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Topic: All Men's there ; What do you really hate about woman???
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scorpiongal unregistered
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posted May 02, 2005 07:25 AM
On this forum we normally read most of the woman sometimes b!tching about the Men...including me.So I just want to ask all the Men out thereWhat do you really hate about women...Is it crying, gossiping, indecisivness, impracticality,money minded,frigidness,etc. What do you think nromally are the reasons you and your partner have quarreled on? Go on b!tching guys...we,ladies are all ears. GAL IP: Logged |
thosa unregistered
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posted May 02, 2005 10:48 AM
Gossipping, impracticality(THEY ARE VERY IMPRACTICAL WITH MONEY!)...and um..well can't generalize anymore than this.IP: Logged |
scorpiongal unregistered
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posted May 02, 2005 10:55 AM
ok don't generalize just say "some womens" or past expereince I think that would work out.I don't think womens would be offended that way.I think it's nice to know what mens really think. I just wonder if mens b!tch I am sure they do?we womens do it all the time. GAL IP: Logged |
cancerrg unregistered
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posted May 02, 2005 11:09 AM
CRYING , i really hate it and especially when women do it for some impractical reason . i am quite ok because its something natural but then they use it for non sencical reason , where u know that its of no hope , why do it . i dont think they are impractical with money infact my mom is a good money manager then i am and let me tell u all my friends agree on this that iam a good money manager ( pure cancer, u know ) so there...... gossiping is avoidable but i cant stand them when they waste time shopping , u got to see them ( thats why i dont go shopping with them ) yes men do ***** .
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thosa unregistered
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posted May 02, 2005 11:18 AM
Hmm...I never ***** , cuz I think bitching is a weakness...and I don't like to see it in others either, bitching does no good.What else can I add...hmm I really think women absolutely SUCK at spending money! At least from my experience... And women absolutely LOVE gossipping...well I do too sometimes heeh:P, but not as much as females do, and really it IS A VERY ANNOYING disease! They can't stand it when others gossip about them, but on the other hand they like to do a lil gossipping themselves:S..hmm. Other than that I can't say I really hate that much abt women. IP: Logged |
beebuddy unregistered
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posted May 02, 2005 01:57 PM
ok...quit asking me to make your mind up for you. be much hornier for me. when im mean dont get sad just punch me.
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Yang unregistered
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posted May 02, 2005 04:44 PM
The one thing that really irks me is when women ask the question Does this make me look fat?.........aghhhhhhhhh!IP: Logged |
Secret Garden unregistered
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posted May 02, 2005 05:38 PM
lol @ yang im feeling u, i never ask that qs it is ASKING for trouble seriously. something i thot was funny that i got on email: The three questions that will inevitably start a fight: 1) Do you think I'm fatter than when we met? 2) Which one of us loves the other one more? 3) If we broke up, which one of my friends would you date? roflmao. and thosa esp in our culture women gossip like FREAKING CRAZY ok. im sick of it myself. once i went for umrah about 2 yrs ago. i decided i wont gossip anymore, or will try to cut it down as much as i humanly can. well what happened was that i was left with little to no female friends....even now because of that pledge i once took, i have overwhelmingly more male friends than female....and the women in my social circle excommunicated me coz i was so quiet when they were havin fun gossiping lol beebuddy: looks like what ur asking for there is not an improved woman, but another man....are u sure u dont have bi tendencies... hehhe (aggressiveness....oversexed-ness.....decision making when u really shouldnt.....) keep them coming u guys this is fun and interesting, want to hear more! Love SG IP: Logged |
beebuddy unregistered
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posted May 02, 2005 06:13 PM
garden, ""beebuddy: looks like what ur asking for there is not an improved woman, but another man....""AHH! you mean women cant make decisions!? LOL ""are u sure u dont have bi tendencies..."" no, but a man will never be like my mom! LOL thanks for that rather "sincere" post. LOL... seriously, still smiling! IP: Logged |
Isis Newflake Posts: 1 From: Brisbane, Australia Registered: May 2009
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posted May 02, 2005 06:34 PM
SG: I detest gossping too, although I'm not entirely above it, I avoid it like the plague. My mother always told me that if someone will talk to you about others, they will talk about you to others. And all the women I know of who don't have a lot of female friends, generally do not participate in a lot of gossip. IP: Logged |
beebuddy unregistered
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posted May 02, 2005 06:44 PM
your mom is wise isis. maybe this thread is fundamentally flawed because men actually really love women. I cant think of one really serious complaint against women... except that maybe they complain about men too much! IP: Logged |
Secret Garden unregistered
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posted May 02, 2005 07:43 PM
awww beebuddy, that was really cute! and yes, i think some women even get p*ssed about why other women complain about men so much. im not so pissy about it coz i do understand that a lot of really sincere women i know have ended up with abusive, etc. men and that can take a real toll on their emotional and physical health however, as a general rule, i think both the sexes should be more accepting of each other. why i really liked this thread is coz it gave men the equal opportunity to b!tch, lol and becoz it could provide constructive guidelines of how women could present themselves better perhaps. along the lines of what you said, my current bf tends to say 'womennn' when i say something that bugs him. lol. i told him to stop calling me the 'w' word. i like being called honey and sweetie but not 'woman'. lol. its too generic, and im too speshil. jk. he says that women tend to be too emotional an indirect about what they're feeling , and he admitted that he can be dense and forgetful, he needs to be spelled out to exactly what is going on. we had a misunderstanding a few wks ago, i called it off coz i thot he was ignoring me on purpose (he was busy) and he said ok, coz he thot i was dating someone else (whereas i just wanted him to keep contact more regularly). so there u go--most of it stems from miscommunication, not actual dislike for any one characteristic. if the miscommunicative behaviors are repeated enough, they can become characteristics--but hopefully that rarely happens. he really does like me for many things though, which he tells me. and i do like men a lot--although ive had bad experiences with my father, my brother, my husband. but like i said i have a lot of male friends, which keep my outlook on men in general very positive. although women are known for being sympathetic, ive seen that men can be equally understanding when you get them to listen. besides most men are more action oriented--they will want to go out and fix things actually when u tell them about ur problems, instead of just listening and providing a shoulder (which is fine, but i like that first approach a lot!). cancerrg, about the money thing, i would agree, i am very good with handling money, and many of my friends and family, both men and women, come to me for investing and spending advice. very unusual for a gem girl...although i am a spendthrift with the portion of my income that i put aside for sheer spending, hehe, i am very generous towards both msyelf and others...but i am very particular about putting aside a portion for the less fortunate, a portion for investing, etc. not too many men i know who are that smart with their money, but the ones i do know are my colleagues or seniors in the business arena. maybe its more an occupational thing than a gender thing. Love SG IP: Logged |
Battle of Evermore Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted May 02, 2005 08:13 PM
SG you are so right. I hate it when women always complain about their boyfriends for stupid reasons, it's so annoying! I'm like "Gwad just break up with him already so I don't have to listen to this anymore!" I am indescicive though. Don't know about how we are with money, never paid any attention to how other ladies handled it. I don't think I gossip alot I guess for one reason because it gets on my nerves, and another I don't really have alot of female friends. I realized that yesterday when I was in a room with four of my friends and I suddenly stopped and went..."Wait a minute, I'm the only girl here! What the...? "keep this up guys! Oddly enough, this is interesting. IP: Logged |
lovely* unregistered
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posted May 02, 2005 08:15 PM
my husband tells me i "bust his ballz".its so gross... i hate it when he says that. and its precicely why he says it..to pish me off. my husband is more of a gossip than me. his favorite line is "soooo whats going on with [Insert name]...any new gossip?" IP: Logged |
Secret Garden unregistered
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posted May 02, 2005 08:19 PM
lol @ lovely, yes i know that breed of man.....the ones who initiate the gossip conversation then say, 'you guys gossip too much'. i personally cringe at that expression myself....even expressions that allude to d!cks are bad....but balls ones are just GROSS. lets not go there. my finesse-loving libra rising shudders! SG IP: Logged |
libra78 unregistered
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posted May 03, 2005 02:41 AM
I dont like it when some women feel that being on the rag is a license to ***** - I can understand that it may be a hormonal thing, but some take it as 'I can do or say as I please and get away with it' season. IP: Logged |
monad Newflake Posts: 0 From: Hastings Hawkes Bay New Zealand Registered: Aug 2009
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posted May 03, 2005 03:41 AM
Stupidity and materialism.IP: Logged |
scorpiongal unregistered
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posted May 03, 2005 04:15 AM
It was intersting to know men point of view. Ya and it definiltely give them chance to b!tch about woman.well ladies are taking this things nicely ...that's good too. __________________________________________ beebuddy : maybe this thread is fundamentally flawed because men actually really love women. I cant think of one really serious complaint against women... except that maybe they complain about men too much! ___________________________________________ That was indeed very cute... GAL
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cancerrg unregistered
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posted May 03, 2005 04:49 AM
_____________________________________________ It was intersting to know men point of view. Ya and it definiltely give them chance to b!tch about woman _____________________________________________s-gal: dont catogrise it as b!tching , i think we were just being stright in our views.
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sue g unregistered
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posted May 03, 2005 05:13 AM
Libra 78, I just read your message out to my man and he said "exactly, that is totally right" - well I hope you both come back next time as extremely hormanal women and see how you cope (I presume you made this comment to get a bit of a reaction)!!!! Love and peace Sue (presently on the rag - aaarrghhhhh) xxxIP: Logged |
sweetlibra unregistered
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posted May 03, 2005 05:27 AM
things which my guy hates in me.1) asking lots of questions (personal/general) and expecting him to answer them. 2) crying 3) timitdity ------------------ Happiness is like a butterfly. The more you chase it, The more it will elude it. But if you turn your attention to other things, it comes softly and sits on your shoulders... IP: Logged |
calliope unregistered
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posted May 03, 2005 09:53 AM
Isis, I agree about the gossiping! But maybe let's turn this around: what do men LIKE about women?!There seem to be very few things they dislike - so I'd presume there were a lot of things they liked?? If so, please, guys, list them! Calliope
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fat neko unregistered
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posted May 03, 2005 10:06 AM
The top 3 I anti in women: 1) Accusing me outta nothing (or another's fault)! 2) Making me the punching back because she's angry with somebody else! 3) Coming up to me ONLY when she wants my favour!P/S: GIRL GOSSIP comes close but cant make it into the chat :maniac: ------------------ day n nite luv n lite wen i c u il b alrite... IP: Logged |
fat neko unregistered
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posted May 03, 2005 10:14 AM
The top 3 I pro in women: 1) HUGZ 2) Considerate regarding others' wellbeing 3) Freedom lovers P/S: Hope this should make up for the complains above Luv ya gals ------------------ day n nite luv n lite wen i c u il b alrite... IP: Logged |
aries-chick unregistered
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posted May 03, 2005 10:48 AM
quote: when im mean dont get sad just punch me
lols beebuddy YEP I think I gotz that one nailed IP: Logged |