posted July 16, 2005 05:05 PM              

Do any of you fellow Scorpions feel the same way he does? and what can I do to help him?
Also I thought I'd include his aspects, and maybe there is something in there that causes these trying times for him? Any help would be greatly appreciated! Thanks,
Autumn

Planetary positions
planet sign degree house motion
Sun Scorpio 15°45'05 08 direct
Moon Leo 23°12'00 06 direct
Mercury Scorpio 18°04'47 08 direct
Venus Sagittarius 04°09'31 09 direct
Mars Sagittarius 10°15'54 09 direct
Jupiter Aries 10°43'38 01 retrograde
Saturn Aquarius 16°43'49 12 direct
Uranus Virgo 09°25'44 07 direct
Neptune Scorpio 15°24'22 08 direct
Pluto Virgo 13°50'18 07 direct
True Node Cancer 13°06'27 05 retrograde

posted July 16, 2005 05:47 PM              

***Well now he is in a different career and he feels like being reliable, diligent, a hardworker, etc. may as well be for nothing because he is not treated nor given the "luck and respect" that others who don't seem to care get.***

Leo moon and aspect connections ?

some of his natal aspects are fairly 'exact'
. . i.e. small numbers in the degree departrment ..
.. therefore potentialy stronger in 'effect' ..

e.g. .. ..
Sun Square Saturn 0°59
Sun Conjunction Neptune 0°21
Mars Square Uranus 0°50

posted July 16, 2005 06:40 PM              

Your husband has Saturn in the 12th, in Aquarius...maybe putting a dampener on his inner life, and friendships/connections at work. Perhaps he should work extra hard in those areas, not just the job in hand.

posted July 19, 2005 10:04 AM              

I am a Scorpio (very much so, with 5 planets there). I have always found life difficult, but the hardest and most difficult lesson was admitting that no one else could help me........it was always down to me. That is a paradox in a Scorpio's life cos they really need support and encouragement and yet they are loners too - so living with them can be a very very diffiult thing, if not impossible.

All I can suggest to you is that you shower him with love (I hope he does the same to you too), tell him how wonderful he is, that you believe in him etc etc. Encourage him to believe in himself. Does he have any counselling or therapy at the moment, that would be good for him - Scorpios tend to respond well to healing in particular. We need to dive deep into ourelves, unburden at time and a therapist is a good person to handle this!!

As I said it is a difficult and complex sign and you need to mind your own energy as well, the Scorpio can slip into a dark place at times, but they are strong and loyal too. My Virgo husband has often said "nothing is ever enough for a Scorpio" - I am beginning to understand his words. For me this has nothing to do with money or material things, but emotional happiness. We are intense and if life doesnt provide in the way we hope we can become angry!! Because we give to the detriment of ourselves, we at times become despondent when others dont return this. This is where the famous Scorpio sting comes into play. There is nothing petty about a Scorpio, but we do have high standards, especially in love. Does he have Scorpio friends - I think it takes one to know one and I find mixing with others really helps. For example my music teacher is one and for an hour every week we can immerse ourselves in true Scorpio intensity thro music, it is very powerful!!!

I hope he finds peace of mind, this often comes to us later in life, I pray he will find happiness and you too xxx

Love and light