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Topic: Comfortable with your sexuality?
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aries-chick
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posted May 14, 2005 02:29 AM
 
So.. ARE you? lol This thread is about whether or not you feel comfortable expressing your sexuality.. Are you comfortable with the topic of sex? Would you be the person who tells their lover what you like/don't like.. or would you be the person who fakes "it" when they didn't really enjoy the experience.. and doesn't talk about itI just though it'd be a good idea to look at how you feel about sex and your venus/mars signs.
In theory, if they are in a positive aspect with each other your sexual and love nature should be easy to understand .. and easy to talk about, deal with .. If they're in a negative aspect, in theory you might feel inhibited when it comes to sex.. Do you think your own Venus/Mars affects the way you see sex.. in a positive or negative manner? IP: Logged |
Secret Garden
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posted May 14, 2005 02:35 AM
hey aries chick, great topic! well no i dont have sexual inhibitions although i should, according to my culture! i am honest and open about it with the person i am with, although that doesnt mean that i am promiscuous, but opposite, i am so dedicated and loyal and feel sex is just a part of the relationship that needs to be discussed honestly. i would consider myself sexual but only in closed doors and with the right person in the right circumstance. i am very passionate and have had NO complaints as of yet  i dont fake it, it comes naturally. Venus--Aries
Mars--Gemini Love
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Secret Garden
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posted May 14, 2005 02:36 AM
so far as if they impact my style or attitude towards sex as u asked, i can sorta see the Venus Aries thing, but not really Mars in Gemini. its true that i like variety and trying anything new and weird and can do anything and everything at once  but i always find it more intense and passionate, ala Scorpio or something. oh well Love
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LeoSweetHeart
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posted May 14, 2005 02:49 AM
I like to be very open about sex and my fantasies with my boyfriend, but then I don't wear my sexuality on my sleeve. I carry myself more gracefully than sexually, but I have been known to be a bit of a flirt  Mostly I enjoy passionate, meaningful, uninhibited sex with someone I'm close to. Yea...thats the best. My Venus is in Virgo and my Mars is in Cancer....placements I wish I could trade  The Lioness in me frowns upon the modesty they bring me. Aries Chick, would you say that these placements together are a good combination... they are sextile right? IP: Logged |
cancerrg
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posted May 14, 2005 03:43 AM
well, i think /feel i am quite open with the sexual mattters
as for telling the person whether i enjoyed it , hhhhhhhhhhhmmmmmmmmmmmm ..... , ah well , i'll sure say if i liked it but in case i didn't , it will depened if i 'll say this upfront - if i like the person even a bit i'll just wont meet her again rather than being curt .
i am not sure of the venus / mars positive or negative aspect , it would be helpful if u could elobrate on it a bit .
my venus is in leoand mars in virgo .
what does it make u think? tell me !IP: Logged |
cancerrg
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posted May 14, 2005 03:44 AM
oh , i can even fake it if i like the person , i dont think there is problem on it .but the conditions apply!IP: Logged |
ScotScorp
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posted May 14, 2005 09:21 AM
Venus and Mars in Scorpio, 3rd house.I am very comfortable with having and talking about sex. I only have sex with a person that I feel very comfortable with, and will verbally communicate with me about it and during the act. No faking ANYTHING here. My placements are wonderful! I do tend to lean toward men who are "verbal".. nonverbal men turn me off. I want to know how they feel, how I feel, when they are close.... Angela
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Scorpio/Leo/Leo "All things are bound together. All things connect." Chief Seattle IP: Logged |
hot_ice
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posted May 14, 2005 09:46 AM
no probs here,i love talking/watching/doing/dreaming about it...its kinda funny,some people are repulsed when you talk so openly about it,i say theres nothing wrong...about faking...i dont know..never had sex,but i guess i'll be ****** off if someone fakes.....but if my chart is anything to go by....they'll be more than satisfied  Mars in cancer 8th,venus taurus 6th IP: Logged |
scorpiongal
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posted May 14, 2005 10:28 AM
Comfortable with sexuality...yesI don't mind talking/fantasizing/watching/doing/dreaming and everything else about sex or anything in and out of bedroom....just like hot_ice.(liked that line) I just get turn off by people who are obsessed with it and can't think anything else.Sorry stayed with some sex maniacs.
Can't get them out of my mind.They really drived me nuts.They were so obsessed I had to suggest them to go to the ***** and they did that too.It was great experince though. I have faked once and I just don't find it right. I would rather talk about it openly than keep it somewhere hidden.I think that would be just like knowing each other more. Learning and teaching each other.That's my way.. There has to be lot of communication before,during and after the sex.Nothing like being whispered something sweet or nastiest thing while sex.
cancerrg :
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Mars in Virgo
You are a very careful, sensitive lover who gives much thought to making sure that the atmosphere and setting for love are just right. In general you prefer a well-appointed room with all the accouterments so that you are in control of the overall situation and can concentrate on the more delicate details of intimacy. Your most outstanding characteristic is attentiveness to the myriad particulars of sex - all the tiny nuances that make it an endlessly varied pursuit. But take care to keep spontaneity alive! ---------------------------------------------
It says well appointed room...duh..doesn't go exactly right as I would prefer more outdoors than indoors.
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cancerrg
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posted May 14, 2005 10:31 AM
a man thinks and talks of sex in every third sentence that they speak , if this not obsession what else. u cant find a man who isn't obsessed with sex . remember this fact!IP: Logged |
scorpiongal
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posted May 14, 2005 10:31 AM
I am Venus in Libra and Mars in Virgo both in tenth house.Why both in tenth house? Does that mean something ?? GAL IP: Logged |
cancerrg
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posted May 14, 2005 10:36 AM
hey s-gal we are online at the same time , thats why i told u to voye for my petiton and u never did it .ok on a serious note :
It says well appointed room...duh..doesn't go exactly right as I would prefer more outdoors than indoors. what do u want to suggest ? dont ever give hints to a fertile mind as cancers !(LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL)
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astro junkie
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posted May 14, 2005 02:31 PM
Sex is an artform. Anything else is just crotch grunts.Sun Libra
Moon Cancer
Venus Virgo
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pixelpixie
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posted May 15, 2005 12:21 AM
Comfortable expressing?
Totally and completely.Or haven't you noticed?
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Peaches
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posted May 15, 2005 02:06 AM
I like sex a lot and I'm very comfortable with it and with my sexuality.Venus in Gemini 7th
Mars in Libra 11th
Moon in Capricorn 2nd
Sun in Cancer 8th Most of all I love intimacy and being naked with my object of desire. It doesnt even have to lead to sex, kissing is just as nice. First time sex has never been tricky. I probably should keep that to myself but I easily tune in to what would make him comfortable, turn him on...then take him out of this world.
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aries-chick
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posted May 15, 2005 02:23 AM
Hi cancergg, Virgo mars I'd say would make you cautious when it comes to initiating. Maybe you'd rather the girl initiate when it comes to sex but Virgo can also add some kink . Venus in Leo is a nice warm hearted placement, maybe you're likely to fall for fire signs?Hey SG cool cool, you have the sextile, I have the trine.. they're both nice aspects when it comes to sexuality. Personally I like who I am in a romantic sense and I find it easy to be sexual, though I wouldn't unless it felt right and it was with the right guy. I am pretty cautious when it comes to choosing the right person lol but once I'm with them.. let the good times roll lols AJ u're a funny one Pixie, what are your venus and mars signs? IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
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posted May 15, 2005 02:29 AM
Right, sorry.
My Mars is Scorpio, fourth house ( conjunct Sun/Uranus/N Node
Venus is Sag, fifth house, conjunct Neptune, trine Ascendant(Leo)IP: Logged |
scorpiongal
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posted May 15, 2005 05:08 AM
AJ: Smart Comment !Cancerrg idn't knew I had to vote.. Pixelpie: I guess we noticed it everywhere including in your pic. GAL IP: Logged |
AcousticGod
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posted May 15, 2005 06:41 AM
I've just been looking at my love chart, and I was comfortable before, but my chart suggests I might even be a bit kinky.I love sex the way the Cancer described. Even just making out naked is awesome. I think talking at any point before, during, or after is great. I believe it adds a vital component of any sexual experience. I believe my Moon in Virgo may affect my sex life in that I can't enjoy sex unless my partner is. Otherwise I think the Virgo aspect is offset my the remainder of my chart. My Mars is in Scorpio. I couldn't say for certain how that affects my sex life. I think that a majority of your chart comes into play when it comes to sex. Maybe astro.com just does too well with it. IP: Logged |
hot_ice
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posted May 15, 2005 06:47 AM
pixie...those legs!!IP: Logged |
A Perfect Circle
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posted May 15, 2005 09:34 AM
quote:
I've just been looking at my love chart, and I was comfortable before, but my chart suggests I might even be a bit kinky.
As kinky as this, perhaps? IP: Logged |
aries-chick
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posted May 15, 2005 10:21 AM
lol Hot_Ice *whistles @ pixie's legs* Hey Angela .. Venus and Mars in scorpio wow, I just noticed that. I have a friend with venus/pluto in scorp.. He's pretty intense. You gotz a reow combo IP: Logged |
sue g
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posted May 15, 2005 12:11 PM
I too am very comfortable with my sexuality, Sun, Venus, Neptune, Jupiter, Merc in Scorp and Moon and Mars in Taurus and Aries on the rise. I have never been scared to initiiate sex either, in fact in most of my relationships I have made the first move. I dont think I could be with a man that isnt as interested in sex as I am, fortunately I am with a younger guy, which suits me!!!! Love and passion to all xxxxIP: Logged |
whiterabbit
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posted May 15, 2005 12:22 PM
sometimes I feel like I'm a little too comfortable with it. Like I should have more modesty or restraint. I'd say that's just part of growing up in this world as a female. I've always loved talking about sex and been curious about everything and anything to do with it. But, on the other hand, when it comes to actualy "activity" there have been times where I haven't been able to express my sexuality 100% with someone. I wouldn't act like a prude, but I wouldn't quite act like myself either. It's funny how easy it is to act "sexy" in a way that isn't totally reflecting your true sexuality. I haven't been able to "let go" completely very often. This could be an age thing, though.
(Mars in Scorpio, Venus in Aquarius)
One of my friends has a Mars in Taurus/ Venus in Aries combo and yet she's extremely uncomfortable with sex. Doesn't make sense to me, with those placements.
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The Mutable Night Force
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posted May 15, 2005 01:05 PM
Yes................. I think about sex every waking minute..... and sometimes when I'm not awake either. Sun Virgo
Moon Aries
Venus Leo/Virgo (-there's a lot of confusion here...)
Mars Gemini
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