posted May 10, 2005 12:40 AM              

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Okay, this guy is my best friend...we use to date 2 yrs ago...but he was suppose to move so I just quit hanging out with him...I knew I would be hurt too bad..so we never had any closure. Then we didn't see each other for about 9 months...then when we started hanging out again it was as if we never missed a beat...only there wasn't any intimacy. I tell him everything and he tells me everything...and sometimes we wonder why out loud. But I know he doesn't want a relationship right now because he has goals as a musician and I don't really want a lot either b/c of my goals as an artist. And truthfully I don't know how he REALLY feels about me...the Cancer shell is so hard to see through sometimes...maybe I am just that great female friend. but the other night he told me how beautiful I was and later he hugged me for a really long time...one of those hugs that say so much without words....so I"m wondering...does he feel the same about me as I do him and we both know it's just not the right time? Or is he just keeping me there to make himself feel good? This is a very devestating thought to a Scorpio, so I really would like to know some opinions. Do you think I should wait it out or move on?

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posted May 10, 2005 01:00 AM              

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crabs are frigid without commitment. if you like him tell him.

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posted May 10, 2005 01:03 AM              

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you really think I should tell him? what about if I do and ruin the relationship? I would rather keep the friendship than ruin it by being greedy with the heart.

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posted May 10, 2005 01:09 AM              

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do what you like, but he wont open up if he senses for one second that things aren't "serious".

saying he doesnt want a relationship is another way of saying he doesnt want to risk heartache.

he needs 100% commitment or nothing.

but its up to your judgement to decide how he will react to your offer of commitment, its possible he really wants nothing (but i doubt it).

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posted May 10, 2005 01:20 AM              

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thank you...that's all I've needed to hear...b/c I know he knows I"m a Scorpio... Maybe he's just scared of me...and I hate to think that b/c I know we get such a bad name...we really can be such loyal and loving people but I think people tend to overlook that....I've been so deticated to this guy and he doesn't even know...so maybe I'm going to tell him.... Never know, maybe that's all I've needed to do this whole time...let's just hope...thank you so much

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posted May 10, 2005 02:04 AM              

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I just keep drawing and painting these beautiful pictures of me and my Cancer guy...should I show him my art??? Or just keep it to my self????

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posted May 10, 2005 02:21 AM              

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LOL! do what you want dear!

ive never met such a romantic scorp! whats the rest of your chart like (if you dont mind me asking)?

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posted May 10, 2005 04:52 AM              

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just go and say it directly but be subtle , my guess he is all yours , he wont say no if you are really beautiful ! wanna have a bet on this (LOL)
good luck.

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posted May 10, 2005 10:10 AM              

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well Beebuddy I guess I can be very romantic but I try a lot to hide it. BUT the rest of my chart is:
Moon - Capricorn
Venus-Libra
Mars - Sag
Mercury - Scorpio
Thanks so much for you advice, I really appreciate it.

And to answer the other question about if I'm beautiful or not...one has to remember that beauty is in the eye of the beholder and physical beauty is only skin deep...but he's has told me he thought I was beautiful. Which aspect he was looking at is a mystery...so who knows?
But if I ever get the balls to say anything to him I'll let ya'll know how it turns out

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posted May 11, 2005 12:11 AM              

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hey dancing, please let me know what happens between you two! im a crab with a scorp fiance and so i have some interest.

also, what is your rising sign?

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posted May 11, 2005 05:42 AM              

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Hey Beebuddy...I totally wrote you a huge repy and poured my heart out about so many topics...AND THEN IT DIDN'T POST!!!! I'll try again tomorrow...or maybe I just typed too long...hehe

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posted May 11, 2005 06:07 AM              

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ohhhhhhhh! give me the short version.

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posted May 11, 2005 06:28 AM              

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Man, I went off on a big debate with myself about society, money, how people are affected, and souls/reincarnation....all wrapped into one...I can't replicate that...but I will try tomorrow...'cause I know how I feel about society and my spirituality....I'm just more out spoken at some times than others - it just sucks that it didn't post...It was passionate...
And I told you congrats on being engaged to a Scorp....and I explained all that, too. Like stuff I'd read, how I'm not a typical Scorp b/c I feel I have an old soul (I've had people tell me that...even though I look REALLY young for my age...I get carded all the time..they think I'm 19 when I'm about to be 25...but people who know me sense I'm really older...it's weird) ...I'll post one for you tomorrow... Or the next day...you know how life goes until you get moved out to the woods and totally self-sufficient....totally hectic.... Working on it!!!!!

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posted May 11, 2005 06:38 AM              

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sweet!

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posted May 13, 2005 02:29 AM              

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dancingscorp: he said u were beautiful , he probaly means it because cancers when dont like someone then try to be more of formal with them , so u have a chance .
and ofcourse beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder so his opinion was important not ours ! (smile )

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posted May 14, 2005 01:02 PM              

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If I haven't already :::

The way you came across here made me think you yourself had some Cancer influences in your Natal, or maybe Pisces, Virgo or Libra. But you have very strong motivational qualities. Sun in Capricorn? Mars in Sag? Mercury in Scorpio? Are you kidding?

The only thing I'm wondering offhand is if you have ever had someone you liked tell you not to come on too strong, and maybe that's why you are being hesitant? Because you of all people should NEVER be ashamed or afraid of communicating your love. Capricorns with Libra Moons are some of the most creative romantically. Whoever is on the receiving end would be very lucky indeed. Give it away! But if it is not immediately appreciated or well-received, find another who is more receptive!

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