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Topic: Aries Love - Being on the Receiving End
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calliope
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posted April 12, 2005 01:45 PM
 
Okay, I'd just like to put myself in "the other person's shoes" for a moment, and welcome your thoughts on what it's like to be loved by an Aries. "Rollercoaster" is one of the favourite cliches, but I'd be particularly interested to know what the "hot pursuit" feels like  ? (Do we ever have the capacity to get obsessive?) I'd also be interested in the considerable energy-infusing qualities of this sign, and its strengths in interpersonal relationships - ability to pick others up, for example. IP: Logged |
sweetlibra
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posted April 13, 2005 04:29 AM
<<"Rollercoaster" is one of the favourite cliches, but I'd be particularly interested to know what the "hot pursuit" feels like >>its simply marvelous..! u feel like a princess 
but once u are in his clutch.. dono what to say..
[sorry this is very personal opinion from my experience with my Ex] IP: Logged |
calliope
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posted April 13, 2005 08:50 AM
Hmmm. It sounds like a touch of the famous Aries attention span. I'm sorry you had that experience, sweetlibra. Many of us are much more committed to and involved with their partners  Calling any guys out there? Have you been subjected to the Aries woman "huntress" experience - and, did you go along with it -or, what did you do about it?  Calliope IP: Logged |
thirteen
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posted April 13, 2005 10:01 AM
Im not a guy but i have a fun story to tell. My aries hubby pursued me. I was moving to another state for a job and he wouldn't let go. He was not real dramatic or anything but he just wouldn't let go. He kept in touch, helped me move, visited me in delaware a few times and then he ended up getting a job there. His aries determination is like that. He never sees no as a possible option. And just think if my pessimistic attitude won out i wouldn't be where i am today with him so thank gosh he was like that.IP: Logged |
CNO732
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posted April 13, 2005 01:31 PM
Ok ... Virgo guy here dealing with and have dealt with Aries women ... They luv the chase, luv the energy and battle of the chase, luv the energy of getting to know a person and pick them apart .... Like to be on equal footing and luv to throw around opinions and ideas ...The mild, meek, arrogant, wishy-washy need not apply with them BUT they get bored easily, need lots of stimuli, always "on" and turns "off" only when they want too ... They love excitement ... Rollercoaster ride yes and quite taxing on the brain and u have to be father/nurterer type and stand ur ground as a man without being condescending or looking weak ... They love hard but fall out of it just as fast .. got be steady, freddy with them, kind of like a boxer, weaving in and out, jumping in their face then back to keep them interested and excited about the battle
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lalalinda
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posted April 13, 2005 01:36 PM
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thirteen
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posted April 13, 2005 01:44 PM
CNO732, JEEZ YOU'VE GOT IT DON'T YOU?IP: Logged |
sthenri
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posted April 13, 2005 05:10 PM
Yes but the problem is once you start looking like the father type, she gets less attracted. Women are not attracted to their fathers it's imprinted.
So I don't know what you do with an Aries woman, just be yourself and don't on any act, be needy once in a while, let her help you. Let her know you will heal her hurts emotionally, not just physically.And yes even Venus in Aries gets lost sometimes. We need guidance, and get angry if things are overwhelming. If an Aries woman has a close female friend she is more likely to commit. Natasha
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calliope
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posted April 14, 2005 04:48 AM
I agree with you about the "father" type, sthenri, you have it bang on there. What do you mean about Aries with close female friends being more likely to commit? CNO732, you are also so right abut the "equal footing" and standing one's ground as a man. I admit we probably are a bit (relentless? exhausting?) I couldn't stand a doormat, I need someone who is assertive and says "NO" once in a while. In fact I'm rather enjoying being "kept interested" right now - although it could maybe just be circumstances - I don't know. It keeps one on one's toes, one might say. IP: Logged |
raaz999
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posted April 14, 2005 10:48 AM
Yeah, Have known few Aries males. They are very determined in love. Once they have committed they would do anything to keep it going. They are very caring. They are always on 'go' ALL THE TIME. They can be very restless. They want everything done quick and fast.(not the best approach all the time) but thats Aries for you.Yes.....rollercoster...in a good way! Optimism is their ultimate mantra. If they are in love they will never give up unless they want to. For them the word 'no' is nonexistent. IP: Logged |
sthenri
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posted April 14, 2005 12:15 PM
What do I mean by if she has a close female friend? It's clear that her close male friends, and trust me she has them, to take her out, cook her meals, rub her feet, will not like YOU. so encourage her to have female friends and they will want for her what they want for themselves, one guy friend, who is hopefully not being attracted to the their aries g/f.In other words, women pressure you to do what everyone else is doing, committing to one person, that's what you want if you are a guy with an aries g/f, or even a gemini g/f. Whenever I have a male friend he is ALL over me to not commit to any one guy of course. Natasha
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calliope
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posted April 14, 2005 12:39 PM
That's an interesting "take", sthenri.I'm afraid my friends are mostly male and don't like it if I talk about activities I do with "x" other male friend. Despite the fact that these activities are purely friendship, they either never mention the "other" guy, or are reluctant to met him. (So it's obvious they don't like it!) Ah, that Aries paradox - crazily jealous, but unable to comprehend the boot being on the other foot. I guess it all depends on the level of commitment one is after. Deep down, would most guys be searching for an exclusive relationship, for example, or - if they weren't family-minded - relish the prospect of a FWB? IP: Logged |
calliope
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posted April 14, 2005 02:34 PM
- One thing I will say - is that the man who can teach me to be patient deserves a medal...or, indeed, much more than that. IP: Logged |
astro junkie
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posted April 18, 2005 11:57 AM
If they are the really "macho" type of Aries - well - let me put it this way. The only Aries I've known always had a HUGE thing about having a "woman at home" while they caroused. And it goes on for years. Either the woman at home has been promised marriage "when he's ready" - or they're already married and he thinks she's the proverbial "ball & chain" ...I'm not saying all are like this, but too much for my Cancer Moon (feelings) & Uranus in Leo in the 4th (rebellion) to handle. IP: Logged |
themeanreds
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posted April 18, 2005 04:51 PM
I'm an aries female and I was pursued by an aries male a few years back. Usually I'm the one doing all the chasing so it was a nice surprise at first to be the one who got chased. It made me a bit uncomfortable after a while and that's when I realized that when a man chases me ... I run. Eck, I wouldn't want to do that again. He was way over the top, and the fact that I wasn't that into him probably fueled his fire even more. IP: Logged |
PrincessO27
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posted April 18, 2005 08:28 PM
Yeah, I'm an aries female too and i absolutely hate to be chased. At first the attention is fun, but when you realize that you don't have to do any work it's almost like what's the point in it? It takes the excitement out of it and the fun of seeing if you can get what you want. I guess that's typical aries behavior though.IP: Logged |
astro junkie
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posted April 23, 2005 10:47 AM
You know what? I wonder if a Sign like Virgo, which is known for "service", would feel the same way - not being comfortable being chased because THEY are the givers and the doers ... yet, they are Mutable's.When I think about any other Signs which might be related to "service to others", they don't strike me in the same way - Example - a Cancer, or a Pisces, wouldn't mind being chased and wooed. IP: Logged | |
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