posted March 23, 2005 07:08 PM              

Actually the actual person and their own free will is more reliable than looking at any astrological placements. People will suprise you. They are not birthcharts and planetary placements. It's more complex than that. Like Lanny said, there are no specific indicators.

posted March 23, 2005 07:47 PM              

Also Venus/Pluto squares and oppositions can go that way (trying to hurt each other through cheating)

posted March 23, 2005 10:33 PM              

Rarely does it have anything to do with the current love interest, but it does give a person low self worth, both the cheater and the cheatee.

It can be a sort of masochism too, or a way to play out past games,

It's really only cheating if it's meant to hurt, I have found if it's truly thoughtless, it doesn't hurt, it just looks stupid-but there are cheaters who hurt. If it hurts you, it was meant to. But I still believe it has to do with past problems.

The best way to avoid cheating is to be through with your own past problems and guilts so you can be open minded and focused on the relationship. Once you lose focus, it's easy to drift away and forget to maintain the relationship.

At least that's the Taurean perspective,
Keep the relationship and your life simple, not matter what the other person is doing, in that case you can't think about it. It's impossible to care if someone is cheating and focus on your life at the same time,

And I am the most suspicious, security driven Taurus around!

posted March 24, 2005 10:50 AM              

Does Venus sextile Mercury lead to anything?

posted March 24, 2005 04:28 PM              

Venus-Uranus interaspects: offer excitement and thrills. The problem with this aspect, which is most apparent when the aspect is a conjunction, square, opposition, or quincunx, is that there may be an overall dissatisfaction with each other. Although sex can be especially exciting--even ecstatic--with each other, the partners may easily become restless, as there is an unsettled feeling between the natives that is persistent. When one person (especially Venus) is feeling romantic and loving, the other person (usually Uranus) is distant. When the interaspect is a flowing one (sextile or trine), the relationship may also be somewhat erratic, but this quality pleases both individuals. They may delight in the fact that their partnership is a little offbeat, and never dull!

Venus-Uranus conjunctions and squares can generate so much interest to the point of enthrallment, and often result in sexual activity between people before they know each other well. This can be a confusing and destabilizing contact in the long term, but these aspects generally inspire initial attraction. When these relationships last, the Uranus person is often seen as inconstant by the Venus person and there can be many ups and downs.

Venus-Saturn interaspects: can be difficult to deal with, but effort put forth to understand the interplays will result in enormous increases in understanding of the partners both individually and as a couple. There is often a strong need to be with each other. With the troublesome aspects (opposition and square), the sexual relationship may start out just fine, but later can become unpredictable, stunted, or sporadic. Spontaneity is lost, and this is generally due to power struggles in the day-to-day life of the couple. The Venus person often feels oppressed and restricted by the Saturn person. In fact, Venus may feel criticized and nagged, and Saturn may feel an unhealthy need to control and restrict the Venus native. This general conflict can lead to problems in the bedroom.

Venus-Mercury interaspects: are helpful for creating some common interests between the individuals. These people may enjoy happy exchanges and pleasurable, shared activities. Generally, there is a lot of "talk" in the relationship. Hard aspects (opposition, square, and quincunx) point to misunderstandings that disrupt the flow of the relationship. There can be complaints that each person talks a little too much. There is such a desire to communicate with each other stimulated by these aspects that it can sometimes seem like each person is vying for the stage, or the chance to speak.

More:

http://www.cafeastrology.com/articles/synastry.html

I usually look for heavy Gemini placements

I usually look for scorpio placements.