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Topic: I feel so stupid....("personal life" thread, read at own risk!)
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Battle of Evermore
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posted July 03, 2005 11:59 PM
  
I've been crushing on this Gemini guy for quite a while...well, sort of. I almost ALWAYS stay in that stage where you like them, but you just want to be friends.
 I have one measly little water sign in my chart, so emotions naturally kinda freak me out. I'm just ranting, because I think he has a girlfriend, and he probably thinks I'm boring, and he hasn't talked to me in ages before today, which puzzled me greatly.
About the only thing he said to me was a comment on my bare feet (my feet hurt so I took off my shoes), and my clothes(he used to do that all of the time, because I wear some pretty crazy stuff). There was a time when we goofed off together frequently. I just feel pretty goofy now, because I'm not sure he knows I exist anymore...
What do you think?
I mean, what kind of people do you think he notices? I wouldn't have even brought this up if he hadn't spoken to me today, so I'm sorry for having to rant to you.Sun Gemini 28°36'19 10 direct
Moon Leo 28°55'18 12 direct
Mercury Gemini 19°08'34 10 retrograde
Venus Gemini 18°12'08 10 retrograde
Mars Pisces 17°21'06 07 direct
Jupiter Taurus 23°41'26 09 direct
Saturn Sagittarius 29°18'21 04 retrograde
Uranus Sagittarius 29°04'29 04 retrograde
Neptune Capricorn 09°06'00 04 retrograde
Pluto Scorpio 10°00'39 02 retrograde
True Node Pisces 17°17'48 07 retrograde Sun Sextile Moon 0°19
Sun Opposition Saturn 0°42
Sun Opposition Uranus 0°28
Moon Square Jupiter 5°14
Moon Trine Saturn 0°23
Moon Trine Uranus 0°09
Mercury Conjunction Venus 0°56
Mercury Square Mars 1°47
Venus Square Mars 0°51
Saturn Conjunction Uranus 0°14
Neptune Sextile Pluto 0°55 LOL, great, now I feel even goofier for posting this craziness on the net. I sound so desperate. 
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The Mutable Night Force
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From: England
Registered: Oct 2009
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posted July 04, 2005 01:57 PM
No, BoE, you don't sound desperate. 
I'm not much of an astrologer but I can identify and completely empathise with what you're saying. You sound like me on a confused unrequited love-ish day Everything you said strikes a tone with me and I'm sorry no one has replied to your topic who can really help, unlike me. I too wear some pretty crazy things sometimes, I tend to rant and wonder whether anyone actually likes me.
You might not believe it now, but at a guess I'd say he probably thinks you're awesome, whether he has a girlfriend or not. Can you elaborate on the circumstances?
Try and ask him if he does have a girlfriend, very casually. As far as I remember... you have Virgo sun, and an Aqua Moon and Leo Ascendant?? I'm not sure but they were in the combination, right? If so, I don't think he would hate you or think you were goofy at least. I think Vrigos and Gems have great connections with each other, probably because of Mercury and can have brilliant conversations so that's a start... From personal experience, I reckon Moon Leos can be quite aloof with their emotions so that might be why you can't tell how he feels. Just speculating Hope it helped a bit.
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Battle of Evermore
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posted July 04, 2005 04:51 PM
Oh, thank you MNF for replying! You're the best. 
Um, yeah, I'm a Virgo Sun, Aqua ASC, Leo Moon.
Poor Virgos, I think we criticize ourselves much too much.
Ummmm, elaborate on the circumstances? ok, I'll try to do that without completely boring you.Well, I go to church with him because he is the stepson of the pastor. His whole family is GREAT, and extremely entertaining.
So, I see him at least once a week, and sometimes more. The last time we went anywhere together outside of church was in like April when we went to see an Imax film with some other people...well I had a blast, and I THOUGHT he did too. We were chatter boxes the next few weeks after that. Sometime later somebody told me he was talking about me, I'm not exactly sure what he said, but it wasn't anything bad (probably not good either, just some comments), so that made me feel better. At least one thing about my clothes again  I think he's fascinated with my wardrobe, or something.The last time he really talked to me was a few weeks after that, unless you count me telling him happy birthday, and him saying thanks.
He acctually said something to me last week though without me starting it, and a few words the week before when I tried talking to him.
I don't know, he's just been so detached for ages, and I'm just confused. I always thought he was funny, and I thought he enjoyed that attention, but I'm thinking maybe he doesn't like me anymore because I'm not always very talkative (although sometimes I am) maybe he likes people who are just as entertaining as he is?
Maybe he got bored with me? I don't know.
BTW, please don't go into all of that "He really wants you" crap, because it's a nice thought that I've gotten from some folks here on LL, but I VERY seriously doubt it's true.
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The Mutable Night Force
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From: England
Registered: Oct 2009
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posted July 05, 2005 07:52 AM
Obviously no one here can tell you 100% that he does or doesn't like you but when people say that they wouldn't say it for no reason and from what you've said I'd guess that he does.My Scorp friend has a Gemini Moon, she might be able to help and she read your post too, so...... She reckons that if he really likes you he'll talk to you as often as you talk to him... I think...
She doesn't know. Oh well, I hope it works out for you in any case. We both think you should generally try talking to him more as it'll make you gain a better friendship in any case.
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Ayumi
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posted July 05, 2005 08:29 AM
One of my oldest male friends is a gemini, with some planets in gemini. He is HARD to read sometimes. BUT\
I bet that this guy is pulling back and thinking over his stratagy. He already thinks of you as interesting and unique. I think you can probably sit back and wait. My Opinion of course! This gemini guy I know has had a crush on me for years, and he acted similarly to this . He also panicked when I told him i was moving. Thats a good indicator.Anyway Good luckIP: Logged |
Battle of Evermore
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posted July 05, 2005 05:31 PM
Thank you ladies!
I will talk to him more, I just haven't had a chance in a while(he leaves before I get a chance). I guess he does talk to me as often as I talk to him, I was just used to him finding me and jabbering in my ear.  He hasn't done that in a while, so it freaked me out a bit I suppose.
I guess I will just have to sit back, and wait...bleck, what an aweful thought.
Tell your Gem Moon friend thanks for time too, if you will MNF.
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Happy Dragon
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posted July 05, 2005 07:42 PM
BoE .. hi ..
i sort of read thru this a couple of times .. but am also doing three things at once as per norm ... but scanning thru and without checking full charts out ( i don't have yours in any case .. ) but your friend would have been going thru some pluto transits to his Merc/Vens/Mars and node in pisces .. plut is at 22 and retro to 19 i think .. but there must have been some changes for him over the past few years .. sorry i should re-read the post .. but then again .. seem to get the impression that it be the gemini influence in a way .. how long have you been friends? .. just scanned thru again .. Gemini detachment comes to mind .. ( keep meaning to post a good 'leo' song .. good one to play along to .. mick jagger on vocals .. mr.leo )
anyhow .. be well ..
'later
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Battle of Evermore
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posted July 05, 2005 08:52 PM
Oh, thank you HD, I didn't really expect you to reply to this, but thanks for doing it! I didn't post my chart, because I wasn't really looking for the whole synastry deal.
Uh, we've been friends for about...two years I guess. That's about right.
He definatey has been through some changes lately, his mom just got married again almost a year ago, and he moved back to the US from Japan right before I met him. He's only 17, so he changes schools and everything too. He does seem a little different as of lately (past few monts) though...more serious, or something? Maybe I'm just imagining it.
Well, thanks HD, and yeah, do post that Leo song, Mick Jagger rocks! LOL. Not meaning this in a bad way, but wow, that guy has a big mouth...right next to Steven Tyler...wow 
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