posted April 26, 2005 11:03 AM              

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My friend made me realize last night that I like bad boys! It was a comment that she made about how my crush has player written all over him! cause he has a tatoo on his shoulder and walks around knowing that he's hot stuff...
Of course it's not the first time that I heard that about him...then I didn't have a crush on him and we were volunteering together at an inner city school and I saw him as this great teacher and this bright guy...and then I was lost!
So when they called him a player and a dog - cause he cheated on his girlfriend and watches porn (which I do on occasion without blushing) I defended him, unaware that I wasn't being objective...

But it's not the real issue: I'm kind of annoyed to be the typical girl who is into the bad boy considering that I'm the quintessential "good girl" from my friends' perspective, I'm still a virgin at 22. The weird thing is that my girlfriends call themselves bad girls because they're way more experienced than I am. I think they're great people and enjoy their friendship cause they're so different than I am. But it made me realize that people that I like (boys or girls) tend to be very different than me in their lifestyle and may be called bad boys or bad girls by outsiders.

Sorry this is long and seems like it's going nowhere. But I wonder if my scorpio rising has anything to do with these relationships, while my virgo moon has proned me to a "virgin" lifestyle that's starting to annoy the hell out of me. Any comment would be appreciated...

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posted April 26, 2005 11:28 AM              

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Hey I've got a scorp rising,i like good sweet girls,the fake atrificial kinds really turn me off,but I sometimes do like the b@itchy kinda girls,but usually mey cute lil' cancer moon cant take them....i watch a lotta porn (venus in taurus=lotsa self dependent s*x=sh*gging),and oh...I dont see anything wrong with the virgin thing....

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posted April 26, 2005 11:47 AM              

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My sister is a cap. She loves bad boys.

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posted April 26, 2005 05:20 PM              

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cappy, is your venus in aquarius? squaring your scorpio ascendant? hmmm.

also~ watching porn does not make a man a "bad boy" nor does a tatoo.

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posted April 28, 2005 04:03 PM              

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*bumped to top*

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posted April 28, 2005 04:10 PM            

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Don't want to generalize.. but I do notice that Cappys see beyond the superficial.. maybe because they are accused of being superficial, when they are so beyond that.
They like to fix things.
That being said.. you like this guy based upon some very 'good' traits he exhibits.
If bad boys are the only kind that have tatoos and watch porn.. sign me up for bad boy lovin!
(By the way....if a man has a penis, he has watched porn. I am glad you, a woman, who doesn't own a penis, can watch it without offensiveness as well.)

I kind of yearn for the days when categories were so easy to fit into... Nowadays,(I am older, that's all~ and really keeping in mind the difference...) if you sleep with people or date or whatever, you are simply playing the field, having fun.. not necessarily bad/good.
It sort of simplifies things.. you know?

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posted April 28, 2005 09:05 PM              

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Thanks you all! So it's confirmed, cap's like "bad boys!"
Thanks PP for the comment about looking beyond the surface...I'd like to think that I see beyond that exactely in all of my relationships. Like we all do...
And a tatoo and watching porn certainly doesn't make someone a "bad boy." I think so, but people make judgements and I tend to have my own (whether sometimes, it's me pointing someone as "bad" and not worth my time/friendship) but everyonce in a while I go over mine ...some fear of seeing what I want to see. But at the end of the day, we're neither "good" or "bad"; we're just humans

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posted April 28, 2005 09:08 PM              

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My venus is in pisces, Lovely. I don't have aquarius in my chart at all. Wonder what that says. I'm half water, and half earth.

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posted May 02, 2005 11:52 AM              

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I wonder if in a generalized way, we could say that all Earth Signs like "bad boys" or girls. Taurus likes to be supportive, and in case it's not been adequately proven here, Virgo's can be into people who are quite eccentric, especially with Venus in Virgo.

If I go down the line, I don't really think of other Signs as being into the "bad" in terms of a serious committment. Maybe just for fun, but nothing serious.

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