posted July 05, 2005 02:15 PM              

I suppose the other elements of your chart could add to or lessen this but i was just wondering if anyone had noticed whether one was more aquarian than the other. If that makes any sense at all.

posted July 05, 2005 02:43 PM              

Put it this way. An aquarian wouldn't know what love was......even if it bit them in the arse.

Stay away from anyone who has aquarius in there chart. They are cold hearted beasts.

No offense....just being honest.

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Gemini sun, Cancer rising, Taurus moon

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A woman's head is always influenced by heart; but a man's heart by his head.

posted July 05, 2005 03:40 PM            

They are detatched but I don't think it's the same as being cold or not knowing what love is although I'm sure there are a few people who don't.
Any Aquarians I know will sometimes seem to stare right through you or look at you like they really are looking AT you, and not in a nice way, but they aren't thinking anything horrible about you! They're probably wondering what's on tv that night or trying to remember the ending of that book they read recently...etc etc
I'm pretty sure this is the case. You might go a while thinking they hate you, then one day it'll be "Hey, so and so, how are you? Did you hear that story about....(random tangent)"

posted July 05, 2005 03:54 PM              

I almost married a guy with Aquarius sun, moon and mercury. Yes. Unbelievably but true and it was an excruciating roller coaster. He was brilliant, shockingly good looking and frequently cold. He also could explode. I am a Gemini (O degrees) with a very traditional classic TAURUS in VENUS (5th House). So despite all my gemini stuff (mercury) and aries mars even I was heartbroken alot. He was sexually very experienced and very very emotionally detached unless he was ticked off or sad. I was a virgin and an optimist from the word go. Of course, we were friends first and he always seemed more turned on by the mind more than anything else. It was a BIG clash but the biggest was that distance and penguin shrug you off coldness.

I can do Aquarius in other planets (mercury, even venus can be okay) because sometimes you get the intellectual, smart person, calm and pleasant without that wall.

I have a male friend who is Pisces with Aquarius moon and mercury. He comes across from quiet, mannerable and detached, but is unbelievably different when you get in his soul. He is also overtly more sensitive, sort of sweet in a goofy don't hurt me kind of way. His sense of humor ricochets between stupid wacked silly and supremely witty.

I have seen good "Water" break down and gush over detached Air but maybe not in the Aquarius SUN placement.

posted July 05, 2005 04:31 PM              

The one with moon in Aquarius too is wacky but kind of a lovable rogue. Wow, the surreal and freaky conversations we have - excellent rapport there! He's also quite shy and has a wistful slant to him. I don't know his rising sign unfortunately but would plump for a water sign if I had to guess. He confided in me that he was still single and very unhappy about it (We've only recently got back in touch after ten years of doing our own thing - a nice example of Air sign detachment I guess - though we still had loads to talk about as though we'd last seen each other yesterday).

The other Aquarian sun is also a very good friend of mine and there again we talk about the weirdest topics. He, too, is single though unlike friend #1 he says he's not fussed about chasing girls. He likes his gadgets, PC and DVD collection too much!

The closest Aquarian rising I know is my brother (sun Leo) and he is a dead ringer for Professor Stephen Hawking - lol it's true! I'm talking looks and how clever he is upstairs. My brother is amazingly detached and geeky. He lives alone and has no desire to settle down with a mate.

Sorry, this doesn't really answer the question who is more detached but in my experience I'd give the detachment medal to my brother. I don't think it's a fair contest though as he also has Aspergers Syndrome which I know explains a lot about his idiosyncrasies.

Both sun sign Aquarian friends are more willing to go out of their way to seek friendship and companionship though again neither has ever had a close relationship (both in their thirties now) and I've never seen them get emotional about anything so I guess they are somewhat detached from their emotions. Bless em! I do like the way they treat me like one of the boys I get on great with them, being Gemini. Airheads the lot of us.

posted July 05, 2005 04:48 PM              

The reason i was asking this question is because i am aquarius rising and i have come to realize that i am extremley commitment phobic. Lately when i meet someone i like i start to get freindly with them and as soon as they start showing a real interest in return i freak out start ignoring them.
or i will do something to make them not want to be with me.

I have such an intense fear of being suffocated by another person. I can't seem to get past it.

I think i have always had trouble maintaining relationships, but ever since my last boyfriend who was a very intense, jealous and possesive scorpio, i can't even seem to get to the point of actually starting a relationship. Does anyone have any ideas on how to get past this?

posted July 05, 2005 04:48 PM              

The reason i was asking this question is because i am aquarius rising and i have come to realize that i am extremley commitment phobic. Lately when i meet someone i like i start to get freindly with them and as soon as they start showing a real interest in return i freak out start ignoring them.
or i will do something to make them not want to be with me.

I have such an intense fear of being suffocated by another person. I can't seem to get past it.

I think i have always had trouble maintaining relationships, but ever since my last boyfriend who was a very intense, jealous and possesive scorpio, i can't even seem to get to the point of actually starting a relationship. Does anyone have any ideas on how to get past this?

posted July 05, 2005 04:48 PM              

The reason i was asking this question is because i am aquarius rising and i have come to realize that i am extremley commitment phobic. Lately when i meet someone i like i start to get freindly with them and as soon as they start showing a real interest in return i freak out start ignoring them.
or i will do something to make them not want to be with me.

I have such an intense fear of being suffocated by another person. I can't seem to get past it.

I think i have always had trouble maintaining relationships, but ever since my last boyfriend who was a very intense, jealous and possesive scorpio, i can't even seem to get to the point of actually starting a relationship. Does anyone have any ideas on how to get past this?

posted July 05, 2005 05:07 PM            

Ok...I'm done now.

posted July 05, 2005 06:21 PM              

It's frightening knowing people like that even roam this earth.

*Shivers.

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Gemini sun, Cancer rising, Taurus moon

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A woman's head is always influenced by heart; but a man's heart by his head.

posted July 05, 2005 06:54 PM              

anyhow cap moon isnt really known for gushing confessions of love either so not too diametrically opposite of a placement u know,

i would say Aqua suns are more detached also, although this guy wasnt detached per say but just too slow and kind of a commitment phobe. He knew his market value -- very good looking, well off, charming, the whole nine yards, which was a problem because I think he felt he needed to explore and find the BEST perfect ideal mate before he settled. Even uptil now he IMs me and I know that he regrets taking things slow with me coz I was the best girl he could get. Even when we were together he'd admit I Was everything and more he had ever imagined, too good for him, etc etc but still had problems committing.

Now this is no rocket science to me, if you find your IDEAL mate and love them to death, and I really believe that he loved me but couldnt admit or express it, then WHATS THE PROBLEM PAL?? seems like indecision to me.

My scorp moon and venus in aries put their feet down. I got the heeeyllllllll outta there before he could say, lets make love in the closet tonight... pulled an aqua thing or two on the aqua himself. I know im his 'unforgettable' (refer to soul unions thread). Hes mine too but what can I do, I Cant take this kind of emotional abuse, and in my opinion, detaching yourself and sending mixed signals, delaying and ignoring, these are emotional abuse in a relationship.

It is always unintentional. I would lie if I said he is not a sweetheart. Everything about him is very genuine, sincere, honest and caring. But love doesnt see to be a part of his vocabulary. Major problem.

posted July 06, 2005 09:53 PM              

My grandmother and I have identical Aquarius birthdays, and when we get fed up with a man mistreating us, we're fed up.

Just b/c an Aqua woman refuses to be a man's doormat, and wisely packs her bags doesn't mean she's heartless. It just means she has self respect.

By your quote, I see you expect a woman to be the more emotional sex, and thus pushovers.

"A woman's head is always influenced by heart; but a man's heart by his head."
-Lady Marguerite Blessington

posted July 06, 2005 09:57 PM              

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Just b/c an Aqua woman refuses to be a man's doormat, and wisely packs her bags doesn't mean she's heartless. It just means she has self respect.

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posted July 06, 2005 10:03 PM              

"One of the things about equality is not that you be treated equally to a man; but that you treat yourself equally to the way you treat a man."
-- Marlo Thomas

posted July 06, 2005 10:20 PM              

I ain't no damn lesbian.

Poet- I scored nearly perfect on my Emotional IQ test. Lets see you beat a 136!

WTF are u talking about?

Wierdo.

posted July 06, 2005 11:16 PM              

I dated a Gemini with Taurus Moon and Venus in Cancer, Pisces Rising
Tranquil Poet,
and he was the coldest most unaffectionate man I ever met, who admitted he was incapable of love.

I think it depends on the Aqua, and how much earth influence there is, houses and planets. Earth makes you attached.

But I have met really cold hearted Cancers, and Libras, and super sweet Capricorns so it just depends on how hard you want to commit and be loved. Once an Aqua has been married and divorced and had a few children, it changes.

Just my two cents,

I wouldn't want an untried one,

posted July 07, 2005 12:59 PM              

I am a gemini with taurus moon and cancer rising and venus in taurus. It is very different.

Wow he must have had some bad aspects in his chart. Yikes!