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Gemini-Girl
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posted April 23, 2005 09:56 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Could someone tell me how to deal with this guy...he´s 9 years elder than me, 32 yrs, while I´m 22 and works in my school.

I donno what to do, he looks at me in a flirtous way, and even gives me signs like slight touch on the arm now and then while saying something teasing.

The question is, shall I take the initiative towards him or wait and let HIM make the first move since he´s an Arian and is turned off by opposite initiatives...??
While the cappy moon might be too shy/careful to take action..*confused*…

I´m a gemini with virgo moon and taurus asc..

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astro junkie
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posted April 23, 2005 01:43 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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whiterabbit
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posted April 23, 2005 11:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for whiterabbit     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
weird!
I gather he's an Aries with a Cap moon? My last two flings were with that combo- yes..two arians in a row....it's been wild.

Also, I believe that's Pixel Pixie's husband's combo as well>> so she'd be the real expert

but I feel like an expert after dealing with two in a row. They've been a lot of fun- but I find that they are extremely flirtatious with just about EVERYONE (even male waiters!) so watch out (but then again you're a Gem..I'm sure you can handle it)
I don't find they are at all turned off by a woman who is forward, in fact I think they're turned on by that. I made the first move with both- though there was a LOT of flirting first.
But I definitely say- keep it light for a looooooooong time. And keep your guard up. But once again, you're a Gemini, I'm SURE you can handle that.


Best of luck..

P.S. great sex probably in store

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Secret Garden
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posted April 23, 2005 11:49 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
lol, whiterabbit, the PS part of ur post was the best, says my Scorp stellium.


SG

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Gemini-Girl
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posted April 25, 2005 11:49 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks a lot for your answer Whiterabbit =) sounds cool, two in a row!

The thing is that I´m not looking for a wild affair at the moment, but maybe a fling
which can turn into something more potential...but after your reply
this guy doesnt seem to be that sort of material..though cappie-moons are
known to be down to earth and so on...

Do you think there is any chance
for me to find some faithfullness, since that is very important to me, in fact
most important (my venus and asc being in Taurus doesnt accept less than that)
but if he flirts around without any serious intention to pursue the relation
its fine to a certain extent.

Pls explain what you mean by keeping it light, and why, and keep my
guards up? you mean playing hard?

I would even appreciate if some Arian guys with cappy moon could
tell me about how they behave in love and if you guys like commitments
or prefer playing around?

Hugs to all astrolovers out there!!

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pixelpixie
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posted April 25, 2005 12:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't know.. my hubby is uber sentimental and I find a lot of Aries are faithful once they determine they want to be with you.
Of couse he has a Cappy Moon and Venus in Pisces.
I think it all depends also on how you are raised.. my hubby is an only child, and his parents are still together. He was raised with anything he wanted, and rather than that making him flippant, it made him appreciate things.
He definately has that selfish streak.. but I find it only comes out if the 'baby'(I need) parts aren't taken care of.. *ie, he is hungry, horny or sleepy.... the basic needs sort of thing.
Do the back and forth flirtation.. be fun, be spontaneous, be unusual.. but approachable. Aries can see truths, so be yourself.
By all accounts, my hubby hould be fooling around with everyone. but he doesn't.
He is an Aries, with Sag rising, Gemini Mars, Pisces Venus, etc....
But well... he doesn't.
Maybe it's because we are quite compatable horizontally ( or vertically.. whatever)
Let him chase a little. It'll make him appreciate the score.
Have fun!

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Happy Dragon
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posted April 25, 2005 03:05 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey Gemgal
Aries are great ... carry a rucksack of condoms 'n prepare for loads of activity .. on an emmotional level maybe keep a fire extinguisher close by .. understand the relationship between fire and earth
maybe this 'll help out .. be just the intro .. check out the book .. be like armour for yer love life :-) http://www.happydragon.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk/A.F.L.G.html

[I gather he's an Aries with a Cap moon?] .... sounds like sex on wheels with loads of laughs on the way :-)
faithful ? ... Cap moon should help out .. or may be a case of 'end justifies means' .. but a ram is a ram

i be earth sun .. venus in Aries .. water asc ... forever gettin' mixed up with fire suns with scorpio ascendants .. have close aries mates .. the girls just fall at their feet ... amazing to watch ... love those fire signs .. keep on warming me up in all sorts of ways

above all : have fun .. enjoy the experience

ps .. be aware that the ram probably reckons he's spotted a bull ( i.e. your ascendant ... i.e. your front door ) .. methinks it be rutting season for both bull and ram .. enjoy

pss .. let him make the move (his cap moon may add a slight emmotional shyness) .. but the ram loves the chase .. but often finds himself chasing an 'image' ... just loves to rescue damsels in distress .. just remember those lovable fire signs are often first out the door when things start to go wrong ... just really uderstand fire 'n earth .. let the tremors begin

( ... and said to the sheriff " that's your wife on the back of my horse .... " :-))

si@HD

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Gemini-Girl
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posted April 26, 2005 09:40 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I read a bit of that intro, was really intresting...and yeah, he´s quite handsome that girls cant let him pass unnoticed...
a bit scary though..since I like to keep my guys to myself..at least when I´m unsure of their feeling. My jealousy is not shown openly though (descendent in scorpio +asc in Taurus gives bith to that I guess)..

But still I wonder If I should keep on chatting with him, try to become friends or somthing and be forward(without "asking him out") or shall I play hard to get sort of thing, which actually takes place automatically when he´s around, since my virgo moon makes me behave a bit stiff and reserved while trying to hide my feelings, and I think that makes him insecure and unsure wheter he should make a move or not..hmm, but I think, for now I´ll keep a low profile and let time show whats in store for me...

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Bluemoon
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posted April 26, 2005 12:13 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I checked out your link, Happy Dragon. Good one!

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Happy Dragon
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posted April 26, 2005 03:23 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cheers .. i aim to get back here soon with a bit more info for Gemgal .. am sure with her asc. the guys just go all wobbly knee'd .. :-))

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Gemini-Girl
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posted April 27, 2005 02:45 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
sounds great happy dragon!

ps.
Hey, I dont make their knees go wobbly ...*innocent*

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