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Topic: What does Pisces men like in a woman.
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thirteen
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posted March 16, 2005 01:20 PM
 
Ok I confess, my tile guy is a nice Pisces. Im wondering what pisces like in women. I love pisces but don't really know what the men like in a woman. Oh and don't worry. I am a happily married woman but he is so friendly and fun to talk to I let myself crush on him just a wee bit.IP: Logged |
GingerB
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posted March 17, 2005 07:42 AM
hmm...
just be careful, he has tender feelings and is full of dreams.They want someone to love.
sometimes, they want someone to play mama. *shrugs* IP: Logged |
astro junkie
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posted March 17, 2005 04:38 PM
... and sometimes they expect the impossible ...IP: Logged |
thirteen
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posted March 18, 2005 08:46 AM
Ok OK, i'll leave him alone. But.... he keeps coming back so I think he enjoys talking to me too. IP: Logged |
maroon_flower
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posted March 18, 2005 09:04 AM
 remember what happened to the cat... But yea, piscean guys do have such a lovely dreamy quality about them.. almost magical. Peace & Love! IP: Logged |
key
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posted March 18, 2005 09:57 AM
Hi Thirteen -It seems everyone is gently trying to tell you to leave the "tile" guy alone. And, I am rapidly forming a reputation as Ms Patrol Cop on LG - and I have certainly made a zillion bad choices in my life. However, you mentioned that you have a happy marriage. Therefore, it is only logical that you never see this "tile" man again. Would a relationship with this pisces man be worth jeopardizing your marriage? No. Do you have children? Think about it. KEY IP: Logged |
thirteen
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posted March 18, 2005 10:13 AM
The virgo in me is so gosh darned attracted to this person I could scream. I think Im having guilty feelings about this too. I would NOT jeopardize my marriage and the "tile" guy has his life too and he'll be gone in a day or two so it's really all just a blip on the radar screen. But....why? Why was this put in my reality at this time?IP: Logged |
key
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posted March 18, 2005 11:20 AM
Who knows, thirteen ... who knows why these sudden attractions come up. Sometimes they just come up. In the stars? Boredom? The rush of feeling desired/attractive? The secret-keeping? I don't know. For most people, attractions just come up - married or not. It is the handling of these attractions that is the important thing. For right now, you are feeling guilty and are very sure that you would not act on your feelings of attraction. But, things can progress, and it is easy justify the next step and the next - until you are in over your head and are living a life of secrets. So, it is probably a good thing that your tile man will be leaving soon. We all like romance. Sometimes our husbands are caught up in their own problems or daily routine, and they don't give the attention we can all be very demanding of. Perhaps you could find something else to get excited about, and you could transfer your curent feelings of attraction to something more beneficial to yourself and to your husband. A project? A weekend get-away with your husband? You'll figure it out. It is not so out-of-the- ordinary of a problem. Just be firm about not letting this escalate. Just my 2 cents.
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thirteen
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posted March 18, 2005 12:18 PM
Key, I do appreciate your comments. I suppose I need to hear them.
P.S. I really needed to tell someone about my attraction and guilt. I have felt much better since then so thanks for listening.IP: Logged |
key
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posted March 18, 2005 12:42 PM
Hi thirteen -Sometimes I think the "telling" makes the excitement go away a little bit. Besides, marriages are "up and down" - like most things. If you are going through a low point in a marriage, you can be very vulnerable to attention. It is a wonderful feeling - the beginning of a relationship and the feeling of being so desired. One way to keep from becoming further involved is to ask yourself the following question: If this relationship (with the tile man) escalates, and my husband were to find out about it - and leave me - would it be worth it? Would I want this? Probably not. Also, almost always, the initial excitement wears off. Then you find out if you want to spend the rest of your life with this person. Do you have similar values? Do you trust this person? etc., etc. Sounds like you have already figured this out with your husband, and you would like to spend the rest of your life with him. You are a lucky woman. You must also be very attractive. Attractive people have it more difficult in many ways -their looks attract people. KEY IP: Logged |
maya-v
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posted March 18, 2005 12:50 PM
I dont know what sign your hubby is, but if he is not a particularly jealous one, I suggest sharing this little tidbit with him. It always get a good laugh and may even make you more sexy, appealing for him!I would seriously suggest reading his chart for any strong fire or water placements before you do that, just to be sure!  IP: Logged |
26taurus
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posted March 18, 2005 12:55 PM
Well said Key. BTW, I've read alot of your posts and I think you give very good advice. Just wanted to tell you that.  IP: Logged |
key
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posted March 18, 2005 12:58 PM
26Taurus -Thank you very much. I really appreciate your kind words. KEY IP: Logged |
maya-v
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posted March 18, 2005 01:17 PM
"sheepishly crawls in and gives a looooong low bow to both 26 and Key"IP: Logged |
thirteen
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posted March 21, 2005 11:00 AM
Here is what happened. I guess there was tension on both our sides building. I think he was uncomfortable about it too. I walked in the house friday after work. He was there with his worker friend. I said " it's margarita night tonight so should I have my husb. stop and get more tequila?" He said "how many can I have?" I said "all you want" he said " who will drive me home?" I looked him in the eye and said " Well i guess you'll have to stay!" Well everyone bust out laughing and all the tension dissolved. We just BS's after that for about the next hour till my husb got home and now hes gone. Actually, i don't really think he was my type. I think it was a soul test for me. ( long story, i won't go there).IP: Logged |
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