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The Mutable Night Force Knowflake Posts: 124 From: England Registered: Oct 2009	posted May 30, 2005 04:07 PM EDITED IP: Logged
zoso Newflake Posts: 15 From: Reno, Nv Registered: Nov 2009	posted May 30, 2005 04:38 PM Whenever I feel like this, I wind up in a casino drinking my arse off all night. Invariably, (is that a word?) someone will come along and try to pick me up, or I get so tipsy that I start getting horny and pick out a nice fellow to flirt with. This is totally pathetic to some people, but I find it very helpful and somewhat amusing. Especially because lonely young women are magnets for perverted sexual advances. It fun! Hey, if you were at a bar looking down-n-out I would drink enough courage to walk over and sit beside you to flirt--albeit sloppily. I'd probably end up taking you home to listen to Dreamboat 730 by Ringside in the dark....I'm not helping most likely, but hey....effort is hard to come by on Mondays. IP: Logged
zoso Newflake Posts: 15 From: Reno, Nv Registered: Nov 2009	posted May 30, 2005 04:42 PM Wait, you're a chick, huh? Well, we can still hang out and talk **** about your crummy friends. If you want to of course.... IP: Logged
The Mutable Night Force Knowflake Posts: 124 From: England Registered: Oct 2009	posted May 30, 2005 04:47 PM Hahahaha, no you've just momentarily cheered me up!! Hahaha... yeah, sure, feel free to slate my crummy friends. They are s*** lol Hey, yeah, if I was in a bar, drunk and you came and talked to me... I would ask you what your sign was and probably go back to your home to err... listen to music lol. Unfortunately, i'm not old enough drink yet but I hope that offers still up if i'm ever in... Nevada when I'm 18... and depressed lol. Thanks. IP: Logged
wildflwrs unregistered	posted May 30, 2005 04:53 PM I understand the need to vent, but really you need to keep your attitude in check. Ya catch more flies with honey than with vinegar, as the saying goes...I know you aren't trying to catch flies.....you get my drift. Are you male or female? Just know that the planetary energies might be bearing down on you at this point...things are sure to lighten up. IP: Logged
The Mutable Night Force Knowflake Posts: 124 From: England Registered: Oct 2009	posted May 30, 2005 05:08 PM wildflwrs, I understand what you're saying, but I've tried nice and it doesn't work. It doesn't really matter how I react to my friends because they are always the same way back. Thanks for trying to help! Oh, I am female... Hmmm... that sounded like some sort of job application answer... IP: Logged
virgotaurustaurus unregistered	posted May 30, 2005 06:00 PM Wow Mutable, sounds like junk I'm going through as well (reminds me to go check on my thread in Soul Unions)! Yup, the feeling no one listens to me (well, besides on here). Friends being jerks. I realized a few of mine are completely selfish and it sucks, I realized I've been walked on a lot. I had a band like that once, I quit it. I feel really lonely too! I'd love to have a dude to share things with right now, but I think I'm also just moping because next Sunday would be 1 yr anniversary to meeting my ex-bf. hugs I wish I had advice! But I'm kind of in the same boat!! IP: Logged
whiterabbit Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Sep 2009	posted May 30, 2005 07:30 PM allo TMNF we'll let's see... with that Aries moon of yours (I got that right, right?) I'm sure you will bounce back in no time. It also explains why you're having such a hard time with this. I can imagine the feeling of being unappreciated and nobody listening to you would affect you very powerfully. However, that moon does give you an emotional strength, resillience, and independence that is pretty much unmatched by the other moon signs. I doubt you'll feel down for too long. And if you do, I'm sure you'll quickly find an outlet for the feelings. My recommendation? Grab your guitar and let her/him (it) do the gentle weeping. Tears to sweat, says my mom. I used to get annoyed by this but now I think it's a great concept. Hey- embark on a fabulous solo career and leave all your friends in the dust. hehe.. just kidding (sort of) anyways, hope you're feeling better. so long, white rabbit IP: Logged
Battle of Evermore Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Dec 2010	posted May 31, 2005 12:15 AM Hey MNF, sorry to hear about your **** friends. I feel really detached from my "friends" right now too . Wish you the best. I can't give you any advise because I'm just waiting it out myself. Any other Virgos feel like they have discovered that your friends don't care about you as much as you thoght they did? Feel like ** , and like you are becoming part of the furniture? IP: Logged
cancerrg Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Sep 2012	posted May 31, 2005 02:39 AM have patience , thats the best thng to do. and let ur friends know ur in a f***g bad mood and they are responsible for it , if they react positively -be with them , if they dont fk them. second option : search a bf for urself,hahahahah . IP: Logged
cancerrg Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Sep 2012	posted May 31, 2005 02:41 AM have patience , thats the best thng to do. and let ur friends know ur in a f***g bad mood and they are responsible for it , if they react positively -be with them , if they dont fk them. second option : search a bf for urself,hahahahah .and white rabbit is uite right about the aries thing so dont worry . IP: Logged
aries-chick unregistered	posted May 31, 2005 06:07 AM awwwwwwww Mutable I totally agree with whiterabbit it'll pass.. I think it's good to have an independent moon sign like Aries, makes it easier to move on, build a new fire lol.. I was gonna have a look at your friends chart the other day but I've been busy, my exams are coming up. I'll have a look and bump it ona these days though.. funny pic to cheer you up IP: Logged
Battle of Evermore Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Dec 2010	posted May 31, 2005 01:51 PM LOL AC! I just love that pic, hehehe IP: Logged
The Mutable Night Force Knowflake Posts: 124 From: England Registered: Oct 2009	posted May 31, 2005 01:54 PM Thanks a lot to everyone for replying. aries-chick, I don't think the link is working and ironically enough, she's the only friend who hasn't been involved in this whole kaboodle. Ta anyway VVT and BoE, hey maybe this is some sort of Virgo down in the dumps thing going on! Love and thanks to both of you guys. white rabbit- Thanks for the helpful advice! Believe me I would go on my guitar but I'm not at home at the moment so I can't!! I hope the Aries Moon does pull me through on this one. cancerrg- hey, thankyou! Yes, funny you should say that... I did in one form or another verbalise how I felt recently (over the net) and it didn't get happy responses. What the Gem said got me so **ing angry... I'm still twitching. She did point out how I was being immature which i now realise she is 100% right about but I still feel picked upon. Especially since people very rarely side with me on things. Especially when these two of my friends are together... they emphasise each others best and worst points but they nearly always agree with each other on things... particularly in arguements against me. Now I think they hate me... or at least- next time we do have a practise the tension will be really awkward I don't know what to do AND I don't know who's more right, me or them. I completely don't know how to handle this. I get the feeling the only way this whole thing will be resolved (considering it's 2 against 1) is if I concede that I am wrong and then just pretend everything's fine and put up with even more sht. But I don't know if I can do that. IP: Logged
Battle of Evermore Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Dec 2010	posted May 31, 2005 02:03 PM hugs MNF, it's probably not entirely either one of your faults. IP: Logged
virgotaurustaurus unregistered	posted May 31, 2005 02:10 PM Yeah, I was surprised that there's 3 of us Virgos going through the same junk! If I find some planetary aspect affecting Virgos at this time I'll definitely reply in here about it I checked out my Mountain Astrologer magazine that has a section just for Virgos year round but all that says is: "Relationships, especially with friends, may be problematic May 10-23. You might feel that others are taking unnecessary risks or that they are creating stress (or financial chaos) for you." Yuuuuck! I just wonder what planetary aspects caused this writer to write that for us! June looks better for us Virgos in this magazine, career-wise, relationship-wise, and new connections/friends-wise. Also goals will be advanced. Hooray! IP: Logged
The Mutable Night Force Knowflake Posts: 124 From: England Registered: Oct 2009	posted May 31, 2005 02:12 PM Thanks I just don't know what to do now... I'm sitting here infront of the computer and I want to cry ...and have done several times. I can't do anything or be happy until I know where I stand with them... plus I've lost all effort to do anything... and I'm stuffed because there are things coming up which I'm supposed to be at or do with my friends and I'm dreading an event of being ignored or possibly worse still being insulted for a whole evening. To quote Charlie Brown "I can't stand it!" IP: Logged
The Mutable Night Force Knowflake Posts: 124 From: England Registered: Oct 2009	posted May 31, 2005 03:36 PM Good news... stuff has brightened up on the friend front if anyone cares! I made up with one of my friends and you guys were completely right- my emotionally flighty Aries Moon is already making me as happy now as it made me really angry "I want to hit something" earlier. haha oh well.... IP: Logged
cancerrg Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Sep 2012	posted June 01, 2005 12:59 PM funny you should say that... mnf: why ? u have left me intrigued (LOL) can i know what impression do u have of me ? be honest! say what ever u feel like . this sentence of urs has something to do with that only . IP: Logged
The Mutable Night Force Knowflake Posts: 124 From: England Registered: Oct 2009	posted June 01, 2005 01:51 PM cancerrg! Hey now you've left me intrigued... I'm not entirely sure at what you're getting at...... Hmmm... ok, well, I said 'funny you should say that' in other words meaning 'it's a coincidence that you mentioned that I should see how my friends react because I just have!' Not really much to it.... as to how I see you... I see you as a lovely Cancer boy! Cancer guys are well up on my list of likable people thanks to the one I have a crush on... but you are very nice... you always reply to stuff and you seem decent enough. I like you as much as someone can like someone they don't know LOL IP: Logged
libra78 Newflake Posts: 0 From: Bangalore Registered: Aug 2011	posted June 01, 2005 03:30 PM Mutable are you a gemini? I have lotsa gemini friends, and they all feel the same way at some point in time or the other (every other month or so)..but they get over it... like im sure you will... usually just an over reaction on their part.... IP: Logged
AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 8743 From: Dublin, CA Registered: Apr 2009	posted June 02, 2005 05:43 AM H IP: Logged

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