posted July 19, 2005 04:10 PM            

Hmm, Ok, first off, he's a Cancer, which could contribute to the mood swings... secondly, he's just had a hard break up so stuff's probably a bit turbulant for him.

Although I'm one to talk about laying off and not coming too strong (esp. when it comes to cancers ) I would say just increase your friendship for now until he has sorted things out with his girlfriend. Then move in for the kill lol!
Only joking , but I think it's probably a good thing to wait a bit, so if anything does happen between you, he's not just going to you on the rebound and you can know it's for real.

posted July 19, 2005 05:12 PM            

Lol, the last person I liked had:

Sun in Scorpio (Me - Aries)
Moon in Virgo (Me -Sagittarius)
Venus in Sagittarius (Me - Pisces)
Mars in Libra (Me - Aquarius)
Ascendant in Leo (Me - Virgo)

posted July 20, 2005 06:58 PM              

i don't know if you've read about his venus in virgo yet...but here's info.

Venus in Virgo

Venus in Virgo people are not the flirtatious sort. Instead, their appeal lies in their dedication, their willingness to work on the relationship, and to make the relationship work in real terms. Unlike Venus in Leo, they won't try to impress you with grand gifts or promises. Their gifts are less showy, but perhaps far more generous -- gifts of devotion and attention to details about you.

Venus in Virgo men and women quietly (and often slowly) make their way into your heart. They are quite sensitive in love -- even insecure -- and this reserved, loner-like quality is part of their appeal. They prefer to play it safe in their relationships, and they need to be confident that you like them before they make a move. They are great listeners and they make it a habit to observe and learn all of your ins and outs. Their love can be of the Kindergarten variety -- they show they care by nagging or criticizing. Remember, though, that they are not trying to hurt you when they are pointing out the flaws in your thinking, plans, or even character. They truly are trying to help! Venus in Virgo is attracted to nondescript people who have largely gone unnoticed. Show-offs and know-it-alls turn them off.

posted July 21, 2005 01:04 PM              

the suggestions that have alraedy been given are quite to the point .
but i am actually confused about some of the things after reading the venus in virgo description .

first thing , u need to a little less pushy at this moment . so that he comes out of earlier relation , he hasn't forgot it and he 'll never forget that woman but he 'll come out of it , dont worry , this is something for sure .( they are quite practiacl people , even though they are in love with thier past , and for them - they contemplate a lot before breaking a relation , its a water trait actually , and he has can and scorp )
b'cos his ex hasn't taken the things in a light way , he might be feeling guilty . so u need to give him time to come out of his guilt feeling . this is something very very important for your relation to devlop the way u want it to be .

it might be a little tough for u to understand , i know .
ah , u can be sure of onething that he wont go back , ( btw who among u women's is more attractive? this is weird but important .) for that he doesn't have to have that guilt .

u shouldn't be distant , if u love him , tell him ( there antenna's are always faulty!) if u dont , forget the relation .
i dont think he would be telling u something at the moment even if he has something in his romantic mind ( they are thorough romantics , and he is double water , so the love and what u call the stuff, both are important )

ok, why i am a bit confused , cancers like to be invited to homes and dinners but description says 'avoid pushiing your family and friends '( invitations in a way means coming in contact with the family and friends , doesn't it ) . this might have been quite ok with a scorp ( b'cos they dont like heavy possesiveness in the intial phases )but with cancer , the invitations work , actually .
i agree with the other parts , though.
except the gift part for venus in leo ( i have never given a gift to anyone in my life )

and well your bubly , enthu nature would always be appreciated . they like who they can chat with .show him the sensetive side , thats the trick .
hey you have solved the mystery yourself ( i saw your last post at the end only)

posted July 23, 2005 03:10 AM              

u know this is the first time that i have seen an aries identifying with a cancer the most . i think its the cancer -moon . but u have a lot of air /fire rather than water .

yeah one more thing , its said that the aries a re challenging ( if u wnaana know the context , check out the new thread by randall)
how do u think they are challenging ?
if its so in your case too , how did it help or hamper your relation?

posted July 28, 2005 08:16 AM              

an aqua friend has a aries gf , i have always found her enchanting and interesting . though i have interacted just a bit but we still have to shed that invisible wall which seems quite tough b'cos of that diff in approach .

ok , what do u dislike in cancers ( if u could give life exp. , it would be much appreciative) though i have started seeing aries and other signs in a new light ( astrology helped me there ) but ofcourse there are diffs!

posted July 30, 2005 02:48 PM              

now that u tell me , i remember , there was a time when i was sharing a flat with four others , i dontknow thier signs exactly except one's , but i guess they were all fire and air people . that was a learning period for me .
and as u remind me , i think , this might have been a reason . we sometime unnecessarillly try to create a mystery and try to exaggerratte things .

ok, what do u think is the best way to woo a aries woman ?

i met an aries a few months back during army interview , we shared the same dorm , we were togetther for around thirty six hours and we remained in contact . he is moving to US this month . some of things that he wrote in mails have intrigued me .
i'll put the portions next time , (hope u are a regaular here ), i would like your help in understanding the aries a bit better .

ah , well about the moon and mars , though i am novice at astro myself but as far as , i understand its this combi that draws u to cancers .
you are an aries with the prominent cancer tinge .
btw it would help a bit more if u can put your chart .

to add abit more , as far as i have understood aries , cancers and aries do not have big diffs like the way they have with leo or even aquas .
what has irritated me always , has been thier affinity with the aquas or leos etc.
thats the jealous me . we always have the need to be needed , remember.

oh i got to ask something more , there's an aqua friend , his gf is aries .
now , they ofcourse have a wavelength but they have big diff . , the aqua guy is a big failure ( though he's my friend ) on the other hand his lady is a big success story . now , seeing this diff , what do u think in general , drew this lady to him .
i must add , he 's no casanova but just a normal guy. do u have any ideas about this lady's mindset on the basis of your knowledge about aries. i think a cancer woman's approach would have been different .thats why i asked.