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Topic: Fellow Scorpios.....
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Celeste
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posted August 22, 2005 04:44 AM
 
Do you find people are constantly trying to figure you out? I'm so frustrated with people constantly prying to analyze my moods. I don't even know how many times I've heard "What's wrong?" Nothing, sometimes one just wishes to be alone or silent or whatever. I'm constantly being labeled a snob, b*tchy, angry, etc. How about the rest of you? IP: Logged |
TheEvolution
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posted August 22, 2005 05:01 AM
same pinch!IP: Logged |
TheEvolution
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posted August 22, 2005 05:02 AM
they say i'm very reserved.IP: Logged |
nannyfish
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posted August 22, 2005 05:44 AM
It's funny you should say that, I can't tell you the number of people I've told not to even try to figure me out. It's not me being contrary...it's just that 9 times out of 10, my solution to a problem will probably involve a complicated analysis of several life experiences coupled with my latest horoscope and add into that mix, the experience of someone I met years ago in passing that had the same problem. Hehehe...the best thing to do with a Scorp is to wait until they tell you what's going on...and then just believe it and move on... IP: Logged |
sue g
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posted August 22, 2005 06:15 AM
My sister called me self righteous on the phone today, we havent spoken for 3 months and ended up having a row - she is a Leo - we dont get each other, she only sees my faults and I dont seem to be able to "reach" her. I am beginning to feel it is a difficult path being a Scorpio and actually feel quite down that she sees me in this light. I thought it was my passion, she sees it as forcefulness and I think she is quite scared of me........? Love
Sue xx
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fayte.m
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posted August 22, 2005 08:15 AM
Things I have heard or been told people say about me; in no particular order:
She's a:
hermit
recluse
witch
angel
fairy
minx
oracle
seer
medium
enigma
mystery
Or, she is:
spooky
strange
weird
dry(humor)
too serious
blunt
honest
loyal
intense
intellegent
creepy
interesting
wise
scary
passionate
playful(often childlike)
funny
twisted(humor)
full of surprises
mysterious
loving
protective
generous
analytical
methodical
logical
not impulsive
inqusitive
secretive
b--ch (only from women)
Well..this is not a complete list...but other opinions are variations of these things. Then there are other things(nice!) from those who love and or like me...and when I was a child..sweetie...sexy..deva..beloved..dear..a blessing..a treasure.. godsend..tomboy..nature girl..imp..
as a teen..the only time I got called a sl-t was by the guys I did not do anything with! The others kept their mouths shut!
Being a Scorpio is not always easy...we have to let other peoples opinions of us not hurt us or anger us...and the nice things they say not give us an ego trip.
But mostly I think we have to learn to be happy with and like and love ourselves...and be true to ourselves.
Other Scorpios may see aspects of themselves here too.
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astro junkie
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posted August 22, 2005 05:17 PM
I wonder if having a strong Moon/Pluto Aspect can do this. I'm not a Scorpio, but have a Scorpio Stellium (Merc, Mars, Neptune). Moodiness can also come from my Moon Opposing Saturn.Also have - Moon Sextile Ascendant
Mercury Sextile Pluto
Neptune Sextile Pluto Since I can remember, people lectured me by saying, "It takes less muscles to smile than it does to frown." ------------------
... it's better to light a candle than curse the darkness IP: Logged |
Celeste
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posted August 22, 2005 07:19 PM
My husband just called me a "Walking Storm"IP: Logged |
Loggerhead
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posted August 22, 2005 09:20 PM
I have been called all of the things you mention, Celeste, and more, (incl. too sexual by some and too cold by others, and none of them lovers, mind you) and once, when I told my husband he is like an "open wound," (so easily hurt, carrying his emotions on his sleeve, etc.) he told me that I am a walking switch blade! LOL! And yes, A.J., I am only too familiar about that saying about the facial muscles... And I'm not even a Scorpio!! It's that Pluto Sun conj. again, I bet. I have grown used to these misconceptions though... Even as a kid I already knew that you can't be boxed in by other people's opinion if you want to live a full life. My mother used to spend an inordinate amount of time worrying about what people thought of her, and even as a teenager I pointed out to her that those very people whose opinion she fretted over didn't spend any time whatsoever worrying about what SHE thought of THEM! They couldn't have care less! Besides, we can never really know what a person feels and IS, and those people who don't realize that and never look any deeper than the surface are ultimately just losing out. IP: Logged |
kiwigirl
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posted August 22, 2005 09:52 PM
All those and more ;-)kiwi x IP: Logged |
Mystic Gemini
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posted August 22, 2005 10:56 PM
Yummy.........I love me some delicious scorpio.
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Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra "You must live in the infinite blackness that exists when I close my eyes. I see you when I fall asleep, I see you when I dream." - Talib Kweli IP: Logged |
scorpbaby
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posted August 23, 2005 12:34 AM
I have a Scorpio stellium Sun, Pluto, Merc, and Saturn. People frequently say to me to "relax" or "loosen up" . I hear this mostly from aquaintances or people I work with that don't know me too well. I'm always suprised by these comments because I don't always feel uptight, it must just be a tense energy I give off sometimes that I'm unaware of. People also generally think of me as a shy and reserved person. IP: Logged |
cancerrg
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posted August 23, 2005 02:21 AM
i dont why scorps are known as cold , i know this by experience that they are more emotional than even cancers , the only diff is , they try not to show this but scratch the surface , and u get to see everything .as far as secrecy is concerned , here too ,its the same . there has to be some other reasons beside these known ones(though theses two are considerd the prominent ones but i am of the opinion , they are not of credence that they are being given) that make people say tthe things that they say. IP: Logged |
sue g
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posted August 23, 2005 04:23 AM
scorpbabyThe next time they tell you to "loosen up" etc just say to them "Oh sorry it is just that I have SO much sexual energy going on, I dont know what to do with it" and if its a guy who says it just say "I would ask you to help me out there, but you just wouldnt cope with it (especially if its guy you dont like, That should shut them up LOL Love Sue xx IP: Logged |
miss_muffet
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posted August 23, 2005 07:28 AM
fayte.m:I have another one to add to your list, how about: CONTROL FREAK? M. IP: Logged |
sue g
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posted August 23, 2005 08:51 AM
miss muffetYou can add the CONTROL FREAK to my list too girl.........I just asked my husband if I was one and he replied "mmmm" and smiled.........I take it that means yes. He doesnt seem to mind when we are getting it on tho LOL !!!! Love to all
Sue xxx
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fayte.m
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posted August 23, 2005 08:53 AM
HHHmmm.....that is one I have not been called unless some here think that. But I do know some who are. I have no desire to controll...except maybe myself. I would make a weak dictator....My heart would not be in it. I want real...not to force a person into my molds....I divorced two men....they were control freaks...the first kept charts and graphs on my diet..my excercise...my sleep...and more! So if taking control by leaving them makes me a bit of a control freak..then maybe some see me that way.
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fayte.m
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posted August 23, 2005 08:59 AM
sue g!
I just did the same thing!
My husband said "no...you usually back down too easy and compromise or acommodate or walk away rather than control."
It is interesting because I was just talking with a friend of 36 years duration to date...and he and I agreed...we don't bother to waste time on people to control them. There are better things to do.
He is a Virgo.......IP: Logged |
scorpbaby
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posted August 23, 2005 09:50 AM
haha that was good Sue G. It's mostly guys that say it too! If only they knew...lolIP: Logged |
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posted August 23, 2005 10:13 AM
I wonder? Would a guy who has venus in scorpio considered to be a control freak?IP: Logged |
Celeste
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posted August 23, 2005 11:20 AM
I like that Sue, those comments should get some interesting responses. Control, control, control, yada, yada, yada. My husband the Libra, always sings that tune. I don't attempt to control people, more like my suroundings. I want things done, and I want order not chaos. This drives him nuts, literally. His preference is to be easygoing and has a relaxed attitude most of the time. As long as things get done sometime in the future, he's fine. Lol, sometimes I have no idea how we ended up together.IP: Logged |
sue g
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posted August 23, 2005 11:37 AM
My control techniques are very subtle ha ha.......like when I was younger if I was at a party I would always want to hear the music I liked etc etc.......I have never actually met any Scorpio that didnt have control issues.......even if it was coming across as "hey listen to me".......that is controlling isnt it? Sorry Fayte, I am being cynical here arent I., but it is just what I feel.......Scorpio women in the main are too controlling.......maybe your husband is just too scared to tell you (sorry I am being very bold now) LOL!!! Love to all
Sue xxx
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fayte.m
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posted August 23, 2005 02:23 PM
OOOHHHH NOOOOOO!
He is a Cancer! Oh my can he lay his cards on the table BIG TIME! No fear there! He is the only one I know who is straight up in my face for raw honest opinion or compliments! And he can take as well as dish it out!
He knows that is one thing I love about him...he WILL NOT let me go about with egg on my face! Nor does he want me to keep quiet if I want to call him on something...
He is even quicker to be brutal and straight to the point than I am!
He told me that when I met him I was one of the most beaten down people he had ever met!
I was rather pitiful. I was so frigging apologetic...for any and everything...and jumpy...if someone raised their hand or said boo...I would cringe...flinch or scream.
Azalaksh said to me once that I must have been wounded very badly. She is so right! As a teenager I went through a few years of being assertive....but later things happened and I turned into madam doormat supreme. I let others control me...I felt that was the only way to get love or have friends. Or I went into my little cave of depression...and threw myself into work and exercise...and doing for others yet saving little to nothing for myself. People soon learned that if they wanted someone to do the grunt work they didn't want to...well get Faye to do it...she won't mind. I minded! But I would do as asked so people would not hate me.
I still cringe when someone raises their hand near me...not to hit...just reaching for something over me....It just gives me the jumpies!....I still sometimes apologize when I didn't do anything wrong. Not as much as before....but that is only because my husband has the nerve to say things like...
"I didn't help you find your backbone to have you lose it! Why are you apologizing?!"
Then I will stop and laugh and say oops..and say "i'm sorry I said I'm sorry... again".....and then we both start laughing. So I am slowly recovering...
But no...I truly am not a control freak...
I do not like to play head games..
Or use people...
I would feel too much guilt...
I guess for all my seeming bravado...I can still be a bit of a mouse. Squeek squeek...please do not yell at me or hurt me or step on me....I'll be good.  ...squeek squeek squeek... 
Gads! I feel kinda weird revealing that! I am still trying to figure out how to not be nervous around people. It is easier here on a computer...but in person new people especially are scary. No..I am still working on me...I do not have the energy or desire to control others...
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ScotScorp
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posted August 23, 2005 02:56 PM
Celeste:Yes Yes Yes!! Even my closest friends get worried or scared when I'm quiet or not smiling. (Leo rising, Leo Moon) "Uh oh, something's wrong!" Can I take a break now and then? Puh-lease?? I find with most people, it's the extremes with getting to know me. With the women, they steer clear of me, or practically demand we be "friends". With the men, I'm either "intimidating", or they start the sexy innduendos. IP: Logged |
sue g
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posted August 23, 2005 03:19 PM
Hey FayteYou must have been the one that got away girl LOL!!! It made me laugh when you talked of being a mouse, you a mouse I dont think so!!! You come across as such a strong woman, really you do, but I am not saying you are a control freak, having said that I bet you have great control over MEN LOL , am I right?? Love to you
Sue xx
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