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angel_of_hope
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posted June 07, 2005 04:07 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Does anyone know which transiting planets would produce a "good" day to pop the question in relations to ones charts?

Im seriously thinking it may be up to me to ask. Which at one point in time, he asked me "why do i have to be the one to ask, why cant you propose" ... in the beginning, i persued him and persistance, persistance persistance paid off. He was mine! I got to thinking the other night that maybe by him making that comment he really wants me too ask him and considering i persued him.

Being a female, its kinda odd, cause i have conjured up ideas of proposal but never gave much thought to the wedding itself. So when i thoguht about this it really made sense to me that "ding" maybe i really am to ask him. But in that case do i buy a ring for him???? or do we both have engagement rings???

Anyways, what im looking for is some good dates to make this happen. In the near future.

Thanks for the help! I will be searchign online as well for anything...

...till later!

ang-

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The Mutable Night Force
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posted June 07, 2005 04:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for The Mutable Night Force     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
OK, I can't be much advise on dates and stuff, because, for a start wouldn't I need some astrological infomation about you? Or do you just mean dates in general? Either way...

Just thinking, maybe you could suggest to him- do you want to get married? And then ask him if he could get you a ring, or ask him if he wants a ring... then if it makes things easier or just for the fun of it, you could go through the pretense of him proposing to you without the worry you'll say 'no' lol.

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angel_of_hope
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posted June 07, 2005 05:01 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
D'oh! LOL ... i was in a hurry typing this as he was standing at he door waiting to go to lunch and didnt get a chance to go back and proof or edit info. lol

My info: Jan 02, 1980
Anchorage, AK (AST) 09:07am

His Info: April 11, 1982
Princeton, NJ 05:06am

Thanks MNF for the reply ...
I guess i was looking for areas/planets to look at as far as influence on the question/answer for any given day. But if you could look at our stats, to see dates (or problem dates) that would be great as well.

See, we've talked about marriage before. He says he wants to and i also want to. However, he says he's too young right now to ask me. And in the same breathe asked me "why he has to be the one to ask". I sat on that for a couple years now and hadnt put much thought into it. Recently i think about marriage daily and just the other day was when i got to thinking about his question to me. "why does he have to be the one to ask" which got me thinking about how i have always thought up many ways to propose but never gave much thought about the wedding itself. SO maybe, just maybe, this was my job this time around, to ask the question.

Thanks for any advise you can offer.

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The Mutable Night Force
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posted June 07, 2005 05:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for The Mutable Night Force     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah, I thought I remembered from somewhere you were a Capricorn lady, which definately explains your willingness to break the controversy and want to propose to him. He's an Aries boy so he probably (just a guess) doesn't want to have to think about the future etc... and just wants to have fun right now, or in the most recent case- lunch, lol. But if you both like the idea, there's nothing weird about you proposing to him I guess, he'd probably be flattered I mean, unlike a Cancer Or Cap guy who might think you're insulting their right to be a man by proposing to them lol. Of course, I could be way off here!! I could do a synastry chart on astro.com but you could do that too so it's likely I'm no more qualified to tell you what day to have your wedding on than you are. Might as well just pick a day when the weather's nice. I suggest late summer/early autumn because, for a start, you'll be on honeymoon when everyone else is at work again, and because it's most likely the weather won't be too hot or too cold.

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angel_of_hope
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posted June 07, 2005 05:34 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LOL! Your a riot! lol

Im not sure zactly what to look for to "know" when to ask him. your know hwat i mena. Im still learning all this stuff (of course so is the worlds best astrologer) I just dont know where to start to begin to know. I've been searching a lil and found that saturn has a lil to do with the big picture - something awaited and counting and numbers.

But how would one go about knowing the "good day" to aks the other to marry them?? What transits may affect the end results? what in a synastry chart would i look for as indicators to marriage and or proposals? arethere such indicators to know "when" ???

I also like the sound of a autum/fall (late summer) wedding. Esp since you would have the dark earthly colors accenting it all! Beautiful!!

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angel_of_hope
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posted June 08, 2005 04:00 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ya'll i feel so lost and confused. Am i to look at our synastry together to know when to ask him? or would i run a transit report? or progressed? Or maybe would horary be the way to go?

in case i wasnt clear enough in the above posts, im looking for a good day to ask him to marry me! im not so much worried aobut the wedding day as i feel that should be something him and i discuss later on. Right now its a matter of finding a good day where the starts may influence our feelings toward one another and his answer.

HELP!!! What reports to i run and what am i looking for. I read previously about the "love" planets and counting the degrees between them , but thats for calc. the age of the person for marriage. So i didnt do it.

Anyone who can offer adivse, I will be forever greatful!!

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Planet_Soul
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posted June 08, 2005 04:43 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I read in a book about elective astrology, that a good day would involve good transits of the Moon and Venus to your natal Moon and Venus. Also, to avoid a Merucry Retrograde period if at all possible.

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angel_of_hope
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posted June 09, 2005 01:10 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
PS - thanks for the tidbit there!! great, and isnt merc going retro very shortly. Although it doesnt HAVE to be now i guess.

I also just read yesterday about the moon and venus transits. Thanks!!

I also just had a man read HIS chart to look at problem areas as far as commiting to marriage. Seems he's got some issues to being tied down and marriage (although its as if we already are, living together since day one practicly, and dont go or do anything with out one another.) Anyone else care to give and opinion to his chart for me!?!?! please! Its something we have talked about but hes unsure of the reasons why, but just feels he isnt ready (or wasnt ready at the time i should say)


I'm so lost and confused, i swear my heart is telling me yes, but after reading about his chart - im so unsure. HELP!!! ANYONE!!! HELP!!!

what should i do???

ang-

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pixelpixie
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posted June 09, 2005 01:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't want to poo poo.. but you just said in your last post he wasn't ready.
That tells me that no matter how excited and how awesome you guys are together, he won't respond well to it.
Just be.
Just enjoy him and your relationship.
Why don't you instead of asking him to marry you, plan a party for just you and him, and make it a beautiful night!
Celebrate your special love and celebrate him, how much you love him and want him in your life in an unending way.
Make it a celebration, not a binding ceremony.
I just have the feeling that even if he loves you and worships you and wants to be with you....
if he isn't ready, he isn't ready.
It's not that hard to poison something awesome with eagerness to complete.
Don't work on completion.... work on now, and step forward with the same eagerness into the future...

You romantic thing you..

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angel_of_hope
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posted June 09, 2005 01:38 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
awwww Pixie you made me cry!!!
It's not that hard to poison something awesome with eagerness to complete. - and thats sooo true, yes, and something i didnt even think of.

You right, the timing now is not good. I like the idea of a "special night" in honor of him and my love for him - for us!! I think that to may deepen our connection and maybe trigger something in him. Especially since hese been doing alot of soul searching lately with his career and our life and his hobbies. He seems like hes at the point were he wants to be that guy that goes out and washes his car on Saturday moring after reading the morning newspaper and drinking his cup of coffee. He wants the simple life, in a sense.

When i said he wasnt ready, i was referring to the year of 2001. which was when he said to me that he felt he was to young and wasnt ready and in the same breathe asked "why he had to be the one to ask?" ... so thats why i thought maybe he was trying to tell me that i should ask him, being as i persude him (he was a shy & innocent guy) but your right again, now is what matters!

Thank you so much pix, i see things diffrently now. Bless your heart! your a great person. i so needed to hear that. sometimes life is easier when you look from the outside inward.

Thank you again pix ...

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pixelpixie
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posted June 10, 2005 02:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Awwww... well, I am so glad. I didn't want to be a naysayer, just thought i'd add a different perspective.
And my thought was a long those lines as well...

"I think that to may deepen our connection and maybe trigger something in him."
Exactly!

Something inside me says that he will ask.
And he is an Aries.. no matter what he said about "why do I have to do the asking?"
*he was just being flippant and saying in another way he wasn't ready.. that whole childlike thing*
If he is giving more thought to life and circumstances, and the growth of both of you, that is bound to come up , internally with him.. without even reminders from you....
It is an evolution of a solid happy relationship.
Let him ask.
(If you can wait)
You might have to wait a while though... but honestly.. weddings are a special time, a great party.. but you already live together, so you get how it's not a big deal, in sveral senses.... I mean, you marry him with your heart everyday, right?
Continue doing that, enjoy your life together. Love each other.

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AcousticGod
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posted June 10, 2005 02:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can I just say I am scared by this combo? Yikes!

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angel_of_hope
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posted June 10, 2005 03:00 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Pix
You really know how to touch a persons ! You perked me up yesterday and made me smile again today! Thank you!

I have a feeling as well that your on the right track! And so is he! Thanks for showing me the need to wait. Looking at it in this way, i think if i were to have asked him, it would have only caused pain that neither of us need at this point.

lol, marry him with my heart and other parts! hehehe!

AG -
lol, yes you can say that!! I like hearing others perspectives as well.

But can i ask why the YIKES?

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