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Topic: Cancer needing help...
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MoonDuchess88
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posted March 16, 2005 07:09 PM
 
Ive had feelings for this scorpio guy for the longest time, I found out he had feelings for me too last November-from his brother  -go figure!! So I told him how I felt, but then he misinterpreted somethings and so did I. We had a fallout in the beginning of December as a result.  Me being hurt, I held a grudge against him and avoided him until January when he apologized-but I heard this through a mutual friend. and now everytime he has something to say to me it's through this mutual friend (like if he wants to say hi)or his brother. I try finding him but I always miss him just like that. I wonder if he really cares about me..and if he does why he doesnt call me to tell me all this stuff?  Or maybe I should make the first move..... AGAIN? (my gurlz think he's scared to make the first move....but I dunno)IP: Logged |
26taurus
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posted March 17, 2005 02:11 AM
Why not ask him? Have a heart to heart. Tell him you need clarification, you need to know what he wants, if anything out of your relationship. You cant keep guessing forever.IP: Logged |
Bluemoon
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posted March 17, 2005 07:05 AM
I agree with 26T"If you love some thing set it free, if it comes back to you it is yours, if it doesn't hunt it down and shoot it" IP: Logged |
GingerB
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posted March 17, 2005 07:39 AM
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"If you love some thing set it free, if it comes back to you it is yours, if it doesn't hunt it down and shoot it"
For real, love it, let it go!
But if it does come back, check it out under a microscope, cause the some of the one's that fly away weren't worth the time the first go around. Next, find a short log, and dig a hole for burying rotten things. signed,
been burnt 2x by the same dodo. Seriously, a shy scorpio?
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MoonDuchess88
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posted March 17, 2005 05:34 PM
Thank you guys I appreciate your advice. I was putting him @ the back of my mind in the beginning of March its just that he keeps asking about me talks about me to his brother (his brother's got a BIG ass mouth-he tells my gurl EVERYTHING  ) , goes looking for me in my dad's old neighborhood a week ago.(forgot to mention that)Im just wondering why he cant call me??? That's why it's been bothering me and the feelings have resurfaced. But I think you guys are right, Im just gonna live my life and he wants me he can come find me.  Thanx again guyz!  IP: Logged |
neptune's mermaid
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posted March 17, 2005 06:18 PM
Hi MoonDuchess88My cousin’s a Scorpio and he’s going out with a Cancer. They seem really happy together.
Can’t remember either one’s Moon or Asc though  I found this in the Cancer-Scorpio chapter, I hope it helps
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Still, there will be times when she’ll have to remind herself that what seems to be a coldness and silence approaching cruelty in him can be a mixture of shyness and a reluctance to admit what he’s really thinking, until he’s sure.
-Linda Goodman
GingerB  Sorry about the dumb dodo…some guys aren’t worth they time and effort. Bluemoon
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"If you love some thing set it free, if it comes back to you it is yours, if it doesn't hunt it down and shoot it"
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sue g
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posted March 18, 2005 09:37 AM
Hi Moon, if this helps at all, I have a female friend who is cancer, me scorpio. Now every time we have a difference, it is me that makes the first move to patch things up. We had a challenging time with each other a couple of weeks ago and decided this time not to make the first move with her and guess what............the friendship has changed, well almost disappeared. Although she is only a friend and your situation is different, I would definately say approach him, I feel cancers at times have this habit of holding a grudge for too long and then miss out on relationships.......hoping this helps and good luck sueIP: Logged |
astro junkie
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posted March 22, 2005 11:32 AM
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posted March 22, 2005 05:37 PM
Welcome!  ------------------
"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged |
FairyDust
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posted March 22, 2005 06:27 PM
I think Cancer and Scorpio are very complimentary - if they are on the same page and they have reached a certain level of trust. However, with that being said, look at the initial way these two approach things:
Cancer tends to do everything indirectly, like the symbolic crab sidestepping problems. Scorpio has a penchant for disguising their motives. So in their way, they are also indirect. I think one of you needs to go "balls to the walls" and "let it all hang out" - CALL HIM! : love:------------------
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astro junkie
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posted March 24, 2005 09:33 AM
... balls to the walls ...IP: Logged |
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