posted September 05, 2005 10:05 PM              

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Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra

"You must live in the infinite blackness that exists when I close my eyes. I see you when I fall asleep, I see you when I dream."

posted September 05, 2005 10:36 PM              

Good Luck!

posted September 05, 2005 10:56 PM              

Rushing in to tell Aquas how you feel usually wouldnt work in your favour, especially if you're not on the same wavelength...like havent been friends for awhile first.

At this point, I would keep your distance emotionally, but continue to communicate and reach him intellectually.

Based on the info you gave on him, the type of woman he would be attracted to is related to his Pisces Venus and Aries Moon.

Here are some interpretations on those signs from http://www.astrologyzine.com/attract-men.shtml

MOON or VENUS in PISCES
The type of woman who attracts you is romantic and emotional, or sensitive and passive. Should she be intriguing or mysterious or able to make you feel secure, she could really appeal to you.

You're a sucker for secret love affairs, and for people who need help or emotional support. You are compassionate yourself, and respond to women who are especially compassionate, caring, and selfless.

You may be attracted to especially creative or imaginative women, like artists and poets; or to women who are psychics or empaths (like Counselor Troi in the TV series "Star Trek, The Next Generation").

The sweet, ultra-feminine type of woman appeals to you - such as the "Southern Belle" or "Old-Fashioned Girl".

Saving a "damsel in distress" is a turn-on for you - and so is being helped or healed by a sympathetic savior or caring comforter or compassionate nurse

MOON or VENUS in ARIES
The type of woman who attracts you demonstrates a sense of independence and is bold, adventurous, or spontaneous. Think "Xena, Warrior Princess".

You'll respect the freedom of a woman like this; and might even encourage her to be more independent than she really wants to be. You admire strength and courage.

The "fiery" type can arouse you. "Competitive" women interest you.

You enjoy a challenge, and may find it enjoyable to be "chased" or seduced by an assertive woman - while offering sufficient resistance to make it interesting.

Strong, competitive, or athletic women may appeal to you; and some form of "competition" such as games or sports might be a turn-on for you. You want to win, but you can respect a woman who gives you a good match.

posted September 05, 2005 11:28 PM            

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Rushing in to tell Aquas how you feel usually wouldnt work in your favour, especially if you're not on the same wavelength...like havent been friends for awhile first.

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I suppose I didn't make that very clear, he's been my friend for about two years now. But we didn't become "close/good friends" until around Christmas time last year.

posted September 06, 2005 12:07 AM              

I just wanted to give my opinion about your situation. This is from my experience only, so take that into consideration.

Aquarius' are very much curious about females and people in general. They are social and love to talk and see how far they can get with females. I think they are just really nice people who are interested in anyone they met, especially female wise. They are not as serious as a taurus like me so i learned to be detached and just joke around. It is best to be friends with aquarius' and let them be free. They will settle down when they want to and until then they are just curious with anyone they met. They love to have friends and the more the better.

I have a question, how has your friendship been with him for the past 2 years? Did you talk and hang out often? What kind of things do you think you have in common? What do you think he liked about you as a friend?

Remember that you are a strong Taurus and you can overcome this slight problem going on now.

posted September 06, 2005 12:15 AM              

I think that you told him how you feel and you need to step back and let him do what he wants to do. If he doesn't want you then so be it, you don't want to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't want you anyways. So it is healthy to just move on. If he wants you, he knows what to do. I suppose you want to be friends with him either way, so just talk to him and confront him and tell him that you will be his friend regardless of what he feels toward you.

posted September 06, 2005 07:23 AM            

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I have a question, how has your friendship been with him for the past 2 years? Did you talk and hang out often? What kind of things do you think you have in common? What do you think he liked about you as a friend?

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I suppose that at first, we were not very close at all, we were just normal "friends"... we hung with the same group of people. And then, one day, around Christmas time something "clicked" with me, and during that "rush of inspiration" that we Taurus have, I learned more and more about him at a pretty fast and steady rate.

We like the same kind of music, like the same kind of people, like to hang out together... we were drawn to eachother by talking. We talk alot.. about the most random things, never really had a problem with talking. Oh, right, we're both concerned with health too, and we hate the boring routines that most of our friends do. (Usually it's friday night: movie, dinner and pool) We get really sick of that, we like being pretty random. (Even though my random is: Doing something different and planning ahead of time XD)

Ironically, after I admitted my feelings toward him, during the summer I became even closer friends with him than before as well!

In fact, we practically ditched everyone else, and started just hanging out together (along with our Libra friend) because we got so tired with the routine that our other friends enjoy so much and we got sick of wasting money at places we didn't want to go.

Usually, with men, I always just secretly adore from afar, but this time, I feel like I had to change myself, I really wanted something to happen this time, but, eh, I guess it wasn't meant to be (for now?!)

I suppose I'm just being bitter for the time being, and I just need time for everything to just sink in.

I know I need to clarify my feelings toward him, how I WANT WANT WANT to be his friend no matter what, but I'm too scared to talk to him at the moment about this again, during the whole situation I kept telling him "Don't worry, it's ok, I really have no say in this if you want a relationship with her =)" but he got mad at me saying that I shouldn't be so "faux" if i'm really not feeling happy at all. =/

And ~nae, thank you for the little insight inside an Aqua's mind. It is difficult to understand as a Taurus sometimes, but, that is just how we are.

alanabelle86:

AHAHAHAHAHAHAHA. I KNOW! It's sad I know X__X;

Thank you very much everyone for all of your support and advice, truly, thank you, and I am trying my best to overcome this situation.

posted September 06, 2005 11:12 AM              

Normaly Ic ould easily say we value freindship more... Even alot more... In our rite minds, we know well that freindship dies harder, is more eternal, therefore is closer to the value of gold, even beyond gold....

Then again,,, [atleast for us male Aqau's],,if a women can make us feel,,, like feel so strongly, even for a few brief moments like we are mortal of heart as anyone else is,,,,,,

then that to us becomes something of great importance to us as well.... If not just because its not everyday that we coem in contact with someone who has the effect of helping us feel passionatly, and I meen feel passionatly about any ol thing.... And in my personal experience, its been the presence of quite a few Scorpio women that have been able to have this effect on me, sometimes litteraly just by them physicaly being in the room.... Later on I may try and make light of it,,, especialy if it ends up not seeming for any purpose Ill do all to forget about it, and the women who actualy made me feel so deeply,,, but while in hte heat of passions from recetnly meeting a new person of this sort--- has soemtimes even seemed like nothing else on Earth matterd...

posted September 07, 2005 03:59 PM            

beebuddy: I see =) I want to reply more but it's more of just an acknowledgement to your post! Thank you very much.

Gemini Nymph: I feel the same way as you do too, but sometimes my feelings/emotions bubble up to the surface it's hard to avoid.. the bad part of my Taurus sun. I try very hard to keep my sensitive side in check. But I do enjoy cerebral and intellectual simulation as well -- I feel very lucky and happy to have air (as a Taurus).

And funkyaquarianpixie hahahahaha, I like men with glasses too (and a brain!) I happen to have a Gemini moon =)

Battle of Evermore: Same as beebuddy's reply, this is more of an acknowledgement of what you said, thank you very much for your reply!

Everyone, thank you so much for all of your input! I have recieved so many replies and I am so greatful! (I know I keep saying that, but I really am greatful!)