-importance in there too, to learn....)

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posted February 20, 2005 03:27 AM              

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Great advice!

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