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The Mutable Night Force
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posted July 01, 2005 11:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for The Mutable Night Force     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I want to wear the long one! But it's white and I also don't want to glow in the dark!

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cancerrg
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posted July 01, 2005 11:57 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i like long skirts too , its ok if u glow at night but then its your night , isn't it .so go and glow

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sue g
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posted July 03, 2005 09:03 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Me too AG, my favourite one is black and it reaches the floor, everything nicely hidden, very Scorpio hey? How are you doing man, how is the love life? Love Sue xx

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cancerrg
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posted July 03, 2005 11:09 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
was that me that u meant, sue?

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sue g
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posted July 03, 2005 11:18 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LOL cancerrg x

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cancerrg
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posted July 03, 2005 12:02 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
confused cancer!!!!

ok, so love lady ,its allright , i mean the love life . she is always close to me without being close to me . its been four months that i have seen her but u all can't term her as my ex ( i was going to say this on that thread , keep checking it ,i'll be back). i dont believe in this ex thing , she'll always be with me even if i again fall in love with someone else . so " no ex"

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The Mutable Night Force
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posted July 12, 2005 02:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for The Mutable Night Force     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey there
Just to say, the thing I'm going to is tommorow.
Will let you all know how it went in a day or so, like I promised.

BTW, in the end, I decided to wear jeans (can't help it) and a neat little white waistcoat (don't call me a freak)

Very nervous now....

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cancerrg
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posted July 12, 2005 02:13 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
dont be !

btw best of luck !

waiting for your story , eagerly.

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AcousticGod
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posted July 12, 2005 02:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Good luck!

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Hexxie
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posted July 12, 2005 03:55 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi there MNF! one of my best friends is a virgo lady and she's been with her cancer guy for many years! she says that virgos need to be needed and that her cancer really does need her! capricorn and virgo are good too cuz of the trine but perhaps getting along sooo easily (if things become more than friends) may bore you after awhile? not that cappys are boring at all!!!
just a lil bit about me... i met my guy on line too (i think you were implying you met on line?!) we went on a blind date! we decided not even to see each other's pics before we met cuz we had been talking for some time and got along so well that it didn't really matter. it's really interesting meeting someone's mind 1st! it's opposite from the way we humans normally work!
as far as what to wear... i like long skirts a lot too, but sometimes nothing beats yer favorite pair of jeans with a cute tank top + sweater combo GL!!

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Tranquil Poet
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posted July 12, 2005 06:34 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Be friends with both and see what can happen. I think a cappy and virgo go well together. No hankie pankie!


~Libra Sun / Cancer Rising / Aquarius Moon~


wow hex how does it feel to have this combo? Do you ever feel yourself being pulled in different directions?


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posted July 12, 2005 06:56 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey TranquilPoet! I have learned to love my "combo" but I must admit it has taken time hehe. Of course I do feel pulled between the mind and heart a lot, but luckily my Libra Sun does a good balancing act Air/water/air...think of champagne on a good day or a hurricane on a bad =P And I must say m'dear Gemini/Cancer/Taurus, what about you?

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Tranquil Poet
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posted July 13, 2005 10:56 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I feel very much like a cancer and taurus. The gemini also. I also have my venus in taurus. I am not like other gemini girls. I am possessive, very loyal, and I love to cuddle.

I'd say the taurus and cancer really take away the needing space and flirting.


LOL


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posted July 13, 2005 12:39 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I'd say the taurus and cancer really take away the needing space and flirting

confused cancer again ! help.... tp!

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The Mutable Night Force
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posted July 14, 2005 02:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for The Mutable Night Force     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok....
(BTW Thanks Hexxie for that extra advice, although, no, I didn''t meet these guys on the internet )

Nothing actually went horrendously wrong so I don't really know why I feel so sad
I think I was expecting too much. Well, this sort of showed me not to get my hopes up too much for something.
I can't believe I was so stupid really. That I could be that much of a stupid idiot to think either of them were remotely interested in me. I suppose how people may speak to you not in person is different from how they might speak to you in person. Maybe this all boils down to the fact that I'm a stupid kid again, sadly. As wierd usual when I'm in the same place with both of these guys I find myself going like a pair of scales with my feelings (no Libra in my chart though...). Like, one minute I'll like one more the next, I'll like the other. So for the first half of the evening I felt the Cancer had no interest in me and the Cap was being really nice. I would have talked to him more if my stupid friend hadn't been so damn hostile towards him ( and pretty much everyone). It drove everyone away and I'm not sure whether to forgive her for it. Plus, I kept saying really stupid things in conversations.
For the next half of the evening the Cancer was really nice (even got us drinks) but the Cap buggered off somewhere (with some girl) so I didn't even say bye.
I went home and felt despondant and stupid.

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AcousticGod
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posted July 14, 2005 03:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Awwww...you've still got me.

I'm sorry it went worse than expected. That excitement gets tempered with age, but it doesn't go away. You'd still get excited if you were twice your age and meeting people you really liked.

Often things don't go great, but often things aren't quite as bad as you might feel they are as well. I'm sure you can get back to your former status with them quickly if you want to.

That's too bad about your friend. Some people just don't know how to act. It sounds like she was trying to sabotage you. That sucks.

You will always have Cancerrg and me.

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The Mutable Night Force
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posted July 14, 2005 09:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for The Mutable Night Force     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey AG, er... thanks! lol

I think I might be able to be still regarded by them the same as I was but the sad fact is, I think they'll always treat me differently in real life, as wierdly enough I think I do too.
I don't know if in a couple of years time it'll make any difference, but it kills me to get on with them so well over the internet and then be let down when we don't respond the same way in real life. I can hardly bear it... and I'm too impatient to wait 2 years.

Oh god, this is ripping me up.

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posted July 14, 2005 01:51 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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You will always have Cancerrg and me.

HAHAHAHAHAH........ , SO MNF ..

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The Mutable Night Force
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posted July 14, 2005 02:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for The Mutable Night Force     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LOL cancerrg....
what did AG mean???

*slightly worried now*....

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cancerrg
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posted July 14, 2005 02:21 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
dont worry !

he just meant that u always have me and him to choose from , the cancer and cap!

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AcousticGod
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posted July 14, 2005 03:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah, you've always got your Cancer and Cap friends here! We're far less dangerous as you'll likely never meet us.

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The Mutable Night Force
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posted July 15, 2005 02:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for The Mutable Night Force     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Haha, LOL, AG.

Yes, it's sort of wierd how I know quite a few Caps and Cancers the same gender who always seem sort of alike and yet very very different. It's wierd, and confusing... especially for me!

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AcousticGod
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posted July 15, 2005 03:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't know what to say to that. Maybe you should find a nice Taurus.

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posted July 15, 2005 04:06 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
its interesting that you guys would say that!

because i am going to meet an aqua for the first time in august. an (all new ) aqua of course. and although we get along really well on the net, ive made it clear to him that i *am* going out with someone (aries). im not going to meet the aqua as a sig. other, but as a friend, i am pretty sure that he is meeting for the sig. other prospect, but i know that he probably wont like me...or be attracted in person (gems and aquas i know either dont get along so well , coz they resent each other for being so similar, lol, or they get along too well to be lovers, just best friends).

it is a little disappointing because the respect a person gives u when there is mystery, and they have a whole big image of u being wonderful, beautiful, perfect in their head, that whole image bursts upon the meeting and expectations are damaged....few relationships survive that, and the bond must be strong. the bond between me and the aqua is a strong communicative bond. what does it translate to, friendship or more? for me, friendship, because i am still with the aries. for him, he will be looking for more although he has *never* said this.

in any case ive prepared myself for him to be disappointed about certain things i say, do, and look. but its me, and i cant change. neither can he, and if i stopped focusing on what i dont have, i would notice that he lacks many things also right?

since im going in to the meeting with only friendship in mind, i dont think i will be let down. if he is, which he probably will be, then it is his prob.

we can still be friends. one can always be friends with aquas

i think the best way is to lower expectations as much as possible, erase memories and act like meeting for the first time, and try to look at it as a friendship. if there is chemistry when u meet, it will take off automatically but if there isnt, then the friendship at least will always remain, so long as the mentality about it is there.

(ive done the online to person thing before, worked out excellent with the Leo, except that he was a playa! )

Love
SG

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The Mutable Night Force
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posted July 15, 2005 12:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for The Mutable Night Force     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey SG!
I get what you're saying there... It's not exactly the same from my perspective. I don't know whether these guys were disappointed since they had met me before, but how much they remembered what I was like I'm not sure. They certainly didn't disappoint me anywho........

*sigh*... The Cancer in particular... my gosh he has lovely lips....... his smile is fantastic... it's like a thousand rainbows with tropical birds and dancing milkmaids skipping off into the horizon............. Oh, I would kill for him to smile at me again... and his eyes are so sweet and cheerful. Plus he is sexy. Very very sexy.

Sorry, where was I?

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