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Topic: Who stands a better chance? Please tell me, I'm desperate.
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The Mutable Night Force
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From: England
Registered: Oct 2009
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posted February 28, 2005 04:29 PM
  
Me (virgo) and my Scorpio friend both adore and have a massive crush on this Aries guy. Neither of us really know him (bar saying hi a couple of times).I know that uncannily enough, this means we both share a 6-8 sun sign pattern with him, although things are slightly different but I can't remember how... Things have almost become very competitive recently, which is stupid, because neither of us really stand much of a chance with him but we both agree that if one of us got to know him better than the other we'd be devastated. I don't want us to become unfriendly whenever we talk about him, but she (the scorp) is so ruthless! She would just go out with him if she got the chance, although I think I might do the same. But sometimes it seems like all she cares about is herself (she can't help it, she's just never very sympathetic) whereas, I think I would feel bad about it. This is really dumb because neither of us probably ever will (thinking logicallly) but somehow I've got it in my head now that he's scared of me and likes her! It's ridiculous, but I felt the need to post it here... god knows why... ast. insight I suppose...  Any help?  IP: Logged |
eightdegrees
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posted February 28, 2005 06:30 PM
I feel like... an Aires will be more likely to go after a Virgo... but if your Scorpio friend goes after HIM... she will get him. That goes without saying, of course.Gotta love those Scorpios. IP: Logged |
aries-chick
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posted February 28, 2005 10:50 PM
I think as a long term thing, if you both got to know him well and were good friends with him, he'd feel closer to you, than the Scorp chick, because you have an Aries moon and that Sun/Moon thing goes a long way as friends/lovers in my experience. This depends on the rest of his chart and her chart as well though... As an initial attraction, I'd say it might be her. Also, if I remeber right you were saying he's a bit shy and not the typical aries - he might have an earth or water moon. The only reason I can think of, you get the feeling he's scared of you, astrologicaly, would be your Capricorn Asc which squares Aries, so as first impressions he might get you wrong. I think you should talk to him more, get to know him better and just stay friends for the time being. I don't see that as wrong to you friend, because you wouldn't be dating him. See how being friends goes.. if you're able to get closer. PS I also kinda get the feeling you're in a hurry to have a bf, don't worry about that you're only 14 or so.. I'm sure you'll find the right guy soon enough. IP: Logged |
BlueRoamer
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posted March 01, 2005 01:22 AM
Honestly, this is really blunt and superficial, but its usually true.....whoever is more his type/hotterIP: Logged |
Secret Garden
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posted March 01, 2005 02:08 AM
since he is Aries i would say
1. catch his attention, be good looking, witty, and glam
2. be fun and flirtatious at least temporarily
3. be yourself, as others said he will prolly feel closer to u
--although it is tough tough tough because those scorps share the Mars energy. however, a long term thing there is very unlikely.
the only reason i would recommend this is becoz as a Gem no.s 1 and 2 come naturally for me. I am sick of a few Aries guys followin me around like puppies. the sags and aquas are beginning to irritate me too. i want the leo. but the aries, sag, and aquas wont leave me alone. aah.
with scorp moon i have difficultly maintaining long term relationships with aries ppl...i think ur aries moon will go a long way.IP: Logged |
libra78
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posted March 01, 2005 03:17 AM
just don't mention anything to do with 'desperate' and u'll be fine...the hunted vs the hunter...IP: Logged |
astro junkie
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posted March 01, 2005 12:41 PM
For a "long-term serious committment"? EITHER OF YOU. For hard fast sex? IP: Logged |
The Mutable Night Force
Knowflake Posts: 122
From: England
Registered: Oct 2009
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posted March 01, 2005 03:39 PM
For fast hard sex......??? What?
And I'm not looking for a long term relationship either LOL! I only long to be close to him Thanks, especially aries chick, you remembered stuff even I wouldn't remember to take into consideration. BlueRoamer, I would agree with you, except I don't know what his 'type' is. Although neither of us is partciularly stunning (haha), unfortunately, I think my friend looks more like him and is therefore more his type. He is really tall and she is taller than me, he has dark hair, so does she, he has really big eyes, so does she... damn. I always try to catch his attention, but since recently I've just been scared of freaking him out. A while back, he came onto the train, sat down at a table right near us, threw his head in his arms, face down and stayed looking really depressed for the rest of the journey... we analysed this for ages and still have no clue why he sat by us (if he is scared of me). thanks
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