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The Mutable Night Force
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posted April 18, 2005 03:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for The Mutable Night Force     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know there have been a lot of boards on Cancerians recently- very popular people obviously! I just need to ask something to see if this is how one would be all the time or well, not... so I don't make an idiot of myself.

Would a Cancer guy just generally be really lovely and sweet and funny to a girl just because it's their normal demeanor... or because they don't know the person well and they're being polite... or would they just act like this if someone was like that towards them (do unto others etc...)...
I just don't want to make myself look stupid by thinking that someone is a proper friend when really they're just being polite.

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fayte.m
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posted April 18, 2005 03:24 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'd say ALL of these! It all depends on the situation and the person. A boss? A parent, etc..My beloved is a Cancerian. I'll ask him for his opinion and then I'll get back to you.

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posted April 18, 2005 03:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for The Mutable Night Force     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Haha! Thank you very much!

The person is of no particular relation to me... just someone I know.
Situation? When the person is just generally chatting to you in person or on msn or something...
Of course they all have that sort of shy awkward thing going on... it's just discerning whether they're being nice or they really like your company, y'know?

What if this person has the same moon sign as me?

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pixelpixie
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posted April 18, 2005 03:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moon sign conjunctions are incredible at creating a feeling of understanding between two people.
In this case, he is probably gnuine in his caring demeanor.
Also, I am very friendly, I talk to anyone. I am genuinely friendly unless they cross a line. There is no premeditation, just a social intercourse. Some people just are. If you are feeling friendly, why ask why?
The only sure way to get to know uif someone is genuine or not,is well.. to get to know them.. the only way to do that is through chatting.


Do you sometimes feel like you are here to observe rather than interact?

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marcia
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posted April 18, 2005 03:56 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, my Moon, Mercury, Venus, and second house are all in Cancer and for me it's still a hard call, I mean, if I treat the person the way you described, I could be doing it because I may feel obligated to or I could very well be extremely fond of you or I could just be trying to kill you with kindness because it makes me feel good to make others feel good.

Damn, Cancers are popular this month

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The Mutable Night Force
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posted April 18, 2005 04:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for The Mutable Night Force     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for your replies.
Pixie, -"Do you sometimes feel like you are here to observe rather than interact?". To be perfectly honest, that baffled me! For all the knowledge in the world, sometimes I am reealllyy dumb. Now is one of those times. Do you mean in context or in general?

I suppose what I'm really asking, is just what I ask every time.... by nice i mean 'friends'... it makes me feel awkward being specific... I just don't want to look stupid, as I said.
Like when a cancer is nice, is it just their way or do they like you?
Oh I feel awkward now.

And we have chatted! lots!

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pixelpixie
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posted April 18, 2005 04:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I simply meant.. the questions you ask are generally on the interaction level...
You question social situations, which in my opinion, shows a deeply phycologically driven soul ( which further explains your interest in Astrology) and someone who want to fit inside a certain role, and is opening up to that.. but you like to observe before you accidentally go to a spot that is uncomfortable...
You like to thoroughly cover the bases. But you want to be part of the team...
It shows intelligence. Plus emotional intelligence.
To question something everyone does shows it means more to you.
Like you are an observer, in order to better understand the ways which you adapt.

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posted April 18, 2005 04:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for The Mutable Night Force     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you pixie! I found your reply so interesting that I read it twice (also because I'm stupid! Haha!).
I am very interested in psychology (that's what you meant right? I'm not being too bright tonight). That does seem very accurate about how I like to look at things. I would very much like to be part of a team- but that probably won't ever happen. I find socialising awkward (Saturn 1st house??).

However, I also ask these questions on a selfish level, because I want to know something for myself, without having to get too personal.
But if it'll help anyone- what I mean, is I don't want to be too friendly with this guy if he is just being polite and will be freaked out. We have Aries Moons.\

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posted April 18, 2005 05:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You don't want to come on strong if he isn't interested in that way.. even if you aren't sure yourself, whether you are interested in that way....

Aries Moons?
Oh please, you guys probably chat up a storm, about whatever sparks your interest.
I also have Saturn in the first.
I also observe.. but I do it while interacting... (Why do you think I asked the question to begin with?)
And by the way?
Shut up.
Your Aries Moon can handle it .... stop calling yourself dim. You and I both know you got something going on upstairs.

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fayte.m
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posted April 18, 2005 09:03 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
OK! I asked my Cancerian beloved.....He said, "if you're receiving mixed messages,then you are entitled to ask what the deal is. Cancers can often get so lost within themselves, that they become unaware of how their behavior affects others".
Hope that helps! and

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posted April 19, 2005 07:04 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i will say the will be polite and friendly in all the three cases, if u are polite with them, friendly with them even if its the first meeting . chances of thier being rude is when u are rude with them or if doesn't really like u . its very very normal with them , actually the y feel they are ppl who bekieve someone real fast so they feel they are close to the just after a few mmeting though the case is not that all the time.
the normally get impressed very fast but slowly they try to create aresonable image . thats how there system works , weird ha....!

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posted April 19, 2005 03:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for The Mutable Night Force     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
pixie- without going overboard or sucking up- that last post was hilairious and flattering. Even if I felt the need to call myself smart I couldn't.... although its great to hear someone thinks I am!
On msn, yeah.... we rabbit on about anything... stupid but fun.. face to face- it feels like I'm the more talkative one... although he wasn't exactly hiding in his shell or anything either.

Thanks fayte.m and cancerrg too!

ok- I'll shut up now

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marcia
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posted April 19, 2005 03:38 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cancers don't talk

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fayte.m
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posted April 19, 2005 03:57 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
They don't???!!!!!!!

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posted April 19, 2005 04:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for The Mutable Night Force     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
HUH? Yeah, I repeat: 'They don't??!!???'

If that's true, I've been wasting a lot of time with my imaginary friend. Which is actually quite believable.

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fayte.m
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posted April 19, 2005 04:31 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Huh???? Maybe it's because I'm a Scorpio, but Cancers talk quite a bit. If anything they seem to get gloomy if they can't talk freely, like when someone makes them sad, or mad, then they go into their shell...it is THEN! that they don't talk, they hide or reach out and pinch!!!!!!

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posted April 20, 2005 07:27 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
and when they talk , they dont stop!

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fayte.m
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posted April 20, 2005 07:58 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Very true! But they usually have something fasinating to say. Or some wee bit of useful wisdom or advice.

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cancerrg
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posted April 20, 2005 08:21 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yup sometime its something that only they can understand , i think its the lack perfect comic timing as ------ may be like librans

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fayte.m
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posted April 20, 2005 08:31 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
But they would be very happy to explain it to you if you ask sincerely what it means.

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cancerrg
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posted April 20, 2005 08:56 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
ya , they like giving speeches!

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fayte.m
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posted April 20, 2005 09:08 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes they do! But more often than not...they are very good at it!!!

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cancerrg
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posted April 21, 2005 02:20 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
thank u atleast some one appreciated .
u are not a capri , never seen the capris appreciate or abilities any guesses why?

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posted April 21, 2005 02:39 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I sometimes talk too much!! lol
Rambling, now and then when I am upset or nervous.

can/aqua/aris

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IamLove
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posted January 13, 2007 04:22 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:

know there have been a lot of boards on Cancerians recently- very popular people obviously! I just need to ask something to see if this is how one would be all the time or well, not... so I don't make an idiot of myself.
Would a Cancer guy just generally be really lovely and sweet and funny to a girl just because it's their normal demeanor... or because they don't know the person well and they're being polite... or would they just act like this if someone was like that towards them (do unto others etc...)...
I just don't want to make myself look stupid by thinking that someone is a proper friend when really they're just being polite.

I think it depends!

If he has a lot of prominant signs in gemini(especially mercury and venus in gemini) or leo he could be flirting

Katie

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