posted July 27, 2005 11:38 PM            

Now as i've made attempt after attempt to seperate myself by completely being cold and not talking to him, nothing seems to work. mr. (pisces sun, libra moon, venus aqua) doesnt get the hint. he comes around when i dont..and when i do, its like he wants some space. now i want my space more than anything so i can get over him and restore the feelings i once had but he wont let me.

my leo moon enjoyed our affair because it made me feel beautiful (libra asc) wanted and adored (leo moon). but now, that the time is over part of me doesnt want to let go (venus in scorpio.) the only way i know how to do so is to get myself ridiculously ****** off at him so i have a reason to spawn hatred . but thats the thing, i dont WANT to hate him, i love our friendship more than anything, but damn. its so hard to not be able to deal with a middle ground. i dont want to see him with anyone else. even tho my feelings for him arent romantic at all.

if i were to be blatantly bitchy, mean, cold, and vengeful to him (pisces sun, libra moon, virgo asc, aquarius venus) how would he *predictably* react?

hes such a soft person i never want to hurt his feelings but my coldness and disregard for other peoples feelings *when hurt* keeps trying to stifle that and wants to..burn him...

what to do!!

posted July 27, 2005 11:48 PM              

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Sun - Gemini
Rising - Cancer
Mercury - Gemini
Moon - Taurus
Venus - Taurus
Mars - Libra

"You must live in the infinite blackness that exists when I close my eyes. I see you when I fall asleep, I see you when I dream."

posted July 28, 2005 01:16 AM              

I was going through that in past few days
but I did the same thing " dumped him and walk away " It would be less painful for him to know that you are not interested instead putting him and yourself in agony by giving him mixed signals.

Put yourself together make up your mind.

Tell him that you don't want to and don't talk for atleast some period and once he gets it then it would be fine.

It was difficult for me too also to be cold and rude.I cried after doing that but now I am outta of there.well not exactly but there is no temptation to change my mind.

posted July 28, 2005 07:23 AM              

Regardless of whether you decide to stay with your boyfriend and get over Mr Pisces or not, your boyfriend should know . . . It's my opinion that if you cheat on your partner, even though you may love them more than anything, deep down, you don't really want to be with them? Then again, some relationships can endure these "tests" . . . But I find that once infidelity with one partner has happened, it's more likely to happen again . . . because, as said, you don't really want to be with them. But, that's not always the case . . .

You say you want to forget about Mr Pisces, but yet you don't want to let go . . . You're feeling guilty for cheating on your boyfriend, so you feel as if cutting off all ties with Mr Pisces will be the right thing to do . . . You're trying to resist your desires towards Mr Pisces, it seems. Why?

You say your feelings for Mr Pisces aren't romantic at all, though, which is what gets me confused . . . are they just sexual? I vaguely remember a thread a while back, I think it was you talking about a Pisces friend making you feel wonderful etc. . . . so why not romantic? It seemed to me you loved him back there. =\ That's *if* that was you . . .

Now, I don't know you so I don't know how you think and feel . . . But, if I were you, I'd end it with my boyfriend, and give it a go with Mr Pisces, because I'd like to be true to myself, desires and all. I don't know the whole situation, but since you did cheat on your boyfriend, maybe he's not the one? Even if you think things won't work out with Mr Pisces . . . why stay with your current boyfriend? Pretend Mr Pisces doesn't exist . . . are you so sure you'd really *want* to be with your boyfriend? Want, not just love. Give it a thought. Don't compare the two guys . . . think of your boyfriend only, and really *really* think whether he's the right guy for you.

I'm not trying to break up your relationship, I just want for you to be honest with yourself. Can you see yourself for the rest of your life with your boyfriend? If so, stay with him. Tell him about Mr Pisces (if you haven't already) and apologise. The ball's in your court with Mr Pisces . . . if you reject him, he'll be hurt either way, so it doesn't matter how you do it. Just straight out tell him you're not interested anymore? Even if you have to lie . . . just make it very clear to him that you don't want a relationship of that sort to form between the two of you. You don't have to be mean to him . . . if you're bitchy, cold, vengeful etc. towards him, he might just clam up. Pisceans in general don't like confrontation/conflict . . . I'm a Virgo sun, so assuming he acts like his Virgo ascendant as well, my guess is he'd be like me and just turn away and ignore you completely. =P Or, he'd throw a snide remark your way . . . I think the former is more likely, though.

posted July 28, 2005 10:13 AM            

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if i were to be blatantly bitchy, mean, cold, and vengeful to him (pisces sun, libra moon, virgo asc, aquarius venus) how would he *predictably* react?

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Hm. Just going by the Virgo Ascendant, I'd say he'd probably - first - be extremely hurt. Then get angry and give you the cold shoulder, clam up, and stop being around you altogether. Period. If at all possible, anyway. At least, that's what I would do, and I have Virgo Rising. Lmao. The only Scorpio influence I have in my chart is Pluto, so I doubt it comes from that.

Virgos hate feeling unappreciated, and I'm pretty sure that's how he'd feel. You know, sometimes it amazes me how easy it is to just cut someone out. I think it's the whole Virgoan efficiency thing. If they're causing you pain, they're slowing you down, and breaking down that efficiency, so you've just got to get rid of them. Hrm. That's an interesting idea to think over.

posted July 28, 2005 11:48 AM              

So, end the games from your side and his. Soooooo not worth it.

What do YOU want? If you want your Sag for love, and want the Pisces for friendship, make it so. There's no need to spawn hatred or be mean. Take it from an older-than-you-chick: Stand up for what you want, but don't STOMP on anybody trying to achieve it!

It's so much easier in the end to get EVERYTHING out in the open. Gives you less stuff to stress about, and gives you MORE quality time for the more important things. (Like havin' fun w/the Sag!) I can't tell you how to do it.. noone can here. It's all gut.

Good luck!
Angela

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posted July 30, 2005 06:23 AM              

..your current transits

transiting Pluto opposite natal Chiron
transiting Saturn square natal Sun
transiting Lillith square natal Mars
transiting Mercury square natal Venus
transiting Mars square natal Venus

.. take note of tSaturn to your Sun ..
it is a 'card marker' trying to teach you a lesson ..
. . take note of your health at this time ..
said lesson may repeat itself next time Saturn transits your Sun ..
tSaturn is still 'applying' by square to nSun .. after that it will square
natal Pluto .. a repeating pattern every 7 years ...
Chiron be retrograde .. i.e moving back to your Mc/Ic
.. tLillith to Mars be a good one for a bit of rage ..