posted August 26, 2005 08:03 PM              

Sun Virgo 19.05
Moon Virgo 21.22
Mercury Libra 13.52
Venus Leo 16.35
Mars Sagittarius 24.29
Jupiter Libra 10.28
Saturn Taurus 8.32 R
Uranus Libra 3.26
Neptune Scorpio 26.17
Pluto Virgo 24.44
Lilith Cancer 20.17
Asc node Pisces 21.09
Ascendant Aries 29.57
II Gemini 2.32
III Gemini 25.26
IV Cancer 16.16
V Leo 9.47
VI Virgo 12.10
VII Libra 29.57
VIII Sagittarius 2.32
IX Sagittarius 25.26
Midheaven Capricorn 16.16
XI Aquarius 9.47
XII Pisces 12.10

thank you!!!

posted August 26, 2005 08:47 PM              

Husband
October 15, 1964
Spartanburg, SC
not sure of the time

i have been seperated for about 9 months. Feelings between me and a close friend of mine are developing. His info is
dec 29 1973
11 18 pm
mount pleasant vermont

posted August 26, 2005 11:18 PM              

In the meantime, it sounds like you are ready to move on anyhow. Life has a way of moving us on, even when we are not sure of which direction to move...our instinct and intuition always tells us....we just don't always want to hear what it has to say!!

No worries...all will be well in you Life.
Have Faith in the Unknown...

posted August 27, 2005 10:41 AM              

GREAT!!! Lllog gave you a generous offer and I would definitely take him up on that kind gesture!

You have just been through transiting Pluto SQUARE to your natal Sun transit. That is a very transforming transit and this along with your current Pluto square Pluto transit combines for major changes in your thinking and Life in general.

There are two websites for you to know. The basic information is wonderful and everyone use the information to learn! It is a great place to begin to explore aspects about yourself with regard to astrology. Then you can move onto learning about synastry/relationships.

www.astro.com
http://www.bobmarksastrologer.com/TOClessons.htm

Review your Pluto transits....see if they ring true for you over the past year or two...what is happening now in your life has resulted from the changes Pluto has brought into your world. And these changes are usually for the best...one way or another!
Have Fun!!

GemStar

posted August 27, 2005 06:00 PM              

Pluto sq Pluto transits are quite destructive-yet transforming. Life is telling you that changes are necessary. In how you live, what you think....the past must be released if it has not met your soul goals. Sounds like there should not be any question about you moving on. Abusive situations are difficult and it is the choice of individuals who stay in them.

Because you no longer find your marriage arrangement healthy, you must let the relationship go as it stands now. My guess is that you have given your spouse many opportunities for change and it has not happened. TIme to release each other and find freedom. It will be the best choice for the children's sake-however, HOW you go about the change is most important!

Transits are a whole other leg of astrology and are something of a daily/current map of what is influencing your life at this moment. Astro.com has lots of great information so you can begin to learn about astrology.

Additionally, if you have not done so, I would suggest professional counseling to guide your choices at this time. Either through your insurance, EAP at work or the local Woman's Abuse Center...there is counseling for women (most often free) who are in your situation. Professional guidance is usually necessary and a great idea to help find the Best solution for your family. Good Luck!

posted August 28, 2005 11:13 AM              

me
9 11 69
8 40 pm
bridgeport conn.

posted August 28, 2005 11:57 AM              

You are asking questions that only YOU will be able to answer. Astrology is about possibilities, and explanations...not finite answers.

As I said before, learn more about astrology and yourself. When people are in our lives, the connections show up through astrology as well. You have connections with both men in question. (Both positive and negative-however, we all have both elements with each other).

For better or worse...people are also here to help us learn lessons too. One of the lessons is knowing when to release a dysfunctional connection. When you have difficulty doing so, you must examine yourself and WHY you somehow CHOOSE these connections. Astrology will identify this weakness usually. Either way though, it will be up to YOU to rise to the challenge and make new choices...by calling on your other strengths.

Just a few observations based on little to no information about you and your situation.

One-you and your spouse are no longer living together...that should give you one clue as to why the abuse has stopped.

Two-while it is important that your spouse has a relationship with the children, what does that have to do with leaving an abusive situation?? That is actually a separate issue.

Three-people's personalities do not change. There may be behaviors that can be modified but there is never a guarantee that it will be a permanent change. You know that. Certainly you have been there before...most likely, you will not be able to live together again. Do not delude yourself...and your best bet is to get into professional counseling to help with this transition.

Based on your transits, YOUR THINKING has changed...not your personality. There is a difference. You are no longer willing to put up with an abusive situation. Period. This is what is called transformation...courtesy of the planet Pluto! Move forward and not backward...you've already started the walk down a new path...try to trust yourself. Do not make the mistake of going back to the 'familiar', because it will usually be much worse than you are remembering at this moment.

Luv-astrology is not about Yes and No. So you will not find a definitive answer from anyone who is honest. YOU must make that choice...and you already know the answer but are afraid to follow your intuition. Be not afraid. Your road has not been easy...why continue back to a beaten-up path which you have already traveled...no surprises there and do not delude yourself otherwise.

YOU already know the answer.