posted July 29, 2005 10:19 AM              

What I firstly noticed in both your charts was the ascendant signs.Both in late gemini and late Leo respectively.This normaly means that there was an immediate rapport for both of you.You both proobably saw each other at a distance and thought "hmm what a nice guy,wouldn't mind getting to know him better!" When I read your charts further I noticed many other things but these ones seem to be the ones that stood out the most.

You are a pure Libran and your partner a pure Sagittarian.Whereas you are discrimininating,rational,thinking and critical he is however passionate,idealistic and a touch secretive.But these qualities you both have blend well together and are not a source of tension.You both are allso ardent romantics who view love in much the same sentimental,fantastical way which is probably one of the reasons you were so attracted to each other.Your relationship,however,is not a superficial one.You are both instinctively aware of any hidden feelings between you.You have incredible influence on each other for good or bad and sometimes it does get difficult for either of you to think back to a time when you functioned alone without the other.

What I allso found interesting was the venus and mars placements.Getting to a point where you both function as a unit in the bedroom was probably not easy.It is likely that you are still trying or else find lovemaking to be tense and dissapointing.Hexxie you are very anxious of your partners' advances in bed.You often feel less powerful or atleast less in charge because you lovers' antics are not quite to your fancy.On the other hand your partner is very proud,expressive and a tad arrogant.He thinks you can be roundabout and too reserved.
I am allso noticed a lot of issues in the relationship you both had to deal with.One of them being lack of trust and unfaithfullness on either parties.Excessive possessiveness,arguemnts,lack of understanding and stand offs were or are still probably frequent.

posted July 29, 2005 02:09 PM              

i met my guy in sort of an interesting way. i'm a big video game nerd and i was playing everquest (for those of you who don't know, it's an on line role playing game) at the time. so was he. neither of us were planning on hooking up with anyone at all! it ended up happening that way tho hehe. very slowly got to know each other, started talking on the phone and then eventually went on a blind date. didn't know what the other looked like at all, but got to know each other's minds so well that it didn't matter! and now it's 5+ years later... perhaps if i had seen him 1st i may not have given him the chance, but it's like we were destined to meet.

as far as what you've discerned: he IS a really nice guy, a nice person. we are also very intune with each other (well part of that is cuz we've been together so long) but we cannot hide any emotion from one another.

the sex life part: i definitely wouldn't say it was dissapointing how to explain this (lol my life an open book for all to read ) he is definitley the more aggresive and direct, i am more passive aggresive and indirect. it works well! i know i can be a bit cool at times but i know he can handle it (he's all fire earth & i'm all air/water). he is a bit arrogant but he has such a good sense of humor about it (sagi clown) so it dosen't offend. we're not always on the same page and do have to work in this (sex) area a bit, but it's all good!! i mean we have been together for over 5 yrs and at this point there is more to our relationship that sex(yes kids, i know, i can't believe i admitted that either hehe)

no issues at all with unfaithfullness or jealousy from/for either of us, luckily!!

finally, we definitely "agree to disagree"! he is spiritual to an extent, but more religious. i'm more spiritual, was brought up with religion. my ideas & ideals are a lot more "aquarian" than his (he think's i'm a lil weird, but he likes it hehe).