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Topic: How come?
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gert
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posted June 22, 2005 07:41 AM
 
Aren't people of the same sign supposed to get along the best.I've met a couple of Sag people born in November and I must say,I do not particularly like them even though I am a Sag myself.I find though that I do get on best with Sages born in Late December say from the 15th up to and including the 22nd.Is there a pattern that I don't know about? And oh, a friend of mine married a Cancer, she being a Sagittarian and she claims she's never been happier! She dated an Aries and a Gemini before and when Mr Cancer,after just 4 months of dating,proposed marriage she said "yes".But that could do with the fact that both her venus and mars are in cancer,so perhaps there is truth in that looking at ones sun sign alone is not enough to draw a conclusion on whom they would be happiest with.But isn't the Sun the ego?How can one deny the self,the ego of what it craves and wants by dating opposing elements and even incompatible ones.Just wondering about it any thoughts??IP: Logged |
aries-chick
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posted June 22, 2005 08:03 AM
I've never been attracted to an Aries.. except Hayden Christinsen lol I can't say I've been attracted to a Leo or that I'd be happy with one..on some level there is emotional compatibility ..but not enough of it. Sags are cool but ..I don't know maybe they'd suit an Aries with more air in her chart. My Cap moon's in the 8th, I'm too deep too intense, I want something REAL and I want a guy who's always going to be there no matter what. I don't see your 'typical' Sag as someone who'd do that.. because they love their freedom usually. my bf's Libra..and things could not be better. He also has a Cap moon and Cap Asc though. I deffinetly think other placements count a whole lot more than sun signs, specially in relationships. The traditional best matches are ones of the same element..but i find the trine aspect..is "nice"..just THAT, plain nice.. not attractive, not sexual, not challenging ..just 'nice' lol I think it's better for friendships than relationships. Looking at sun signs only doesn't tell you much at all in my experience. Things can go so wrong with ppl who are theoretically compatible..and vice versa quote:
But isn't the Sun the ego?How can one deny the self,the ego of what it craves and wants by dating opposing elements and even incompatible ones.Just wondering about it any thoughts??
I've thought about that myself..and I think it's an "old" traditional way of seeing it.. "THE SUN's THE EGO..the sun is everything"..na, personally I disagree. If I wasn't into astro..if I had only read my sun sign's description..it would really be of no help to me at all. There's so much more to me, so many more experiences ..really really bad ones..and some good ones that have shaped my personality. Looking at my chart I've found certain things that make perfect sense..they don't paint a full picture..but it's deffinetly more of a picture than my sun sign paints. Even really small things can sometimes make a lot more sense than something major and obvious like the Sun. yesterday I looked at Ceres..that's just an asteroid..but the interps for both me and my bf struck more of a chord than a lot of other interps on other more "important" things.. IP: Logged |
gert
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posted June 23, 2005 06:16 AM
I hear you,but I must say I disagree with your statement that trine contacts are merely "nice" and not suitable for relationships.For me though I find that I have more fun with Leo and Aries signs than I do air signs.This could be that I've got a lot of planets in the ninth house(sun,mercury,jupiter,neptune,uranus and lilith(whatever that is).I really connect deeply with someone who has fire and passion in their personality,an almost purposeful existence and that is true with a lot of fire signs.Air signs,although great intellectual partners don't inspire me or enthrill me at all.They seem a little too detached from themselves and lack a certain "vava voom". Water signs,although extremely passionate and intense,weigh me down by being too negative and inventing a lot of fears.I find a lot of them live inside themselves and so many tend to fear the outside world. Earth signs,though charming and down to earth, well..atleast the ones I know,are reserved,aloof and seem not too concerned about the bigger picture than just getting through the day,the week,the month,the year etc.. You could have your venus in an air sign or a lot of air in your chart to find a libran attractive.I myself barely meet up with interesting Librans and have yet to find a soulmate in any air sign! IP: Logged |
gemini girl
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posted June 23, 2005 02:16 PM
only my sun and chiron is in gemini and i must agree with u gert i have a lot of water in my chart but i absolutely feel the same way about fire im always attracted to men with fire in their charts i need to have ppl with drive and vision my dad is a leo with a sag moon and saturn uranus in sag pluto in leo now i dont get along with him but rather that than capricorns each sign has its own attraction factor for me and ive also thought about the sun ego thing cause i also dont get along with geminis thats in the first part but the ones in the middle is ok although they tend to irretate me easily i have a friend shes a leo and we are best friends although i sometimes feel like killing her but for me its not the bad or good aspects its how can i cope with ppls worst qualities and fire signs are pretty harmless sorry that a long comment im just enjoying myselfIP: Logged |
nove731
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From: Strasbourg, France
Registered: Jun 2009
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posted June 23, 2005 02:24 PM
Heh, I don't think you can rely on Sun Signs, either. I'm an Aries, right? Traditionally, I'd get on best with Leo's and Sagittarius', right? Heh, I've never met a Leo, face to face, that I could stand. Sag's are a totally different story though. I love 'em. But that might just be, cuz my Moon is it Sagittarius.  My best friends always seem to be Water signs, too. Which is unusual, going by sun signs, because I was born under a fire sign. My ex best friend (due to lack of contact, I'm afraid. Shame, I miss her.) was a Pisces, and my other closest friends - 2 Scorpios and a Cancer. As far as relationships, though, I usually go for Sag's. Even in guys. The idea that a guy is attracted to girls based on their Venus sign is so untrue for me. I've never been attracted to a girl who you could describe as being "Piscean". Or any guy for that matter, either. Usually they're Sag. types. I think the moon has a greater power there. At least for me. :-/ IP: Logged |
Archer
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posted June 24, 2005 06:42 AM
now thats sagi curiosity!well tell us ur asc and ur moon placements. IP: Logged | |
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