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alanabelle86
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From: Somewhere over the rainbow
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posted May 21, 2005 11:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for alanabelle86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
my boyfriend is a sagittarius, and i'm a scorpio. i love him more than anything. what we have is so odd. before i even knew him i was instantly drawn in, i wasnt attracted to him enough yet to have feelings but there was still something that made me hold on, and now we're together for about 7 months. however, when it's good. its great.i mean, it's the most all consuming, ever surrounding, smoldering, sizzling, kind of emotional love i've ever felt.

however, when it's bad. it's like taking that emotion and melting it into a pure and uncontrollably unadulterated hatred. we fight like it's the end of the world.

he cant see any of his faults, and won't. but he's quick to try and change every and any one of mine. he sits by and watches things he hates go on, and complains to me about them like he wants me to fix it. its almost as if he wants me to fight all of his battles for him.

it gets pretty suffocating. he puts me on this pedestal and if i mess up, he declares war.

however, something just tells me that we fit together. am i crazy or just blinded by being in love with love?

here's our charts

<b>me:</b>
Sun Scorpio 1st house
Moon Leo 10th house
Mercury Scorpio 2nd house
Venus Scorpio 1st house
Mars Aquarius 4th house
Jupiter Pisces 5th house
Ascendant Libra

<b>him:</b>
Sun Sagittarius 3rd house
Moon Aquarius 5th house
Mercury Sagittarius 3rd house
Venus Sagittarius 3rd house
Mars Scorpio 2nd house
Jupiter Aquarius 5th house
Ascendant Libra

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lalalinda
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From: nevada
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posted May 21, 2005 03:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
wheres Saturn?
is yours in Sag
and his in Scorpio??
this is a karmic relationship

you're feeling TO MUCH of Jupiters beneficial energy right now.

Jupiter is transiting Libra
where both of your Ascendants are

with Jupiter, it expands or blows things out of proportion, its temporary.

you both have great stuff coming up when Jupiter moves into Scorpio

work it out

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alanabelle86
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From: Somewhere over the rainbow
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posted May 23, 2005 10:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for alanabelle86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
my saturn in in sag and so is his

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Happy Dragon
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posted May 24, 2005 09:28 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
alanabelle86

... how about posting the birth data???
and long/lat. if u do ......

i take it you may be aware of the current planet
positions relative to your charts .. or not ???

you want to use astrology to understand the both of you .. check this out http://www.happydragon.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk/A.F.L.G.html

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alanabelle86
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From: Somewhere over the rainbow
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posted May 24, 2005 01:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for alanabelle86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
him:
december 15 1985
sharon ct (73w29, 41n53)
12:29 am

me:
october 26 1986
hartford ct (72w41, 41n46)
5:43 am

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posted June 03, 2005 01:40 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
alanabelle86 -

The first thing that came to mind was which Virgo/Mercury/6th House or Gemini/Mercury/3rd House influences he had. I find these people like to be "fixer upper's". The thing is, in reality they are obsessed with fixing themselves.

You can't fight his battles for him, that is not possible in any way, shape or form. So for him to even suggest it is possible is preposterous. Therefore, if he is not willing to compromise, or otherwise, TRY to compromise, that is an uneven partnership right off the bat. I don't know what keeps you two coming back to each other, perhaps could be a harsh Aspect between one of your Pluto's in Synastry. It sounds like that because it reeks of power struggle.

OK - so let's review what I brought up.

First, I brought up those influences he might have in his Chart. From the info you provided, he has his Sun, Mercury & Venus in the 3rd House, including Mercury which is sort of a double whammy because the 3rd House is Mercury's natural home. So the way he comes across is extremely important to him, as well as how his manner of logic is perceived.

And then, I brought up Pluto. You did not list your Pluto's (don't underestimate any Planets) - but your Sun, Mercury & Venus are in Scorpio, which is Ruled by Pluto. Your Sun & Venus in Scorpio are in the 1st House, so that IS very much YOUR IDENTITY. Shame on him for trying to challenge that.

Also, you both share a Natal Planet in Scorpio in your respective 2nd Houses. Your Mercury & his Mars. Remember what I said about his Mercury? Doesn't like to be wrong. But YOUR Mercury is probably the MORE potent here because of your other Scorpio stuff in your 1st House. His Mars in Scorpio (in the same House as your Mercury) tends to feel the need to be FORCEFUL. Since they are both in your 2nd House's, everything which is 2nd House-related will be the most affected by your disagreements & power struggles.

"Second House:

Money and possessions. But it goes beyond these. The 2nd House also shows the VALUE you place on things, including yourself, so it includes your sense of self-worth. This House corresponds to the 2nd Sign, Taurus, which is the sign of material goods."

So let me guess. You argue over "money, possessions, & both your self-worth's"?.

None of these specifically means it's a useless relationship. But going by his inability to share in your flexbility - well - that's the deal breaker. I've recently learned that when a couple has their share of disagreements, what will truly hold them together in the end is if EACH PERSON in their own right, really really wants and is willing to make it work. You're the only one who does.

(A good way in general to list your astrological stuff here is to go to astro.com, sign in, and then go to PERSONAL PORTRAIT. Scroll down to bottom of page, then cut & paste those tables over into your post here.)

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wilsontc
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posted June 08, 2005 12:14 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
alanabelle,

In doing relationship charts, it is important first to understand how each person in the relationship sees "relationships" in general. To do this, we can look at Venus (relationships) in both charts. You have Scorpio (passion) modifying Venus (relationships) trine (energy goes very easily with) Jupiter (expansion) but also square (energy needs to be combined with) Moon (emotions) and square Mars (action); so you have expansive ideas about passionate relationships, but have strong emotions and want to take action in these relationships. He has Venus (relationships) conjunct (energy is combined with) Uranus (impulse) conjunct Sun (dating); so he tends to impulsively get into dating relationships.

Between you in the synastry chart, your Venus conjoins his Uranus. So now you ALSO feel this "impulsiveness" in your realationship with him. However (as you have noted) you also have Moon (emotions) opposite (energy is over-excited by) Moon; this indicates that when you get emotional about something from your point of view, he also gets emotional from an opposite point of view. In addition his Sun (dating, also self-expression) squares your Moon; so (as you have also noted) his self-expression stimulates your emotions. AND his Mars (action, also anger) is connjunct your Sun; so when you express yourself he might become angry (or feel he has to take some sort of action).

This is NOT to say that the relationship can not work, but it DOES indicate challenges between you. If both sides are willing to "work out the kinks" then the relationship can proceed to the next level. As you know, relationships involve "give and take" and it is no fun to be with someone who only wants to take.

For more on basic, personal astrological chart interpretation see http://www.geocities.com/wilsontctc

Relating,

Tim

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