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shop22much Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Dec 2010	posted April 19, 2005 06:32 PM x IP: Logged
FairyDust unregistered	posted April 19, 2005 06:45 PM well, it helps to remember that Aquarius IS a detached, mental air sign. But no one is just a Sun sign. It would help to know your entire charts. If you don't have all of the information, Sun, Moon, Mars Merc and Venus would be helpful... IP: Logged
marcia unregistered	posted April 19, 2005 06:48 PM Maybe he's just a jerk. IP: Logged
Secret Garden unregistered	posted April 19, 2005 06:52 PM lol @ marcia well, what can I say, Im struggling with a very detached Aqua boy that Im going out with also, he can be aloof and totally caring by turns, and it just puzzles me (me! moody-silly-25 different people in one-Gemini-sun me!) SG IP: Logged
shop22much Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Dec 2010	posted April 19, 2005 06:56 PM I know that but HOW DO I CONFRONT HIM? I dont want to scare him away. IP: Logged
marcia unregistered	posted April 19, 2005 07:00 PM Yeah, Secret Garden HOW DOES SHE CONFRONT HIM? Wow, I just don't get some people. IP: Logged
shop22much Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Dec 2010	posted April 19, 2005 07:03 PM djfjsdg IP: Logged
shop22much Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Dec 2010	posted April 19, 2005 07:04 PM ok you just revised your post- ignore mine above. IP: Logged
marcia unregistered	posted April 19, 2005 07:06 PM Well then quit being so DAMNED SNIPPY and PUSHY and maybe you'll get an appropriate answer. I'll keep my feelings to myself from now on. IP: Logged
marcia unregistered	posted April 19, 2005 07:08 PM Actually, my revised post was more insulting than my original one Ok, I'll go bye bye from this thread IP: Logged
shop22much Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Dec 2010	posted April 19, 2005 07:08 PM PUSHY? Im looking for kind souls to help me in a situation where I feel helpless. Maybe you feel somehow you must put your 2 cents where not welcomed, I didnt ask how you FELT about me, I asked if anyone who is AQUA or dealt with a aqua would help me with input, your input wasnt input just your attempt to make me feel like a ******* . NICE TRY. No. IP: Logged
shop22much Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Dec 2010	posted April 19, 2005 07:09 PM . IP: Logged
Aphrodite unregistered	posted April 19, 2005 07:32 PM Sounds like selective listening. You only want to hear things if they agree with you. And if they don't, you get confrontational. It also sounds like it's time to move on from this relationship. IP: Logged
shop22much Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Dec 2010	posted April 19, 2005 07:35 PM No she was being rude TOWARDS me, she had nothing to contribute to what I was asking. I was getting confrontational because she was ATTACKING my character. IP: Logged
marcia unregistered	posted April 19, 2005 08:38 PM That guy really has you going through it, huh? IP: Logged
shop22much Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Dec 2010	posted April 19, 2005 08:58 PM yes marcia he is, im sorry if i came off rude, this is a message board people are always going to put their 2 cents out there, i feel bad what i said, i already "confronted" him, it went smoothly, and im happy. this high will last for a few days. after that ill probably be analyzing again. IP: Logged
marcia unregistered	posted April 19, 2005 09:40 PM Well, I'm sorry too. My philosophy is if the damned man is too much trouble then he isn't worth it. But I know how it feels to infatuate (hence my most recent posts) so I should've been more sensitive I suppose. I just get a little annoyed when people leave posts and make it seem as if they're demanding something. Good night. IP: Logged
zoso Newflake Posts: 15 From: Reno, Nv Registered: Nov 2009	posted April 20, 2005 12:37 AM A lot of people will tell you to ignore him, be elusive and intriguing. However, I am a crazy woman and actually went a little "psycho" in your position (with an Aqua). Nothing too crazy, just a little pent up frustration vented. And actually, he wrote back quite resposive to that. He mentioned I was intriguing and that I am an "interesting creature". That creature part was a bit...umm...creature? What did he mean by that? Who cares, really because he said he found me intriguing and interesting "layer beneath layer." I dunno, I took it as a compliment. So, in conclusion, my best advice is to analyze the responses you got from previous angles and then decide if being elusive with the Aqua will work, or maybe just being a nut. who really knows with these Aquas, anyways???? >>>maybe MamaMia....she's pretty much got them down by now, huh Mama>? IP: Logged
Secret Garden unregistered	posted April 20, 2005 01:14 AM ........i donno how to confront him........ my Aqua doesnt like being confronted, he totally seems uncomfy about it...and gets kind of 'macho' and authoritative if I try to pin him down verbally in my cutesy indirect way to get an answer well anyways plz dont yell at me again just thot id post since no one else had posted anything.... SG IP: Logged
DayDreamer unregistered	posted April 20, 2005 02:15 AM hmmm...im an aqua gal myself, and i actually tend to agree with marcia here..."if the damned man is too much trouble then he isn't worth it." You have to confront an aqua, be it boy or girl! And dont be afraid of not getting the reaction you want. I could probably help you out some more if you could post both of your charts. DayDreamer IP: Logged
astro junkie unregistered	posted April 20, 2005 11:01 AM God knows I've been in enough relationships, trial & error, so I hope what I have to offer helps. I don't like to "act" in certain ways in order to get someone to "act" in certain ways. I think that's totally useless in a serious relationship. You have to be yourself. If you are afraid or hesitant about confronting him, it probably has more to do with your own issues with assertiveness & confrontation. Maybe you're practicing with him. Maybe the "prize" won't be him, but a more mundane lesson instead. IP: Logged
Aphrodite unregistered	posted April 20, 2005 12:50 PM Aquarians usually disappear from active participation if they no longer have an interest in a person or community. They like to fade out with no discussions. But, they're always paying attention. A little nudge here, a little bite there . . . you know. They make up their minds quickly and stick with their decisions before the other person has a chance to catch up. They aren't big on confrontations. Intelligent discussions, yes. Absolutely. Fights? Nah. Negotiations? They aren't too good with being flexible. IP: Logged
ghanima81 Moderator Posts: 520 From: Maine Registered: Apr 2009	posted April 20, 2005 01:07 PM I must just not see it.... Am I like this? Well, I guess when I'm not really into the person, and they are into me... I will still want to be their friend, leaving a relationship messy is too trying, so slipping away and back into the comfortable 'friend zone' seems to be the route I take. Perhaps you don't want to hear that, but that may be what he's all about. And if I recall, you are a Virgo sun, so you will want answers now, and for this to be one way or the other, not a silly hiatus in between... Hunny, let it go. I'm sure you want him to make sense, follow some kind of structured relationship/breakup/ something, but it may never happen. With an Aqua sun, you may wake up one day and find that you have a good friend, and even be convinced that's all you ever had in the first place. I think detatched is such an overused word when speaking about Aqua influenced people. I have a lot of aqua in my chart, and I'll tell you what, when I am IN LOVE, I am not too far away from that person... I want to be near them always. Physically, emotionally, and mentally. I guess maybe we are really picky about who we let in? I don't know... but I can only relate to the ''emotionally cut off'' side of Aqua when I do not love the other person... IP: Logged
marcia unregistered	posted April 20, 2005 01:18 PM All of the Aqua men I ever knew never had any idea of what love and emotion was really about, yeah, it is ignorant, but it's from what I've experienced. This isn't from dating experience, just from family and friends. Also, come to think about it, it takes ALOT to get an Aqua man to argue if they ever do. A confrontation would probably make him even more distant. IP: Logged

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