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Topic: Clingy.... Virgo?
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Eangel
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posted September 03, 2005 10:32 AM
 
I've just recently broken up with my BF of six months, and now he won't leave me alone. He keeps trying to call me/e-mail me and acts like we're still going out. Although our charts look good, I can't stand him anymore and how harsh he is on my emotions, and I know that I will never ever be happy with him again. I just want him to leave me alone.Maybe some of you guys have some insight?Me:
Sun- Cancer
Moon- Libra
Merc- Gemini
Venus- Gemini
Mars- Pisces Him:
Sun- Virgo
Moon- Aquarius
Merc- Virgo
Venus- Cancer
Mars- Aries Aspects
Sun Sextile Sun
Sun Sextile Saturn
Moon Sextile Uranus
Mars Opposition Mercury
Mars Trine Venus
Jupiter Trine Mercury
Saturn Conjunction Saturn
Saturn Conjunction Uranus
Uranus Conjunction Saturn
Uranus Conjunction Uranus
Neptune Square Mars
Neptune Conjunction Neptune
Neptune Sextile Pluto
Pluto Conjunction Pluto ------------------
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Gemini Nymph
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posted September 03, 2005 11:06 AM
He's not being clingy. He's being passive-aggressive and oblivious. My suspicion: it's not that he feels he needs you, it's just this how he wants things, so he'll carry on like they're that way. It's stupid and rather insulting to you that he can't register what you want (i.e., for him to go away), but so guys are like that. He needs a reality check.You probably think he feels he needs you - you need to feel needed, and are probably a little vain (Cancer-Libra with Gem Venus and Pisces Mars)- but you're kidding yourself. He doesn't, and I doubt his real feelings for you are very deep (and probably never were). More than likely this behavior has more to do with him just wanting to control you. An Aqua moon with an Aries Mars (I know a guy with these placements) is likely a very self-absorbed type that need people to be very upfront and blunt at times with him, to snap him out of his personal reality. He'll want to think that whatever he wants is entirely possible - he can conceive and he can desire it, and therefore he thinks he can have it. You're just going to have to be very firm and consistant - I suggest one last, brief communication like "For the final time, I do not want you in my life" and then firmly ignore him. IP: Logged |
astro junkie
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posted September 06, 2005 04:30 PM
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