posted April 02, 2005 04:30 AM              

I just met a family and their Sun Signs are as following

Husband : Virgo
Wife: Scorpio
Son: Cancer
Daughter : Pisces

They look perfect but I don't know much about them.Emotional that's the first thing that came up in my mind to describe this family.

It really made me think what kind of fmaily would you think perfect,ofcourse according to your Sun Sign Moon,Asc,etc.

If you are already married then maybe what placements would have been perfect or you would like to change.

Sun Sign :

Ideal Family :

Mother

Father

Brother

Sister

OR

Husband

Wife

Son

Daugther

Sorry I am not mentioning my details just because I am not sure what would be perfect for me.I thought about it but couldn't get any answers.

As for me I am scorpio sun / Saggi Asc/Aries Moon and I don't get along with all the Pisces or Cancers I meet.In fact some people of this sign hates me.

I don't think there can be any family without any shortcomings but ofcourse there can be compatibility and understanding between few signs which can be good.

I would be glad to get your responses.

posted April 02, 2005 05:05 AM              

I was just thinking of making a similar topic, about "family signatures", in which u mention the signs of ur familymembers...I'll just mention from my fam:

Me: Cancer sun/Virgo Asc/Libra Moon

Mom: Libra Sun/Cappy Asc(just a guess)/Taurus moon

Dad: Don't know his real birthdate...but people say he was born around april/may...IMO he behaves is like:

Aries sun(or taurus/cappy sun)/Asc unknown/Taurus moon(or Aries/Cappy moon)

Sister: Leo sun/Leo asc/Taurus moon

notice the patterns(I've bolded them)...Taurus, Libra, Cappy...

posted April 02, 2005 05:24 AM              

the only thing that immediately comes to mind is,
1. too much of one element in the house is not good, makes it too one sided
2. too much of one mode is not good, for ex. fixed, it would create too much conflict

I know a family that has a lot of mutables in it, (2 Geminis, 1 Saggie, 1 Pisces), they can never make a decision, when they do its usually the wrong one

My mom and dad were both fixed, so is my sister, it creates a lot of stubbornness and silent treatment cold wars, and conflict with no end, not to mention power struggles

There is no earth Sun sign in my immediate family (siblings/ parents) and I feel it very heavily I dont think we are grounded and practical enough, my mother has become that way after a lot of years now but it would have been good to have a Cappy or Taurus with us.

I think every family needs a water person to keep the family together and emotional attachment

I would much prefer a water mom or mutable mom to my fire, fixed mom,

I like having fire siblings they are fun, fire sign parents are too controlling no fun

(Im a Gem sun/Scorp moon, MC is Capricorn)

posted April 02, 2005 06:37 AM              

i dont know abt the ideal family but this is one family that seems ideal to me. infact this was the first time i came so close to a saggi.

posted April 02, 2005 06:52 AM              

me: gemini
rising: scorpio
moon:scorpio

dad: leo
rising: aries
moon:sag

mom:capricorn
rising: libra
moon:gemini

3 years younger
brother: libra
rising: aquarius
moon:aries

5years younger
brother: cancer/leo 23july
rising: scorpio
moon:taurus

my perfect family
dad
rising gemini/aries
sun cancer
moon capricorn

mom
rising cancer
sun libra
moon pisces

and id be a single child
this is so much fun

posted April 02, 2005 07:16 AM              

My mum
Libra Sun
Pisces Moon
Aries rising

Me
Pisces Sun
Virgo Moon
Aries rising

My brother
Aquarius Sun
Aquarius Moon
Leo rising

My baby sister
Leo Sun
Gemini Moon
Gemini rising

posted April 02, 2005 09:08 PM              

I don't really see the controlling thing with my parents... my mum is really like a cancer for some reason (the sunsign, not the disease lol- I love my mum!) and my dad has heavy pisces influences, so he likes to think he's controlling but really, he's anything but. Poor dad It's funny to get him mad though, because then he feels really bad about it, and tries to make it up in really funny and lavish ways. But that's a bit cruel, really, so we try not to do it too much (just kidding! we're very nice to him!)
My brother's not like your typical saggie. He's very hot tempered, and although gems and sags are supposed to get along stellar, we don't. Hmmm...

What I would consider an ideal family to be:

father: libra
mother: taurus
daughter: gemini/cancer
son: taurus/cancer

posted April 02, 2005 09:17 PM              

I love being a Gem daughter, I think Gem girls can be so bouncy and bring so much laughter and life to a household. Even Gem mothers, when they settle down, can bring this whole friendly atmosphere into the upbringing, and encourage a liberal air and freedom centered house. I really like that, I know a Cancer man married to a Gem woman, its been more than 25 yrs now, and theyre so happy, she is settled down and really happy, she has always encouraged her children to be the best they can (not to join the army necessarily ), and her two sons (Libra and Leo) are very happy and love em, its all so lovey dovey

Mutable Night force, you were wondering about the Aries dad, and he would conjunct your moon,

I had a Scorpio dad, who conjuncted by Scorpio moon (Im a Gem sun), but he was so controlling and abusive that it got really bad. Its probably just the Scorp sun tendency but it wasn't pleasant! Horrible first years of my life except the secret treasures and happiness my Leo mom would give me,

also have a Scorp sis and cant get along with her at all, now its a little better but still

Libra brother is too irresponsible I think
Libra men = not good brothers/fathers, I dont know about husband

I think having an Aries dad would be very cool also, if I had a cool dad I would totally be daddys little girl I was always so close to all my uncles, grandparents (both male and female), and my friends fathers in the father-daughter way, I really miss having a good father figure sometimes, because I have a masculine sun sign sometimes its very difficult for me to get along with my mother and sister and I wish I had more men around me who I could jus talk to about stuff!

I love gals and I love my mom n sis but I like having male friends and wish I could have more men around me sometimes, in the family way.

posted April 03, 2005 05:05 AM              

14stars: I completely agree with that one.Although my family isn't something perfect but I would say thatwe do love each other.

Secret Garden: It's really true that every family needs a water person to keep the family together and emotional attachment.

I never knew fire signs parents are controlling.Infact I feel eart signs siblings to be also very controling.

GAL

posted April 03, 2005 10:33 PM              

I would have to say that, it has been my own experience that Libra's make incredible fathers and husbands. Also, we have an Aries son who gets along very well with his Libra dad but, my boy and I cannot possibly go a day feeling fulfilled, until we have pushed a few of each others buttons ... I'm not sure if there exists an ideal or 'perfect' family. In my own opinion, I would think not, as we are but human......?

Here's the fam-damnly....

Dad
Leo Sun
Pisces Moon
Virgo Asc

Mom
Leo Sun
Virgo Moon(19degrees)
Pisces Asc

Mom and Dad are divorced

Bro
Virgo Sun(19degrees)
Cancer Moon
Libra Asc

Bro's Son(my nephew)
Gemini Sun
Capricorn Moon
Sagittarius Asc

Bro is in the process of getting divorced

Me
Gemini Sun
Pisces Moon
Scorpio Asc

My Hubby
Libra Sun
Pisces Moon
Sagittarius Asc

Our Son
Aries Sun
Pisces Moon
Virgo Asc

Our Daughter
Libra Sun
Scorpio Moon
Sagittarius Asc

... yup, it's an emotional flood zone in our house! We all seem to make good 'life rafts' too though....

posted April 03, 2005 11:26 PM              

being a Gem daughter is very fun , being a Gem woman, having to face the world, is very difficult

I dont get along with Saggies so good either although they are very kind to me, and most of them like me lots, friendship is ok, but as soon as it gets to be a deeper relationship like family or significant other, there are too many differences in thought and temperament. I think it has to do with the sun oppositions, they can literally have a virtually opposite take on the same things sometimes (!),

posted April 04, 2005 01:59 PM              

Husband: Cap sun, gemini moon, cancer rising

Daughter: Aries sun, sag moon & rising

Son: Scorp sun & rising, gemini moon

Yes, SG, I can see your point about controlling fire-sign mothers. That would be me. Not always so good. However, I have a lot of earth in my chart, so I am also nuturing. It all comes down to a MOMMA.

My husband is kind and accepting of his children - cap sun/cancer rising. It is wonderful combination for a dad.

My children are quite different. My daughter graduated from MIT in (3) years, won a cash award for research there, and is currently getting a Ph.D in neuroscience. My son dropped out of high school. They are very devoted and proud of each other (after a rocky period).

Family first. That is our motto. All four of us feel the same about that.

posted April 05, 2005 04:59 AM              

Cancerrg:I do get along with Saggis too well I guess the second one is your future family.That's good!!For daughter probably an Aries or Pisces.That looks perfect there.

geminigirl :

"one brother is very talented but thinks the world of himself"

Are you refering to your brother who is cancer/leo ?

" the other one is spoiled to death and thinks he knows everything "

Are you refering to your brother who is libra?

Neptune's mermaid : How are Capricorn dad's are they posssessive. I have an elder bro and just because he is elder to me he is very possessive. I wonder how he would be like dad.

Alchemist : I think your parents sound to be very good.

posted April 10, 2005 02:42 PM              

quote:

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I always wanted to know what is it like having air,water,fire and earth signs togather.My family has water,earth and air but no fire sign.Just wondering how is it?

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Hmm...actually my sister isn't very leo-like...she has a virgo and capricorn stellium, so she's very earthy, shy etc.

My dad is very controlling(and now that I think about it, I think he's a cap! Recently I've seen alot of cappy traits in him, and he is very career-oriented...family and career are both very important to him.).
My dad is very possessive over the ones he loves, and sometimes treats me and my sister, sometimes even my mother, like children, as if we don't know how things should be done lol:P, he's just very protective, but sometimes it can get a little too much. And he has an explosive temper(which is the arian-like trait in him)...and about him being a taurean, well that's just coz some people said his bd is around march-april..and he is an excellent cook, but I'm still leaning towards cappy, that must be it. To describe him in few words:

Sensitive, excellent cook, extremely stubborn, sometimes pessimistic, takes the worlds problems on his own shoulders(must be cap sun), loves family, very career oriented(must be cappy!), is not good at expressing his emotions, keeps a lot inside.

Mom: Similar to my dad, very career oriented, loves family, excellent cook(taurus moon), stubborn but can see two sides of the coin(libra sun), sensitive, sometimes very brooding(is that bcz of taurus moon?).

Sister: Now you would expect a leo sun/leo asc to be loud, open etc. But my sister is the opposite of that...not very loud, not a show-off, she's very down to the ground, sensitive, secretive(extremely secretive..maybe virgo stellium or taurus moon), sometimes there are things she won't even tell my parents or me(which really bugs me)!

I'd say my fam is very earthy...

Me virgo asc, sis virgo + cap stelliums, mom taurus moon + potential cap or can asc, dad is potential cappy sun.

So a very earthy fam.

One thing that can be said about this fam:

Emotions are not expressed very well, it's almost like taboo.

posted April 11, 2005 02:26 AM              

I think this fiery family that I know is the coolest.

Mother: Sag
Father: Leo
Oldest daughter: Leo, cap moon, leo asc
~my pretend ball of fire little sis
Son: Aries, Cap moon
youngest daughter: Aries, taurus moon

Just imagine the fireworks in that house! haha No but they are seem to fit really well together.

In my household, its just me, my mom and stepdad (whom I'm not close to)

My mom: Leo, cap moon, aqaurius asc
Me: Leo, Taurus Moon, Libra asc
~we get along really well..we're best friends
Stepdad: Cancer, Scorp Moon, Scorp asc (VERY MYSTERIOUS)

posted April 11, 2005 02:30 AM              

One is my cousin but he is Scorpio/Saggitarius cusp and I guess I don't know him much.Well he used to be blunt,secretive,showy and he hided lots of things from his parents.

One is my classmate : He was very nice in the beginning as he would share all his stories and where he traveled and all so that was pretty flattering,In fact I was kind of got emotional about him but then we didn't any kind of relationship because he became really showy. Other than that he is son of a big producer so as years went by he turned out to be Show off brat and after that he completely changed. He didn't cared who was I and then I couldn't care any more As ther were too many girls going after him because of his money and I couldn't join that gang .

One who helped me and it was more of business.He is elder to me.
I think he is a wonderful person and he helped me a lot and he has a great sense of humour.A little showy don't bother that was my attitude.

One is my present good friend.He is elder to me.I think he helps me to see positive side and helps me to be optimistic.He has a great sense of humour too.

Another one was ex-colleague.Well I guess he is just honest.

OK now if somebody ask me in conclusion: I think when Saggiss are young like in their teens they are more showy and as they get older I guess they know how not to be that showy.

Now I don't feel that saggs are really showy.I feel that they are trying to be honest or maybe that's the way they think and they are being honest to them,selves. I let it be I don't try to change it.Sometimes it's just take a back seat and just" wait and watch" approach works or just don't bother.I think not to take everything seriously and laugh on oneself.Maybe that would help.

I remember when my Sag classmate ridiculed my another Sag girl friend and she was really cool about it but I was offended.When I think now, he was just being honest about what he thought about her.

" dont u think a saggi -scorp would be the sexiest couple "

I was thinking of that too. Don't know. maybe ya but for that a scorpio would have to deal with the blunt comments of saggs and saggs would have difficulty in understanding scorpio secretiveness and emotions.