posted July 03, 2005 01:19 PM              

his moods are basically feral and childlike and are activated by his susceptible stomach and sensitivity.

posted July 03, 2005 03:42 PM              

It's so lovely to see you so in love with your Cancer guy! God isn't it a challenge to try to communicate between Venus in Scorpio and an air sign Venus!!! But we're getting there girl aren't we?! And don't talk to me about over-analyzing stuff!! Us Librans are some of the biggest culprits aren't we!?

I had a brief but beautiful relationship with a Cancer guy once and he was so gentle, tender and deep. No idea what his moon or ascendant was but I feel he must have had a great deal of water in his astrology as he was so sensitive and caring. Could also be incredibly moody and secretive about his feelings and I was often the recipient of the proverbial Cancerian 'punch the world on the nose before it punches you' attitude from him if I failed to be as loyal and understanding as he needed me to be.

But it's a relationship I remember very fondly and slightly wistfully (yes elemiah, you can now wag your finger and laugh at my double standards in the light of everyhting I've posted about my present partner's thoughts about his ex etc ) so they do have an extraordinary power and mystery about them, those Cancer men!

Sounds like yours adores you (and rightly so!) and I feel certain that your move will be a successful and truly fulfilling one

posted July 07, 2005 01:56 PM              

i can't say about the things in astrological terms b'cos i am myself quite new to them .

what i feel ( based on my observation) that cancers and libras get along quite well though we have quite big differences in our life style but there ofcourse are similarities too .
both are quite diplomatic , fun loving and its also the atttraction of the opposites .

ok, why i feel that u took the right the decision was b'cos they like people to have faith in them and when he is asking u to join him that means he wants to commit as well as wants u to have faith in him .

u are also special to him b'cos u people broke twice then again came togetther . cancers also like people who dont make an issue out of thier short temperedness / easily getting irritated trait . they dont like people who play mind games , your walking back to his life meant u were governed more by your heart than your mind , so there ....

i didn't understand the overanalyzing part . i too have mercury in cancer and i think i analyize a bit too . i can even term it overanalyziation .
yours can be understood , libras overanalyize but its all fruitless , they go on and on.... . in cancers case its a bit different , so may be u feel that way .

he unbalanced u bigtime ?
what do u really mean ?

u are among the only few people here who find cancers to be fascinating , i would like to know , why do u feel so ?

and have faith ! thats most important !
keep faith in him , in GOD and yourself .

posted July 08, 2005 02:15 PM              

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( I know this sound like typical, but I do believe that shell exists

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ofcourse it exists.

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I don´t know how the relationship will develop from now on

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my suggetion , just be yourself.
ah , one more thing , i dont if it applies to u but i'll say anyway- cancers like thier gf or wife to be well maintianed physically . he wont be pushing u to do ( though he himself wont do it , they are quite lazy unless they have a objective) but he would certainly like , there is a difference between wanting and liking here . their hearts sometime tend to deviate , it has a lot to do with thier silence and artistic nature , woman too is a gr8 art work by god , so there is the logic, so the beauty deviates though momentarilly ,momentarily b'cos they are too prinicipled to do something nasty . they are the last person to ditch someone in a relation . but why give someone a chance .

though i am sure , u being a libra sun and aqua moon , certainly know how to maintian urself .
best of luck
best wishes for ur life , ms.unbalanced

posted July 10, 2005 09:14 AM              

btw make him run , if u dont like the paunch .

cancers tend to gain weight very fast especially around thier waist .

posted July 10, 2005 09:20 AM              

my dad is libra actually , we used to get along quite well when i was young but now we dont even want to see eachother , infact the last time that i aw him was six yrs .back .

posted July 11, 2005 07:00 AM              

i like people who rumbling , may be thats why i have so many libra friends .

posted July 12, 2005 12:54 PM              

Just wondered how you are and when the big move is?? Must be very soon??

Anyway, hope it's all going fantastically for you and do let us know when you get there won't you?!

posted July 12, 2005 04:56 PM              

Replied to you on the other thread but will do so here as well - so glad it's all going well for you and it's so exciting!! A month today eh?!

I know you'll miss Spain but you'll be able to go back and see everyone from time to time and you'll be so happy with Mr Cancer that it'll all be fine

Good luck with it sweetie and keep in touch

posted July 12, 2005 06:01 PM              

My first honey was a Cancer, and now as I am older I understand them bettter. It's all about long term commitment and being trusting and honest. They do wonders for my finances and my body but I feel guilty sometimes because Cancers are givers, they don't receive well, or deal with emotional instability well either.

If you are soft and giving and if you always think of your Cancer as a sexpot he will love you. But if you think of him as a friend only he knows it.

That's been my experience, I feel good about Cancers unless they are financially unsettled, that makes Cancers very unhappy and gloomy.

I used to think Cancer men were very unsexy until I actually made love to one and I was so shocked at how well we relate

Then I have a Cancer moon so that helps. Nobody ever thinks I am a good lover either at first, I keep it hidden:>