posted April 18, 2005 04:34 PM            

The first thing that I want to say is ... be ready to share him with EVERYONE. Not that he will be unfaithful, my two friends are very devoted once they are in a relationship ... but this guy is a social star. Every where you go he will know someone or meet someone new. He is a fantastic conversationlist and will be able to talk about any subject for hours. He will be charming, witty, a wonderful flirt, very cheeky, your stomach will hurt from laughing. Both of the boys I know are the most warm, big hearted, congenial people I have ever met and have personality to spare.

The problem ... you aren't the only one these wonderful attributes will be directed towards. Sure, you'll get your fair share, but so will the clerk at the grocery store, the mailman, all his classmates, his attractive female coworkers ... male or female, young or old, poor or rich, whatever. This man loves to get around and if you are the jealous type, or need a lot of attention then this might not be the most comfortable situation for you.

That's why I pulled back with my gemini/leo moon. At first I was in awe of how much fun he was, it seemed like his brain went 100 miles a minute and that was only out matched by how sweet and wonderful he was. I loved it when that was directed towards me, but I would cringe when he was dishing it out to other girls. It was all innocent of course, cruelty and being unfaithful aren't part of his programming, but it still bothered me. I'm not an overly possessive person but I def. need to know I'm number one in someones life. If Im sure about that I don't care if he my significant other chats it up with a supermodel, because I know he's coming home with me. The thing with my gem/leo boy is that I wasn't number one, I was one among a million and I know myself too well to pretend like I'm okay with that.