posted August 01, 2005 03:37 PM            

The problem is when it makes serious disturbing aspects to your chart. For example, I have dated a couple of Pluto in Virgo guys. It is fine when they have other aspects to even it out. I know that their Pluto will more than likely fall into my 12th house, square my Sun / Venus and possible conjunct my ascendant. (I am already familiar with the Pluto squaring my sun / venus energy in my chart, so having theirs do the same doesn't affect me too much).

BUT...when they ALSO have Pluto conjunct Ascendant it sends terrible beams to me. Now we have TWO people that are very intense and need control in a relationship. If their Pluto is in an early degree it make also oppose the heck out of my Mars and we're in for some trouble.

In a synastry chart having both people add to a certain vibration can cause some disturbances. Say my Pluto conjuncts his Pluto (which is already conjuncting his moon and part of a T-square). Even though he is used to some of that energy, my energy will excerbate the matter and really bring out that T-square.

I saw some of that take place with Mr Taurus and I. My Pluto conjuncts his Moon and his Pluto opposes my Moon. His Pluto is apart of his T-square and my Moon is a part of my T-square.

posted August 01, 2005 05:01 PM            

When we first broke up I would dream of him alot but the dreams stopped then last week I had another dream about him..The end of June I felt him thinking about me we had strong energy like that. (Merc in Aqau both of us)

Its been 6 1/2 months now and I am coming to grips that this is a done deal.. I was hoping that we rekindled our friendship atleast but no sign of that..

posted August 01, 2005 05:52 PM            

I am sorry that your break up was so hard. It sounds like there was a lot of things left unclear concerning the circumstances. Mr T and you guy have something in common - both are in law enforcement- but Mr. T is an MP in the Army. I think it is hard for many cops to maintain a relationship, yet some seem to do it quite well. My own dad ended up beind married 4 times.

Sometimes it takes us forever to get over that love we had for someone as well as the hurt we have because it didn't work. It does compound the issue when we have an ability to communicate with them in the ethers.

With Mr. T.. this is the weird thing. I have always been someone that dreams ALOT and I almost always have dreams that come true or are pointing to something in my life. I had them when we first came together, but over the last year I felt that ability slipping away. Then, once I made up my mind that we were over, I started to have those dreams again -meaning the ones that give me insight into future events and serve as a warning of things to come (good and bad).

I was really getting bummed that I was losing my ability to "quest", like maybe it was time of that gift to go underground for a while. I am so happy that it is coming back