posted June 10, 2005 11:09 AM              

My Venus is in the 11th. The guys I've dated in the past + my bf were all friends with me before, and after actually. I couldn't (i'd find it odd) to jump straight into dating someone without being friends with them first. Also, a lot of times I'll see a guy as a friend and be under the impression he sees me the same way..and then find out he likes me - though that might be something that happens to everyone, not just 11th Venus..maybe it just happens more to me. I also find I LOOK for a friend in everyone I meet..I'm never actually looking for a lover..but maybe I send out the wrong message, so while I think I'm being just friendly (11th), the guy on the receiving end might think I'm romantically interested (venus).

posted June 10, 2005 12:07 PM              

I have venus in taurus and my moon in taurus and in the 11th house. My chiron is in taurus also.

My eros is in virgo in the 3rd house.

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posted June 10, 2005 12:11 PM            

i have always loved those really fun, go getter, throw all caution to the wind, if i want it then im gonna get it, kinda guys. and the extreme bad guys in movies. ive always rooted for the dark side in every movie i may not support it, but damn it takes one messed up and extremely emotionally powerful person to cause so much bad. i like the guys you have to work for..

posted June 10, 2005 01:47 PM            

My Venus is in II in Libra, at home in the house it rules, with Virgo on the 2nd cusp.
I feel like very little of the traditional interps of Venus in II apply to me, like “the search for wealth, personal possessions and social status”, or “wealthy romantic partner sought”…..

But with Earth ruling the house and the sign on the cusp, material security is important.
Now “love of personal adornment” fits (!), and “if you have an artistic hobby then there’s a good chance of making money from this area”, “possessions that give aesthetic pleasure” and “extravagance” fit very well at times!

I’ve had Virgo and Capricorn partners, but they were far from wealthy! And attaining wealth in the monetary sense is not a goal or driving force in my life – I’m more focused towards wealth in the spiritual sense – the gaining of wisdom, and wealth in the area of friends and loved ones.

posted June 10, 2005 02:05 PM              

Communication, either intelligent or all about sex, is a turn on.

Angela

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Scorpio/Leo/Leo

posted June 10, 2005 02:05 PM              

I think that should make like this:

posted June 10, 2005 04:06 PM              

I tend to have/had relations with friends and most i have remained friends with after the split. I have friends as well that i have had since early childhood (whom i also dated) and am still to this day friends with them.

*Venus is inconjunct my Mars (7th, Virgo)
*semi-square my Saturn (8th, Virgo)
*trine Pluto (8th, Libra)
*square Chiron (2nd, Taurus & Retro)

now, what does all that mean? well, im not really sure! lol

posted June 10, 2005 04:59 PM              

Angela

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Scorpio/Leo/Leo

posted June 10, 2005 07:52 PM              

and I dont like the pencil thin girls,with all their ribs showing,I like a lil' meat,and witha lil' sense of tradition etc...

yeah I guess it fits me...

posted June 10, 2005 07:55 PM            

I have a stellium in the 11th with Sun, Merc, and Venus. But the guys I've dated or were attracted to, we knew each other and there was a level of comfort, but I would not call it it a 'friendship' before dating them. We dated and THEN became friends. Of course, now that I know better, I'll be friends with the guys before it seems a better route in general.

Looking at my Mars in scorpio, this describes exactly the kind of guy I usually end up attracting or am attracted to. There is a sort of 'edge' to them that you can only find in Scorpio.