posted July 16, 2005 03:29 AM            

The conjunction of Neptune to the Ascendant shows that you are very sensitive and perhaps psychic. Your grip on the real world is loose; you need to grasp it more firmly. You are often away in a world of your own where you can escape the harshness of reality, which is especially painful to you. You are so physically sensitive to the injustices you observe in society that they can easily make you ill. Because your environment has such a powerful effect, you should try to make some contribution to relieve your anxieties about allowing these negative conditions to exist. You are particularly sensitive to the depressing social, economic, and inhuman conditions that plague much of the world's population. You are sympathetic toward the oppressed, understanding of the emotionally disturbed, and forgiving to those who seem guiltless in their transgressions against society.

When people fail in their dealings with you, you tend to give them the benefit of the doubt and silently bear your disappointment. You easily become distraught over conditions you are powerless to do anything about, and your feelings of guilt and failure can make you withdraw into a world that is safe from responsibility. If the abrasive effect of direct encounter is severe enough, you might resort to artificial means of inducing relief from painful reality. But it is especially important to avoid drugs and alcohol, since they increase your vulnerability. You attract strange characters and are especially vulnerable to powerful individuals who can gain control over you. You should associate with persons who have their feet on the ground to compensate for your aimless wandering temperament. You need to be stabilized in reality, where you can do a great deal of good. There is a great need for your sympathetic understanding, and you don't have the right to turn down anyone who extends a hand for help.

Moon in 1st house

With the Moon in the First House your feeling, instinctive nature will find expression through personal interests related to self-awareness and a search for true social identity. A healthy self-image and socially presentable physical appearance are important to your emotional confidence. Your day-to-day response to circumstance is strongly conditioned by emotional factors - lack of direction, moodiness, over-sensitivity and changeability are the dangers.

Venus in 1st house

With Venus in the First House the areas of life where you are most likely to express your social, romantic and artistic qualities are through your own self, by presenting an elegant, graceful, magnetic, happy, socially outgoing, attractive personality, with much joy for living. This placing of Venus indicates an impulsive, passionate in love, extrovert, bold and romantic nature. There is a need for constant variety in both your romantic and social lives. You make friends easily and are fond of love and admiration. Artistic self-expression is important, possibly through music, clothing or writing.

posted July 16, 2005 04:13 AM              

i am still with the aries i was not so sure about,

he is Aries/Gem which i believe is similar yet different from Aries/Aqua.... In our case my sun conj his moon so the connection is extremely psychic also (where is ur moon?) his sun is aries my moon scorp, so although there is no conj/positive aspect, yet the mars energy is reciprocated and that is pretty much harmonious also. it helps that his mercury is in pisces and he rarely if ever hurts my feelings.

we also have a weird connection like that, he can always tell how i am feeling and i can tell how hes feeling too.

i wouldnt say hes shy about expressing his emotions, hes very careful about expressing them, but once hes chosen his woman, its all romance, passion, love, loyalty from there on. which is admirable he doesnt go for any girl, but if he does go for someone he is very persistent and loyal with it. if ur into sweeping confessions of love, then u will enjoy the courtship, if u think ur too doubting to accept that, then the doubt will plague u, in the beginning i was doubtful of the truth of such grand statements, but now i see them as simply a poetic way of putting his intense feelings (and nothing wrong with that afterall i have really intense feelings too). so ive stopped doubting and accepted besides my heart says MOST of the time hes telling the truth, although i did have qs and still do sometimes about some things if hes telling the truth or not.

overall i would say stay with it. aries men are like children at heart--but they are also very strong, protective, loyal, loving, passionate. depends on what u want, and if ur willing to accept the whole package or not?

btw with any aries male be prepared to accept total devotion, possessiveness and jealousy. My aries has about 6 planets in air signs yet he is still super possessive and jealous too.