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Topic: One can ever say "My Scorpio"? PART 2
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GeminiAries
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posted February 27, 2005 04:00 PM
 
Maya_V
Its been quite a while since we last spoke. Hope that things are well. I decided to start a new posting with the same subject because my situation has improved, thanks to you and natasha.
My Scorp and I are communicating so much more and he is opening up to me like never before.
Thank you for that. Im slowly regaining his trust.
The Problem now is: he confess to me that he cant see me privately because he has a hard time not touching me and wanting to be intimate with me. He said that from now on we would go out in public because he cant control himself and wants to have a sexual relationship with me too. I told him that I wanted that, but first he must tell me where I stand and what he wants out of this. I wont be his LOVER/FRIEND. He aslo apologized for his past behavior and told me that he felt bad that disrespected me by touching me all over and was a bit creud.I lOVed it, it made me hot too. I want him just as bad as he wants me.
MAya_V im so scared of getting hurt again, which I told him. Now, what do I do to continue with this, and for him to tell me where I stand with him, without being PLAYED?
Scorpio Guy: Nov 5
Me Aries: April 13IP: Logged |
maya-v
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posted February 28, 2005 08:02 AM
God, Gem, sweetie, I wish I had some pearls of wisdom to offer you. Right now, I am myself using my full force to fight the Uranian wars on my Plutonian seas!I think you should be yourself, honest and forthright and yet be sensitive enough to his unexpressed emotions. Sometimes, we are so caught up in the spoken words, we forget the more important things that are being left un said. Its exciting that he is expressing his physical attraction for you. Two things - first, it means you really mean something to him, cause the Scorpio is not the kind of guy that would fool around with someone wihtout getting very deeply affected by them. Second, he is talking to you abt it. Thats the best thing that could ever be. Take this oppurtunity to open up to him and tell him w hat you really fear, what you need and how you feel about him. For this guy, sex is more than the physical act itself, it expresses his deepest emotions and fears. So, use this chance to discuss the most fascinating and im portant aspects of your relationship. Luck and love Maya IP: Logged |
GeminiAries
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posted February 28, 2005 11:45 AM
He said that he doesn't like to be "REJECTED" Im not rejecting him. Just want to know where I stand. Giving in to him right now would tell him that all his past cold,cruel,mean,intolerable cruelty is ok to repeat. Wouldn't it say that maya_v?
I thank God that he is opening up. But I wonder is it his weewee talking or is it his true feelings that are developing into something speacial.
In other words, I know that I will rock his mind and body in bed, but will he give me the cold shoulder after his released his juices?
Im an Aries I need to know where I stand. He is a Scorpio who fears that he is loosing control of his heart.IP: Logged |
maya-v
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posted February 28, 2005 04:12 PM
Hmmmm ... never thought of it that way ... told ya I was a little off today!Then I think the best way to go is to have a serious discussion about where this is heading. Obviously, you guys are past the stage of playing games. So now is the time to decide whether you guys are really meant for each other or are a bad habit the other cannot lose! You have catered to his water long enough, I think its time for him to stoke some of your Fire. Have an honest and heartfelt talk, and this time, make it about you. Sometimes even the strongest, largest eagles need a place to land! IP: Logged |
GeminiAries
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posted March 04, 2005 12:38 AM
Maya_V
We had a serious talk and he took my breath away. Boy, Im in Love. I know that he likes me and that I mean a lot to him. Anyway, we saw each other and we had the talk that you recommended me to have with him. He apologized again for being so bold and touchy with me. He apologized because he felt that he was out of place and wanted to deeply apologize in person. He told me that I was a unique lady and that people like me dont come into his life. He said that from now on he never wants to be alone with me. He said that when we meet it will always be in public places, at the club, the restaurant,he said no more coming over, unless its a get together ect.....
He said that we would NEVER have sex, that he will never disrespect me again. From now on we will be public and that's it.he said that he came to an understanding the he "DOESNT HAVE IT LIKE THAT" with me anymore and that the rejection that i gave him was a wake up call to realize that things between us will never be the same. He said that he wants to see me. But will never be alone.
At first it hurt when he said those things, but then I thought about it and realized that he now understands my worth, as a woman and that im not his "fun Chick".
But i have to ask maya_v, scorp are not the type of man to have female friends that they once were intimate with. I think that it may be another mind game that he wants to see if i will seduce him.
Right now we talk and we go out, but the way he looks at me tells me that he wants more.............. of me. He may be scared of his feelings. So now what?IP: Logged |
astro junkie
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posted March 05, 2005 12:38 PM
If I may interject my Mercury in Scorpio opinion here - I cannot imagine a Scorpio guy not "wanting me" for more than 10 minutes.(*blasted Mercury in Scorpio! Dammmmn it all!!!*) ------------------
... it's better to light a candle than curse the darkness IP: Logged | |
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