posted June 12, 2005 03:58 PM              

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I just wanted to get some feedback on others views or experiences with Aquarius men...and them in relationships...I have found them to be so Flighty...do they stay in relationships. I am dating one now...he is so great but FLIGHTY...Independent as well...

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posted June 12, 2005 04:56 PM              

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The only experience I have ever had with an aquarius man was him running away from me after seeing how possessive I was.

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posted June 12, 2005 06:24 PM              

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lol TP. It must be your Taurus moon!

Aquas need space. Because we need plenty of Air to breath and thrive!!

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posted June 12, 2005 06:36 PM              

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My experience is that some Aquarius guys like to say really mean things to me without my sparking them on to do that! WTF! I had one who was mad that I wasn't into him and he likes to tell all his friends that I wanted his ass so bad and then suddenly turned on him one day. What a freak.

The nice ones I know like to talk about robots with me and give me really big hugs. One of them is really committed to his gf, but he also has tons of Virgo in his chart.

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posted June 12, 2005 07:23 PM              

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WTF is right! Aquarian boys are weird creatures!

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posted June 12, 2005 08:57 PM              

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My husband was an Aquarius. We are divorced.
He has remarried and has been with his current wife for about 15 years. If I had not left him we would still be married. The thing is, an Aquarian's definition of commitment is probably very different than mine or yours. I've known others of them and they've all been in really long term relationships, but that doesn't mean they were faithful. They seem to be able to totally detach from the commitment and the opportunity at hand and don't see the betrayal to the relationship...it's just something new and different, there for the experience. They are all prone to hurtful words, but only to the women that they are in the relationship with.
My husband would give the shirt off his back to a stranger or one of his many many friends, but his family would likely suffer for it, and it would never occur to him.
But for all of that...he was a purely majical man.....sometimes!

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posted June 12, 2005 09:50 PM              

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lol TP. It must be your Taurus moon!

Yes....and the Venus in taurus lol.

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posted June 12, 2005 11:36 PM              

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Mine is very committed to me, and our relationship, etc.
I am, likewise, committed to him.

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posted June 12, 2005 11:40 PM              

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in my experience, an aqua male will want you as long as he thinks he cant have you. once he *breaks* you, figures you out, he dont want you no more. its not that he doesnt like you, he will still want to be friends, its just that you are no longer a challenge for his airy mind.

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posted June 12, 2005 11:56 PM              

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"in my experience, an aqua male will want you as long as he thinks he cant have you. once he *breaks* you, figures you out, he dont want you no more. its not that he doesnt like you, he will still want to be friends, its just that you are no longer a challenge for his airy mind."

Only when you turn out to be not what he's been looking for. And that's not at all a bad thing. Why waste time -- yours AND his?

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posted June 13, 2005 03:23 AM              

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I am just waiting for him to dissapear like all the rest...Things have been good but I like think I am way more commited than he is..I was hoping that his venus and mars in pisces would help him...I have venus in gemini and mars in taurus I am posessive in relationships...I don't think aquas are the ones for me...what to do with them?

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posted June 13, 2005 07:32 AM              

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i'm an aqua
been in a relationship for 10 years

my girl gives me space! we can't stand jealousy and posessiveness, however i have still strayed...but that is due to other factors namely we need to feel wanted and needed. If we feel we are surplus to requirements we very quickly disengage mentally and emotionally

the one word that means more than anything to us is FREEDOM...

Good luck

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posted June 13, 2005 07:46 AM              

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My Aqua was super-quick to commit - but he has a Taurus Moon and Scorp Asc, and we have (along with some wicked aspects) some really nice chart-to-chart aspects (like my Moon conj. his Sun to the degree).

So I guess it just depends on the Aqua and on the situation.

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posted June 14, 2005 10:09 AM            

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Oh another thread on those lovely Aqua men...

Man I can go on and on about this,I have read everyones comment and they are all true. Aqau men are wierd dudes and some of them are very magical too. The last one I was with was very magical we had a magicl thing going on period. Space and time with them is all I can say. Posessiveness and jealousy they do not appreciate however they are cable of that.But they try very hard to not let you know. My ex use to get so jealous I just laughed inside like yeah whatever. It is when they act like they don't like you is when you are in cause then they are trying to surpress some emotions they like to stay in control of their feelings. If you fall inlove with them it can last for along time even if the relationship ends. What I do know is that they more then usually remain friends with all thier ex's. What kills me is that my ex Aqua tries not to be my friend when I know that he has feelings for me still and I Know that he will not be able to handle are relationship as friends not now anyway.. I would date another one cause I now know how to handle them...

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posted June 14, 2005 02:09 PM            

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Mama Mia, could you expand on the whole "when they act like they don't like you, you're in" drama? I'm wondering if that would include when they ignore you or when they are so out of reach, yet never breaking contact or making plans with you when you want to break it off...it gets so confusing.>! I totally trust your take on the Aqua male

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posted June 14, 2005 03:09 PM            

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Ok Zoso let me try and explain. There is two sides to this. If the Aqua man really cares for you and you do something to really hurt him I mean really hurt his feelings he can and will shut down on you and bc of their fixed nature they tend to stick with it. Aqua's are a ppl person they like everyone if they do not like you it means something just what I do not know. I will say this though when they really like someone also they can become frosty and detatched (I have experienced this first and) they do not like to feel intense emotion if they cannot control it. They are unpredictable guys minute you think you have them figured out and thebn they flip on you. They can and will ignore the heck out of you too, Just ignore them back and see what happens. Seems like it isn't until they are ready to let go of you that,that will happen. They are confusing zoso I try not to get down to the lil stuff it will make you crazy..Hope I helped a lil I am starting to feel confused now :-)

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posted June 14, 2005 11:36 PM            

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Thanks Mama Mia~ so confusing!

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posted June 15, 2005 01:15 AM              

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Communication helps!

Unless you can read their minds.

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posted June 15, 2005 09:39 AM            

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r we judging again based only on Sun signs?

I had a nine years rel with an aqua sun. previously, ha had been with the same wo for 3 or 4 years / as far as I can BET, he's a long-term-rel man. NO DOUBT there...

his new gf - yes! we broke off, 2 month later he had another long-term thing - they'be been together for 7 or 8 month already.... her parents have been married for twenty something years...both aqua suns..

so: NO; they r not flighty; try something else...it's not in that sun sign

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posted June 15, 2005 12:30 PM              

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My Aqua ex husband pestered me to marry him for ages and then as soon as I did, he couldnt handle it. I wished I hadnt. There was something very strong about him (Scorp Moon) which was like a magnet for me, but it was a very destructive relationship, he had a strange kinda hold over me. It took me ages to get him out of my hair, he threatened suicide, kidnapped me and did all sorts of manipulative things to get me back, but they didnt work. He was f***** up and a compulsive liar, he drank a lot and did drugs. Now the guy I am married to has Moon in Aqua, there are similarities (the detachment), but this man is honourable and true, albeit challenging (and he is 11 years younger - great energy ha ha) I am attracted to the Aqua energy but for a woman like me (lots of Scorp) its doesnt work - I didnt trust him and ended up living "on the edge" . I walked away from the marriage with just my clothes and a few personal belongings - I lost a lot of my money and security cos of his lies and irresponsibility, but in a strange kinda way I miss things about him, he was very charismatic and very much up for the craic, in fact a lot of his friends were Irish!!! LOL love to all Sue xx

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posted June 15, 2005 03:30 PM              

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They are all prone to hurtful words, but only to the women that they are in the relationship wit

: i disagree saturn , aquas actually are prone to hurtful words more than any other sign , thier taunts sometime go below the belt ( sometimes even worst then the scorp's sarcastic comment)

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posted June 15, 2005 09:52 PM            

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I'll have to agree with you cancerrg on the hurtful words/below the belt type of comments...I love all my Aquas to death and we understand each other more than any other sign understands each of us, but I have experienced these types of comments with three Aquas I know ... I just don't understand that type of thing, hurting someone deliberately or for sport.

Laura (a sag)

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posted June 15, 2005 10:21 PM              

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How a Aquarian guy treats you, and how long he is completly monogamus to you will depend on a few things...

First is his state of life ,and in his own life when he meets you,,, if things arent going well for him at the time,,, or if his heart [wich most of us arent that aware of most of the time] has recently been broken,,, it may not be a good time to hook up with him. We can be very cold,,, and even look forward to a chance to hurt someone,,, if we are still tending to a current emotional scar. May even become an art for the Uranian guy if he is at a point in his life where he just doesnt care anymore...

Two,, and this is a big one---------- will depend on you. Who are you,, how much is there to you,,, and yes- how posesive are you..... If a women is acting on alot of jelousy,,, and digging too deep into our biz we may just go out and do what will hurt you the most just because we felt over violated,, even if in our rite mind we didnt wish too.

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If oyu meet your Aqua space cadet when he is on a good emotional, mental, and spiritual path in his life,,,, and you can be patient with us going through more and then less time to spend with you [even 25 years later], the very most of us will always stay your sincerest lover, best freind, and remain apreciative... Yes even after we have figured every little thing out that is too you.

Going by sun sign alone,,, we are the best at resisting temptation to cheet if we realy want too, and feel we have no reason to break your heart.

Just dont forget,,,, we have good intentions,,, but we are generaly absolutly terrable with ballancing money. Even when we realy try to be more responsable.

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posted June 15, 2005 10:23 PM              

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Wow! thanks for all the comments...everything that has been said I totally agree with...I think that after hearing these threads it makes more sense to me...My Aqua guy and I have such a good thng going...I am not pushing him...I just let him be him...and enjoy the time we share together...I think he appreciates it...he has really come along way...he is really opening up to me and showing all that he is...emotions and all...that ignoring thing he does but i think he likes to be in his own world at times...I don't give him smack...I just keep trying...he does get back...eventually...they can definitely be magical people...

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posted June 15, 2005 10:58 PM              

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I love bossing aquas around. It's pretty fun. Until they run off LOL.

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