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Topic: Why does he do this?
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Battle of Evermore
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posted May 31, 2005 12:47 AM
  
As I posted in another thread, I'm feeling very detached from my friends right now. To be honest, I think it's me. I don't know what's wrong with me lately  ... I'm just waiting to get over it. I'm so tired of becoming part of the furniture. I don't have enough social contact at the moment, and I think it's depressing me. My family is on vacation, I barely have a chance to talk to my friends lately. Hopefully it will change very soon though. I'm getting lonely. Anyway, I wanted to ask about this. It's not my fault I don't think. My Gemini friend does not talk to me anymore. I don't know why. It puzzles me. He used to wait up and talk to me, but not anymore. He leaves before I ever get a chance to say anything to him. He gave a big hug to my mother the other day though... This makes no sense. I never knew he had an attachment to my mother. Is he avoiding me or something? I don't understand. Next time I see him, I'll try to stop him before he runs off. If I can that is. Is this normal, does he want to avoid me, or is this not personal at all?
Help me out PLZ! I'm very confused. IP: Logged |
sue g
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posted May 31, 2005 05:30 AM
Hi Battle, could he have feelings for you, is he attracted to you - I saw your photo and you look gorgeous, so who knows. I saw something in a film once, where the woman knew this fella had feelings for her, and her for him coz they didnt touch and avoided each other. She said to her friend "I know he loves me cos look he embraces all others, but not me" - food for thought hey girl?? xxIP: Logged |
Lemingtyne
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posted May 31, 2005 09:30 AM
hey BofE -I was thinking the exact thing sue wrote even before I read her reply.
It sounds like he's (suddenly?) realized he likes you as more than a friend and is sort of embarrassed about it or doesn't know what to do exactly. Would it be a bad thing to be more than friends with him? Or are you into him in that way? This phase of a relationship can be very awkward and frustrating, I know. Be strong. Have patience. I wish you the best. Lemingtyne ------------------
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monad
Newflake Posts: 0
From: Hastings Hawkes Bay New Zealand
Registered: Aug 2009
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posted May 31, 2005 09:48 AM
he doesent like you its over take it from nowIP: Logged |
Mama Mia
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Registered: Feb 2010
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posted May 31, 2005 09:55 AM
What? don't be negative... Battle ever more he does like you that is what the problem is,been through that same thing a couple of times, the evidence is there plain and simple. Decide what you want to do.. :-) IP: Logged |
hot_ice
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posted May 31, 2005 10:21 AM
I'm a gem too and sounds like he's into you,thats sort of a similar situation between me and this girl i'm into right now,used to call her almost everyday and speak for atleast one hour everyday,then suddenly started to like her...
But then suddenly just couldnt call up and talk,stopped calling/talking,couldnt think of something to talk about,she started to call and got sorta ****** cause I wasnt calling her......
I did feel sorta weird when I started liking her,thing were complicated cause she had/still has a boyfriend,but i think she liked me too,once we went out of town together for three days,i could just feel it,but then I messed up cause I took out my anger from another fight on her and didnt talk till the end of the trip...duh... Go for him if you like him,this puppy dog is yours...well if he's like me atleast.. maybe its just something with gems... *edit* sorry for floating off into some personal crap in the middle
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Saturn's Child
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posted May 31, 2005 10:49 AM
It could be personal, that is having to do with you, or not. We Geminis are pretty easily distracted by things going on within us...having little to do with ANYONE else. It is an inner turmoil kind of thing. He may not even realize that he is shuting you out. After he works it out he'll likely be back to his normal waiting-up-for-you self.
On the other hand, if he does have feelings for deeper than friendship, he may be struggling with them. Geminis have some difficulty with expressing emotions sometimes...maybe not all Geminis, but most. Some times it becomes frightening for us to feel so much for someone.
I think you are right to ask him what's going on, but if he doesn't want to talk about it just give him some space and time. He'll appreciate it and probably be more receptive to you. Just let him know that you care and are there if he needs you.
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Battle of Evermore
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Registered: Dec 2010
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posted May 31, 2005 02:29 PM
Hello, and thanks so much for replying everyone!
Question for Monad first, what's your sun/moon/asc.?You really think he likes me that way?That's kinda freaky. I mean of course he has flirted with me before, but I never really thought it meant anything... It's possible.
I don't know, it just seems like what SC said about not even knowing he's shutting me out is more likely. It's seems so deliberate though, barely any eye contact anymore. He makes me feel like I've done something terrible. What I could have done I haven't the foggiest though. Maybe it's something I didn't do. Maybe you are all right... I guess I will get a little clarification if I can ever get a chance to talk to him. Sue G, thanks alot, and that sounds like a lovely movie could you tell me the name? I need something to entertain myself while all the folks are on vacation, lol. Hot_Ice, I liked reading your "personal crap" lol, thanks.
This is his chart. Missing birth time.
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Planetary positions
planet sign degree house motion
Sun Gemini 28°36'38 10 direct
Moon Leo 28°59'14 12 direct
Mercury Gemini 19°08'27 10 retrograde
Venus Gemini 18°11'57 10 retrograde
Mars Pisces 17°21'17 06/7 direct
Mars is technically near the end of house 6 and is interpreted in house 7.
Jupiter Taurus 23°41'30 09 direct
Saturn Sagittarius 29°18'20 04 retrograde
Uranus Sagittarius 29°04'28 04 retrograde
Neptune Capricorn 09°06'00 04 retrograde
Pluto Scorpio 10°00'39 02 retrograde
True Node Pisces 17°17'47 06/7 retrograde
True Node is technically near the end of house 6 and is interpreted in house 7.
Major aspects
Sun Sextile Moon 0°23
Sun Opposition Saturn 0°42
Sun Opposition Uranus 0°28
Moon Square Jupiter 5°18
Moon Trine Saturn 0°19
Moon Trine Uranus 0°05
Mercury Conjunction Venus 0°56
Mercury Square Mars 1°47
Venus Square Mars 0°51
Saturn Conjunction Uranus 0°14
Neptune Sextile Pluto 0°55
This mean anything?
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astro junkie
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posted June 03, 2005 03:47 PM
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