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Topic: trying to understand this AQUARIUS
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shop22much
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posted April 17, 2005 11:41 PM
  
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shop22much
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posted April 18, 2005 01:16 AM
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Battle of Evermore
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posted April 18, 2005 01:55 AM
Ummm, that's sort of a hard situation to judge unless you know the guy..... My heart goes out to you. I don't mean to sound discouraging, but I wouldn't totally commit myself if I were you. Sometimes if you seem somewhat detached, I think that can make Aqua suns more interested.
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whiterabbit
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posted April 18, 2005 10:52 AM
hi there shop22much,
sorry that you feel so stressed out. I completely understand why, however. It's quite a crazy sitation! Anybody would be confused about what to do, because he is clearly sending you very "mixed signals".
From personal experience- my first relationship was with an Aquarius- this is what I can tell you: I'm an Aquarius myself but I still had a lot of trouble reading my Aqua boyfriend. When we were first flirting with the idea of dating I never knew where we stood. We spent this one amazing day together once- it was when I really realized I had fallen in love with him. But I felt he was very detached the whole time- in another world, not really feeling much. A few days later I confessed my feelings for him and he told me he felt the same way- and that he really realized it "that day" (and I thought he wasn't even present!).
So they are definitely hard to read, and going by what they show on the surface is not safe. Going by what they say is a little safer- Aquas are basically honest (unless they have certain influences in their charts) BUT..here's the problem with what they SAY: it can be unreliable because of the tendency for their minds to shake and shift. Meaning- they mean what they say WHEN they say it but when they don't- well who knows what they mean then? BUT, this of course isn't true with every single Aquarian person in the world, like any other trait your read or are told about.Another unfortunate Aquarian trait that might be working against you (and really, this is sort of a universal human trait):
If he feels he's sort of "got you", in whatever sense, he may feel less of a need to actively pursue you, show you how he feels, etc... I guess this sounds sort of cynical, but I find it to be very true, even with the best of people. But this situation can change, of course-
love changes everything, being together changes everything- as much as you can know a person, there is something to be said for face to face contact-
a huge part of communication comes from body language, eyes- especially helpful with people who are infamously bad at talking about emotions (men, aquarians, you've got two in one)
Ok, what should you do?
I'm not sure about the details, but I think you should definitely meet him in person before you make any serious decisions. Sometimes things just solve themselves. If not- at least you'll be a little clearer about how YOU feel, and how the two of you are together. And most importantly here- HE'll be clearer about how he feels too, which will definitely help you here.
Well, good luck.... don't let those fickle water bearers get you down! Oh, and hey- my first love was also a Virgo. Virgo-Aquarius can be quite a magical thing- no matter what the astologers say. IP: Logged |
shop22much
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posted April 18, 2005 12:31 PM
Ok I looked it up, he has a TAURUS moon, does this help? what does it mean?IP: Logged | |
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