posted June 25, 2006 01:40 AM
Well, hello there sweet face.Lol what a great pick up line. ..Oh Yeah.
MKAYY ..WELL i'D LIKE TO POINT OUT THE REASON WHY YOU MIGHT ATTRACT THE WRONG PARTNERS. HUN, I HAVE VENUS SQUARE PLUTO, SO I CAN TOTALLY RELATE. YOU HAVE VENUS OPPOSITION PLUTO WHICH <I>IS</I> A LITTLE DIFFERENT, BUT STILL A TENSE ASPECT. WITH OPPOSITIONS, THOUGH, YOU MAY SWING FROM ONE 'ENERGY TO THE OTHER (FROM THE TENDENCIES OF VENUS TO THOSE OF PLUTO. YOU MAY HAVE TROUBLE FINDING MIDDLE GROUND. YOU SHOULD TRY TO FIND A WAY TO GO FOR THE VENUSIAN TENDENCIES, FACE THE PLUTONIAN ONES AND THEN WITH FREE WILL, CONSCIOUSLY <I>CHOOSE</I> NOT TO ACT THAT WAY. PLUTO'S TENDENCIES ARE CONTROLLING AND MANIPULATIVE BTW (THINK OF SCORPIO). THIS MEANS YOU ARE THIS WAY, REALLY MOST OF THE TIME NOT MEANING TO BE ..WHEN IT COMES TO RELATIONSHIPS.
STOPPING FOR A SECOND TO EXPLAIN SOME OTHER ASPECTS THAT MAY EXPLAIN ANY OTHER RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS U MAY HAVE.
Venus Trine Saturn MAKES YOU CAUTIOUS WHEN IT COMES TO RELATIONSHIPS. DENIAL OF AFFECTION. CONTROLLED LOVE, LOVE & DISCIPLINE. MOTHER'S LOVE PROB CAME HAND IN HAND WITH DISCIPLINE.
Venus Trine Neptune - ROMANTIC LOVE. CLANDESTINE RLEATIONSIPS. FAIRY-TALE ROMANCE. IDEALIZED BEAUTY.
Sun Trine Saturn - SELF-DENAIL. SELF-IMPORTANCE. ILLUMINATION OF FEARS. SEE FULL DESCRIPTION <A HREF=http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=1916&page=2>HERE</A>
and Sun Trine Neptune - GLAMORIZING FATHER WHO PROB WENT ON A MORALLY-IDEALIZED ADVENTURE IN UR CHILDHOOD..TO SAVE SOMEONE ELSE.(FOR THE GOOD OF HUMAN KIND) SELF-DECEPTION. IMPORTANCE OF A VISION. PRIDE IN COMPASSION.
THE ABOVE ASPECTS CAN INDICATE HIGH STANDARDS/IDEALS IN RELATIONSHIPS, BUT MOSTLY I THINK THE ONE THAT MOST DIRECTLY HAS TO DO WITH YOUR QUESTION IS VENUS OPP. PLUTO. HERE'S AN INTERP.
Venus opposed Pluto
The opposition between Venus and Pluto predisposes you to becoming involved in highly emotional and sexual relationships. Problems in this vein are encountered because of your very passionate nature. <B>You frequently attract the wrong kind of partners.</B> Marriage problems occur because of your dictatorial attitude toward your mate, or vice versa. Attempts to remake the partner rather than compromising causes constant friction. In your business relationships you face extreme challenges and competition.
I REALLY ADVISE YOU TO CHECK OUT "ASPECTS IN ASTROLOGY" BY SUE TOMPKINS ..FROM UR LOCAL LIBRARY CUZ IT WAS REALLY HELPFUL TO ME. ESP WITH THIS ASPECT. THE DESCRIPTION (AND ALSO OF ANY OTHER ASPECTS) IS REALLY GOOD =) ...hERE'S A LIL PREVIEW:
"VENUS-PLUTO. In relationships, both close personal ones and more casual social interactions, the typical Venus-Pluto person (esp. those with the conjunction and hard aspects) often seems to have a horrow of being rejected in any way and the individual may be capable of any amount of manouvering and scheming to obtain and keep your affection or attention. As Stephen Arroyo says, the Venus-Pluto person can be emotionally insatiable, qalways reuiring masses of attention. And this coupled with tremendous charm and an ability to know just how to please the other person can lead to exceptional manipulative skills.
The Venus-Pluto person usually has a talent for dealing with people in such a wayas to make each person believe that they are the most important person in the world to them. And it might take some time before it dawns on the partner that everyone else having any sort of relationship witht he venus-Pluto individual is also at the receiving end of this kind of treatment. Whilst on many levels, the venus-pluto person has a very poor self-image when it comes to how they feel others might view them, on another evel, the venus-pluto person will often not..."
AND IT GOES ON FURTHER EXPLAINING ABOUT RELATIONSHIP COMPLICATIONS , THE PAIN/FEAR OF COMMITMENT, AND MESSY LOVE TRIANGLES. YOU SHOULD REALLY CHECK OUT THE BOOK FROM UR LIBRARY, AS ALL OF ITS ASPECT DESCRIPTIONS ARE REALLY GOOD.
GOOD LUCK, HUN! AND HAPPY ASTROLOGY HUNTING!
-MABEL